The author | Dr. Hailan
Source| Dr. Hailan (ID: hailanboshi)
There is a sentence in the book "Growing Up in Parenting":
"Parent-child relationships are the noblest and most gratifying thing in the world, and nothing on earth can compare to them."
It can be said that parents and children are the closest relationship, but not all parents can make children love attachment wholeheartedly.
Beijing has surveyed more than 3,000 middle school students on their "attitudes toward their parents."
Among them, only 4.75% of the children said that they liked their parents, while the children who expressed extreme disgust or hatred for their parents were as high as 56.28%.
Such a contrast has shocked countless parents.
After researching many homeschooling methods, I have summarized the 10 things that children hate most from their parents, and see if you have done these things.
It is said that parenting first raises yourself, what kind of person you want your child to grow into, you must first set a good example.
Writer Liu Na once said this:
"Parents' words and deeds hide the child's cognition, the child's fate also carries the weight of the parents, and the parents' words and deeds to some extent contain the child's disaster and well-being."
Therefore, on the road of education, when parents accompany their children to grow, they must also do timely self-examination and constantly improve their shortcomings.
Only in this way can we correct their behavior in time before the child is disappointed in themselves, and save their image and prestige in the child's mind.
Click "watching", may every parent become the light and love on the road of their children's growth, rather than shadows and harm.
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| Source: Dr. Hailan (ID: hailanboshi), an expert in emotional management and happiness research; author of the best-selling book series "Imperfect Talent"; Top Ten Brands of Women in China in 2018; Pioneer of Peer Education Growth System; Founder of Hailan Happiness Home.
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