Children's education is a headache for many parents, many children are the hope of a family, everyone in the family expects children to become talented, and the education of children is very important, and they are eager to give the best educational resources to children.
But many parents have found such a problem, even if it is to spend a huge amount of money to make up lessons for their children, send their children to particularly good schools and particularly good classes, the children's grades are still not ideal, is the child really not smart?
In fact, it is not so, there are many parents who miss the opportunity for their children to become smart, many parents feel that children can not pay attention to primary school, primary school things are very simple, children need to pay attention to junior high school, do not pay attention to primary school can also let children have a relaxed and beautiful childhood, the best of both worlds, do not know, many parents have done this has been wrong, children have three opportunities to become smart in their lives, these three opportunities are not junior high school period, every parent should know these three opportunities early.
The professor at Harvard University said that the three important stages of children becoming smart are before the age of 10, and parents should pay attention to these three opportunities before the age of ten, and know early to benefit.
The child's brain will go through a stage of rapid development before the age of ten, and after the age of ten, that is, when the child is about to graduate from primary school, the child's brain development has been almost perfected, just like a bottle of water has been filled, you want to put in excess water, you may not be able to stuff it, in the same way, at this stage to develop the child's brain, improve the child's IQ will become very difficult.
Three chances for kids to get smarter
The first node is at 0-3 years old
Through scientific research, the brain is only about 370 grams when the child is just born, and the child can increase to 660 grams when he is 9 months old; 3 years old can reach 1200 grams, accounting for about 70%-80% of adult brain weight, that is, when the child is three years old, the brain development is similar to that of adults.
The child's brain development needs to be stimulated, and the IQ is high after growing up, but also depends on whether the parents can grasp the critical period of the child's brain development, and if the parents carry out the correct early education for the child, it will be more effective with half the effort.
Under normal circumstances, 0-1 year old babies are more sensitive to the stimulation of sound, and parents can guide their children to distinguish some sounds at this time.
Before the age of two is a critical period for the development of the baby's movements, the baby will gradually crawl after the full moon, parents can take the child to crawl and develop the baby's movements.
1-3 years old is also a critical period of baby language development, parents can tutor the baby to speak, the child will just imitate the parents to speak, parents should let the baby gradually understand the meaning of each word, such as teaching the child to call the mother, turn the child's head to the mother.
The second node is at 3-6 years old
The second critical period for children to become smart is three to six years old, when the child's brain development tends to be flattened, at which time the child will gain more physical coordination.
Some parents can seize this period to make their children smarter, send their children to some early education classes, kindergartens, so that they receive good education and guidance, at this time, children will become smarter.
The third node is 8-10 years old
8-10-year-old babies have gradually had their own thoughts, this period is also a critical period for the establishment of baby values, they can know what is right and wrong through the guidance of parents and teachers, parents can start to exercise their children's emotional intelligence from this time, the child's ability to deal with people, help children develop a good character.
There are many parents who educate their children to have a good childhood, ignoring the child's preschool education and prenatal education, and ignoring the critical period when the baby becomes smart.
The critical period when the child becomes smart, parents must not be able to ignore, grasp the key period when the child becomes smart, and the child's learning will be relaxed in the future, and the parents will become relaxed.