As the saying goes: "Parents are the first teachers of children", so every word and deed of parents and every move will affect the character of children all the time, but fathers and mothers, two people who play an important role in the life of children, have different influences on children, which is the nature of men and women, and there is an essential difference between men and women.
According to relevant studies, the father's personality will directly affect the daughter's personality, a good father can make the daughter more positive and optimistic to face the world, more courageous to face all the problems encountered in life, full of hope for life, and the father will boldly encourage the daughter to contact some new things, so that the child is more knowledgeable and knowledgeable. In general, a good father has a good influence on the child, but the mother is a gentle and kind, more delicate role, the mother and the father have a big difference in the influence of the daughter, the mother is more to make the child become gentle and delicate, and will not let the child easily try dangerous things, the mother will always worry about making the child careful, so the father and the mother will influence each other The child's personality will tend to be neutral, will tend to be perfect, and will become good enough, so what impact will the father have on the girl? Let's talk about it.
(1) The father influences the daughter to find a partner in the future
Most fathers play a tall and majestic role in the minds of their daughters, they are the object of daughter worship, and the love given by the father to the daughter is the kind of security that can penetrate into the child's heart, so there is a common phenomenon, the daughter will take her father as the goal and find a suitable partner for herself, so the father's personality and father's behavior affect the daughter's future concept of marriage and love at all times, and a correct concept of marriage and love directly determines the happiness of the child in the second half of life. Therefore, as a father, you must establish a good view of marriage and love for your children.
(2) The father influences the daughter to communicate with the boys
As the child grows up slowly, the child has gradually entered puberty, puberty for the child is a period of ignorance of the knowledge of the sex, many children are difficult to deal with the relationship between themselves and the opposite sex, do not know how to start, and even dare not face the opposite sex, this is a very normal and common thing, so at this moment parents play an important role of guide, for girls The father's attitude and guidance determine whether the daughter and the boy can communicate normally and well, once the father does not do a good job, It is very likely that the child will have an early love situation and let the child have a rebellious situation, so the father must be a correct guide at this moment and not interfere too much in the child's life.
(3) The father gives the daughter a sense of security
The father's figure is larger than the mother's, and the arms are naturally more powerful, so it will bring more security to the daughter. When the daughter is slightly older, if you want to hug, the mother may reject the child because of her own strength or too tired, but the father is happy to hold the daughter at any time, so in the long run the daughter will be more dependent on the father, closer to the father, and the daughter generally worships the father when she is small, thinking that with the father around, she can not be afraid of the sky, which is an innate sense of security that the father brings to the daughter.
So what do you think about that?