Since ancient times, heroes are lustful, but they may not be lustful heroes.
Although I am not a hero, I am only lustful like a hero.
This is a poem written by Zhang Xueliang in his later years, and he does not shy away from revealing his heroic nature is lustful.
In 2015, the TV series "Young Marshal" brought Zhang Zuolin and Zhang Xueliang, a father and son who are controversial in history, to the screen.
Not only does it allow us to understand the brilliant and bumpy life of the father and son, but also we unveil a historical mystery: why did Zhang Xueliang die and refuse to be buried with the original wife Yu Fengzhi?
And to answer this question, we must first start with Yu Fengzhi's name.
In June 1897, Yu Fengzhi was born.
Just when Yu Fengzhi's father, Yu Wendou, was struggling with the name of his beloved daughter, a fortune teller came to the family.
After the birthday of the eight characters, the fortune teller said to Wen Dou: Ling Qianjin is a "phoenix life", a lifetime of gold and jade food, married into the high gate, but middle age may have a disease, old age ...
No matter how anxious Yu Wendou was, the fortune teller refused to continue talking, and even the fortune teller's reward did not want to leave in a hurry.
So Yu Wendou named his beloved daughter "Fengzhi", which means "the arrival of the phoenix". One is to respond to the "phoenix life" said by the fortune teller, and the other is to hope that the arrival of the phoenix can wash away the future bad luck of the beloved daughter and bring good luck to the yu family.
This name did not matter, but it became the first factor for Zhang Zuolin to remember Yu Fengzhi in the future.
How did Zhang Zuolin remember Yu Fengzhi? This has to start from the friendship between Zhang Zuolin and Yu Fengzhi's father, Yu Wendou.
In April 1908, Zhang Zuolin was ordered to lead his troops to garrison Zhengjiatun to suppress bandits. Zhang Zuolin proposed to requisition the grain stack for WenDou as the headquarters for suppressing bandits, and Yu Wendou happily agreed without saying a word.
When they first met, the two talked very speculatively, and immediately called each other brothers and brothers.
During a task to suppress bandits, Zhang Zuolin was accidentally attacked and almost killed in Huangquan. Thanks to Wen Dou's timely help, Zhang Zuolin was able to get out of danger, which made Zhang Zuolin more certain in his heart that he and Yu Wendou had a deep relationship.
Zhang Zuolin often visited Yu Wendou, and each time he was in Wendou's study. Once, zhang Zuolin saw a calligraphy work with beautiful handwriting, so he asked Yu Wendou: "This word is good, who wrote it?" ”
Yu Wendou laughed, "Yu Ting is falsely praised, but it is just a little girl's play." ”
The speaker has no intention, the listener intends. In fact, Zhang Zuolin already knew that Yu Wendou had a wise and beautiful daughter, but he had never seen her face, and he did not expect that her calligraphy could be written so beautifully, and he also heard that Yu Wendou's daughter was "Fengfeng".
"Fengfeng Fengfeng", in Zhang Zuolin's view, her future husband is not also expensive? Moreover, Yu Wendou's wealth is great, if he can kiss him, wouldn't it be more beneficial to himself? Zhang Zuolin secretly remembered this family affair.
When Zhang Zuolin visited Yu Wendou again, he finally met Yu Fengzhi. Yu Fengzhi, who is only 11 years old, is old and cardamom, generous, and unfazed, showing everyone's showy attitude. Zhang Zuolin's poisonous eyes caught Yu Fengzhi at a glance and decided that he wanted Yu Fengzhi to be his daughter-in-law, and Zhang Xueliang was only 7 years old at the time.
Zhang Zuolin immediately found a fortune teller to combine Zhang Xueliang and Yu Fengzhi's birthday eight characters, and after the fortune teller met, he said: Feng Feng is auspicious, the lord is noble, and there is help for husband luck. The two lives coincide, complement each other, and complement each other.
Zhang Zuolin, who believed in fate, laughed when he heard it, the eight characters were very appropriate, Yu Fengzhi was also a girl with excellent tutoring qualities, coupled with Yu Wendou's strong financial resources, absolutely the door was right, this family affair could not be more appropriate.
Zhang Zuolin and Yu Wendou made a decision on the spot and decided on this family affair.
Zhang Zuolin had married Six Houses before and after, and compared with his own wives, none of them could compare with Yu Fengzhi. And Zhang Zuolin needed Yu Fengzhi's daughter-in-law who was of good character and virtuous and virtuous to orthodoxize his old Zhang family's family style and bloodline.
