Curated / Chris
Writing, comments collation / shadow
Editors / KY Creators
A while ago, we asked everyone: In this world that is not gentle enough, what is the reason why you are still willing to insist? What makes you think of the world as cute as you think about it?
In the cold winter, the backstage has received a lot of warm and cute stories
I hope that today's article can bring some expectations and strength to those who leave a message saying that "I have been thinking about it for a long time and never remember the cuteness of the world".
01.
The world is still lovely, because in that depressed day, as long as I am willing to say that I want to go for a ride, hope to find companionship, my mother will drive me up the mountain, the morning more than 10 o'clock in the morning through the forest leaves into the car, along the road cool breeze, playing light music, next to the most beloved family, will feel that everything around suddenly come alive with color.
02.
Probably last winter, when I came out of class, it was completely dark. I stood next to the bike and Rummaged through my bag and couldn't touch the key. At this time, suddenly there was a light shining, I thought it was a car lamp that happened to pass by, and suddenly a boy's voice said: I will illuminate you, you slowly find. I thought, ah, this world is so good. It was probably the warmest thing last winter.
03.
The world is still cute, because my mother secretly told me that my father, who had been communicating very little, did his homework in order to register me in the psychiatric department, and recorded the doctor's information densely with a full page of paper, and stayed in front of the computer and mobile phone all night.
04.
The world is still lovely, from the beginning when I began to understand the love of my parents.
The last time I came home, my mother brought out a box of snacks for me to eat, and my mother told me that my father especially liked to eat this, but because of physical reasons, he was not suitable for such food, so my mother lied to him and said, "This is for my daughter to eat, you don't finish eating", and then my father never touched the box again.
At that time, I wanted to cry after listening to it, and I used to think about my father always beating me when I was young and there were many contradictions between us, and I was always unable to face the word affection well. They're just parents for the first time, and they're not perfect.
When I grew up, I encountered a lot of setbacks, I was afraid of becoming a useless person, and many times I was sad to die, but when I thought about it, in this world, there are people who love me unconditionally, I fail again, I am the most important person of my parents, I feel that failure is not so terrible, I may not be needed by the place I want to go, but I will always be needed by the people who love me.
05.
Last spring, I met a girl. When did you perceive the heartbeat? When the two people walked together, I looked at the back of her walking in front of me and felt like it. When the two people walked side by side, I looked at her shoulders wrapped in a denim jacket and felt like it. Whenever I think of her, I feel that the world is still lovely. I'm a girl too.
06.
Recently, I have been trapped in depression, often insomnia, emotional loss, inexplicable crying, inability to concentrate, memory loss, always have suicidal thoughts, and when examined, it is said that it is moderate depression. Never dare to tell family and friends, afraid that they are worried, and even more afraid that after saying it, the other party will feel that they are thinking too much or being sentimental, or even do not care at all.
Can only express their emotions by writing something on a social APP, received a lot of comfort and care from strangers, there is a person who will send messages and greetings every day, afraid that I really do stupid things, but also sent me virtual currency, saying "Although it may not be useful, but really hope you can come out, don't do stupid things, the world is still very beautiful." ”
Even if I couldn't get out right away as they had hoped, at least I knew there were people in the world who cared about me, and warmth. The world is really cold and cruel at times, but just for the warmth, it is worth my good walk.
07.
The world is still lovely, and it's really warm to be truly loved. Ex-boyfriends, whom I hadn't seen in years, met at a wedding party for a friend's wedding and reminded me of that unforgettable first love.
I tried to restrain my emotions as much as possible, and when I came home, I still didn't restrain myself from crying in front of my husband. He asked, what happened to you today? I said, I met the man. Then he took me in his arms and told me: It's all over! I think it's the warmest hug I've ever received in my life, and how inclusive it takes to be able to embrace such emotions. At this moment, I felt like I was married to the right person.
08.
This year I took the college entrance examination. Like many people, I am learning like crazy every day, but there are always times when I can't hold on. Once I was so sleepy that I woke up before class at the same desk. When the class bell rang, I felt her gently put her hand on my hand. I was a little surprised and looked up and asked her how she had woken me up like that. She smiled a little and said, call you that way, you are not easy to be frightened.
