Mr. Miyazaki once said: "I can accept failure, but I absolutely cannot accept myself who has not struggled" The fact is exactly like this, even if I fail, but at least I have tried, I do not regret it. No matter what it is, even if it is only one percent success rate, you don't have to fight and try it, how do you know that you can't do it?
On the road of life, there may be many tribulations, it is easy to give up, and although it is difficult to persist, but I have worked hard and struggled, I can also feel at ease. "To save Han Qing, I will fight until the last breath." This short sentence also contains Yu Fengzhi's determination to Zhang Xueliang. Her life experience of more than 90 years also lets us know what is called life and death and loyalty.
Zhang Xueliang, Yu Fengzhi
Although in the end Yu Fengzhi and Zhang Xueliang did not meet after all, but she was constantly struggling to save Zhang Xueliang, this belief in the end of the struggle has always made her persist, it can be said that the story between Zhang Xueliang and Yu Fengzhi is also full of twists and turns, but also let us see a brave, strong strong woman.
First, marry Han Qing to win trust
Yu Fengzhi is the daughter of the wealthy businessman Yu Wendou, and when she was 11 years old, she was also designated by her parents to marry Zhang Xueliang, who was 3 years younger. Yu Fengzhi was Zhang Xueliang's original wife, because Yu Fengzhi's appearance was outstanding, and his father Yu Wendou was well educated by Zhang Zuolin, which made Zhang Zuolin pay special attention to Yu Fengzhi's daughter-in-law.
Yu Fengzhi
Yu Fengzhi is a woman who coexists with beauty and wisdom, and even Ai Xinjue Luo Pujie praises her beauty. By chance, Zhang Zuolin also promised Yu Wendou that as long as he could gain power, he would definitely let his son marry Yu Fengzhi. And Yu Fengzhi eventually became Zhang Zuolin's daughter-in-law.
Because his marriage was handled by his father, Zhang Xueliang has always been very dissatisfied.
And because Yu Fengzhi is 3 years old, Zhang Xueliang has always been called Yu Fengzhi as the eldest sister. Although Zhang Xueliang was not honest outside of marriage, Yu Fengzhi did not worry about him because of his girlfriend. Yu Fengzhi herself is a learned and understanding person, after marrying the Marshal's Mansion, she is also the same as usual, and does not put up any shelf, the people of the Marshal's Mansion are very close to her, she has also won the trust between the Shuai Mansion and the old marshal and the young marshal. The married life with Zhang Xueliang, in the eyes of outsiders, is also very sweet and happy.
Second, go to the United States to seek medical treatment and don't be a young marshal
But there are always unsatisfactory times in life, and she has been accompanying Zhang Xueliang after the Xi'an incident, and she was diagnosed with breast cancer. In the case of deteriorating conditions, she also had to go to the United States for treatment and left the young marshal. Because of the Xi'an Incident, Chiang Kai-shek hated Zhang Xueliang to the bone, so he imprisoned him. From Nanjing to Fenghua in Zhejiang, Huangshan in Anhui, Pingxiang in Jiangxi, Chenzhou in Hunan, yuanling in Hunan, and then transferred to Xiuwenyang Mingdong in Guizhou in 1940. In these 4 years of seclusion, Yu Fengzhi has always accompanied Zhang Xueliang.
In these more than 1,000 days and nights, Yu Fengzhi also accompanied Zhang Xueliang to live a life of a prisoner, in this case, she also suffered from breast cancer, in that era, this disease was undoubtedly sentenced to death, and later with the help of Song Meiling, Yu Fengzhi also went to the United States for treatment, and also began a separate life with Zhang Xueliang.
After the operation, she finally saved this life, but the postoperative chemotherapy made him miserable, his hair almost fell out, his body was increasingly haggard, thin enough to be only skin and bones, and her husband was still in seclusion, which made her miserable, and she did not expect that this separation would become forever.
Third, fight for the life stock market
After being discharged from the hospital, Yu Fengzhi lived in her daughter's home, and during her physical recovery, she also quickly began to communicate basically in English through the tutor hired by her daughter. As her health improved, she also thought of a very difficult problem, that is, the need for money. The release of the husband, the later life, the schooling of children, the treatment of their own diseases, this series of things are inseparable from money.
Later, she followed Lena, the wife of the former US minister to Beijing, to the Wall Street stock exchange, and she listened to Lena say that some people here can become millionaires overnight, and some people have become poor overnight, and she began to enter the stock market with the idea of trying it out.
With her own educational foundation and her father's inherited business genes, in one bold attempt after another, Yu Fengzhi also earned her first bucket of gold, and after slowly having some surplus, Yu Fengzhi also set her sights on renting and selling real estate, so her source of income began to stabilize, and the money thing was no longer bothering her, but what she couldn't put down was the young marshal.
Fourth, forced to divorce the young marshal
In the more than twenty years of companionship between Yu Fengzhi and Zhang Xueliang, although Zhang Xueliang always called her eldest sister, Yu Fengzhi also gave time, care, understanding, love and help to the young marshal. Because she was afraid that Zhang Xueliang would settle in the United States in the name of visiting relatives, Song Meiling forced Yu Fengzhi and Zhang Xueliang to divorce by formal means, and for the safety of her husband, Yu Fengzhi signed the divorce agreement.
Chang
But others still call him Mrs. Zhang, whether it is Zhang Xueliang's letter to her or Song Meiling's greeting card to her, she is called Mrs. Zhang. When she remembered that her husband was still imprisoned, Yu Fengzhi would feel pain, especially the publication of the Confessions of the Xi'an Incident, which shocked and angered her.
In order to fight back, Yu Fengzhi also convened the media in the United States to "seek revenge for her husband", which also affected the Then Chiang Kai-shek government. But he still failed to meet Han Qing, and finally Yu Fengzhi also understood. Because Zhang Xueliang was in their hands, like a caged bird, it was very easy to clean up Zhang Xueliang, and they forced Yu Feng to divorce Zhang Xueliang, but they also did not want any variables.
For the safety of Zhang Xueliang, Yu Fengzhi divorced Zhang Xueliang under the forced helplessness, until Fengzhi died of heart disease at the age of 93 and failed to see Zhang Xueliang again, but Yu Fengzhi was also worried about Zhang Xueliang until his death.
Conclusion: Yu Fengzhi lived in the United States to her death, during this period of fifty years, in these fifty years, she worked alone, raised children alone, and even more by virtue of her strength, she has always overcome the disease, but she has never been able to see Zhang Xueliang's side, I think this has always been a regret in her heart.
"Save Hanqing, I want to fight until the last breath" A short sentence touched us, her obsession made her persist for fifty years, although in the end she failed to achieve her wishes, but Yu Fengzhi's feelings for the young marshal made us admire, but also touched her perseverance and spirit of struggle.
We will encounter many setbacks on the road of life, we will fail, but we must have the spirit of daring to struggle, just like Yu Fengzhi, I have an obsession in my heart, I will use everything to fight, no matter success or failure!