09.
Once I fell into depression after experiencing violence in schools and tried to ask family and friends for help, but they hated me for being pretentious. I was so hostile to everyone, hated the world, and was so lonely until I went to the zoo with my family that day to see the elephants.
There are many tourists, but the elephants all walk with their backs to the elephant house. I waved my hands and shouted at the elephants. Just as my family was feeling humiliated, one of the elephants turned and walked toward me, raising its nose and waving at me. I burst into tears, as if I had found an emotional connection that I could rely on, and I have been committed to the conservation of wildlife ever since. It was they that made me feel that the world was still very cute.
10.
Working in a travel company, I have never been abroad, looking at the places where those customers go to play every day, although I feel far away, but I still feel that I still have hope to go abroad, I want to go to New Zealand, it is really a good and beautiful place, think about such a beautiful place waiting for me to explore, I think the world is still quite cute. [Editor: I hope the epidemic can get better soon! 】
11.
The world is still lovely because I have a lovely daughter.
When my husband cheated on his co-workers, I was alone between busy work and broken homes. One night after work, I touched a small piece of paper on the pillow, and my six-year-old daughter wrote a sentence to me: "The little cotton jacket loves the big white goose, kiss you." Tears welled up in an instant.
12.
When I was studying in Japan, when I was working, a customer saw that I was a foreigner, so he deliberately looked for trouble, and called the store manager and said a lot of excessive words. I have been listening, accidentally crying out, just hiding in the kitchen to brush the plate does not want to go out, a customer next to him saw, when the store manager brought him a drink, he said to the store manager, please let the コウさん (the sign I brought with me says my last name) to send over. Then tell me that no matter what happens, I must refuel, there will be good things happening.
13.
I have a dog. Some people say that when a dog looks at you for a long time, it is hugging you with its eyes. Every time I come home, it comes to greet me warmly, I hold it in my arms, it looks me quietly into my eyes, and I feel like I'm the happiest person in the world.
14.
I have been studying abroad alone for a few years. A year ago, I met a black driver who was not highly educated and was the father of four girls. During the chat, he said that although he did not have the opportunity to receive higher education, he repeatedly stressed the importance of education with his daughter. He has switched jobs and chosen a life of displacement, just to keep his daughter away from the bad community environment.
He spoke proudly of his daughters' enviable lives today. When I learned that I myself (also a girl) was studying for a Ph.D. in the United States alone, he repeatedly said to me in the tone of a father: You must remember, you are great, and your parents must be very proud of you.
It was the first time I had gained such great spiritual power from a stranger of a different race and social class than me. Whenever I think of his words, I can't help but think of my parents who supported me from afar, of my like-minded partners, of running towards my ideals with all my might, and then my heart is full of gratitude.
Ky authors say:
A fan mentioned in the comments:
"There's a classic phrase in French, Deja vu, which means déjà vu about the things in front of you. Bloggers on Youtube have coined a new word, 'Des vu', which means looking at what is in front of you and feeling like everything will eventually become a memory.
Whenever I wait for the subway to see the train quickly depart, I will feel as if all this life will pass away, into a little fragment, intermittent memory, merit and fame will disappear, and the only thing that can be grasped is this moment, this moment.
Life is also born to death, and in the life before reaching the end, you must be cute to yourself. ”
I have also experienced moments like this, sitting in the car, looking at the city outside the window, and clearly feeling that this moment will eventually become an untouchable past in my memory. This moment will feel inner peace. Time will eventually find a way for everyone to settle down.
In the torrent of life, we encounter impermanence, feel the cruelty of the universe not transferring for our own will, and in the end, we can only hold in our hands the small sorrows and joys of the world.
May you, who are reading this article at the moment, find your reason for attachment to the world, like a kite, no matter how high it flies, there are people who hold the end of the line. May you and the reasons that make you like the world be able to have each other for a long time, because the only thing we can use to resist the cold of the world is each other's company.
May you find more evidence of the world's cuteness in 2022.
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