In Zhang Zuolin's view, he chose a virtuous wife for Zhang Xueliang. If Zhang Xueliang doesn't like it, he can raise a woman he likes outside. And Zhang Zuolin did not expect Zhang Xueliang to be able to treat Fengzhi from the beginning to the end, but from all aspects, Yu Fengzhi was the most suitable.
Zhang Zuolin knew that from the very beginning, Zhang Xueliang did not like Yu Fengzhi.
Zhang Xueliang strongly opposed this family affair. First, he didn't like Yu Fengzhi, so if he did, how could he oppose it? Second, he objected to the helplessness behind the marriage that reflected the inability to decide his own marriage.
The feudal marriage of the parents' concubines is already outdated in the eyes of Zhang Xueliang, who has received Western education. But this is not important, what matters is that Zhang Zuolin thinks it is appropriate.
In the face of Zhang Xueliang, who was strongly opposed, in order to promote this family affair, Zhang Zuolin, the "King of northeast China", also had to make a certain compromise, and he said to Zhang Xueliang: "The original match of your main room must be determined by me." As for the future, you are out there, looking for a woman or not, I can leave it alone. ”
Zhang Xueliang got such a promise from Zhang Zuolin, and he no longer had a hard confrontation with Zhang Zuolin.
So, in 1915, Zhang Xueliang and Yu Fengzhi got married.
Unexpectedly, Zhang Zuolin's promise secretly opened an opening for Zhang Xueliang to find flowers outside and ask Liu. It is also this sentence that can be said to have harmed Yu Fengzhi for a lifetime.
Zhang Xueliang did not like Yu Fengzhi, and because Yu Fengzhi was 4 years older than Zhang Xueliang, he called Yu Fengzhi "Big Sister".
On the wedding night, Yu Fengzhi said to Zhang Xueliang: "You have to promise the eldest sister that no matter how many women there are outside, you are not allowed to bring them home." Zhang Xueliang agreed with a full mouth.
Inadvertently, Yu Fengzhi also hinted that Zhang Xueliang could be outside, and her generosity and tolerance actually dug a pit for herself, so that Zhang Xueliang had sufficient reasons to find women outside.
Zhang Zuolin's promise to Zhang Xueliang and Yu Fengzhi's hints made Zhang Xueliang even more unscrupulous in finding women outside.
Yu Fengzhi is not from a large family, and after marriage, she kept the Zhang family in order. And Zhang Xueliang, who has no feelings for Fengzhi, can pick flowers and stir up grass outside, and Yu Fengzhi also turns a blind eye to this.
The marriage between Zhang Xueliang and Yu Fengzhi is also a victim of feudal marriage, which is mixed with too many entanglements of interests, and the feelings are so worthless, which also lays the bitter fruit for Yu Fengzhi's tragic old age.
Zhang Xueliang has had at least 11 women before and after, but the only ones who make him unforgettable are Yu Fengzhi and Miss Zhao Si: Zhao Qixia.
We all know that Zhang Xueliang chose to be buried with Miss Zhao Si after his death, how did Zhang Xueliang meet and fall in love with Miss Zhao Si? Don't worry, let's come one by one.
In 1927, Zhang Xueliang and Miss Zhao Si met at a dance party at the Grand Washington Hotel in Tianjin, when Miss Zhao Si was only 15 years old.
Zhang Xueliang invited Miss Zhao Si to dance together, and he felt: Miss Zhao Si is an extraordinary woman, she has thoughts that women who only cherish white and tender skin do not have; she usually wears light makeup and does not apply powder, but reveals the natural beauty of women; her thinking is cheerful, and her words often contain a strong feeling of worrying about the country and the people.
These virtues of Miss Zhao Si are missing from ordinary young girls, and Zhang Xueliang has a strong admiration for her from the depths of his heart.
So Zhang Xueliang gave Miss Zhao Si a necklace, and Miss Zhao Si secretly hid a thing in the chain pendant.
After Zhang Xueliang opened the chain pendant cover, he saw that it was inlaid with a photo of himself, and six words were written on the back of the photo: The one who truly loves me is him.
Suddenly, Zhang Xueliang felt Miss Zhao Si's admiration for him. Two hearts full of youthful vitality are burning, and the two are immersed in a fierce love...
Due to the tense situation and the urgency of the war, Zhang Xueliang could not take care of too much entanglement with Miss Zhao Si, so he hurried to the battlefield...
On June 4, 1928, Zhang Zuolin was killed in the Huanggutun Incident.
In late May 1929, Zhang Xueliang suddenly felt relaxed after dealing with Zhang Zuolin's various posthumous incidents.
At this time, Zhang Xueliang's longing for Miss Zhao Si made him restless, and he could no longer control his thoughts of Miss Zhao Si, so he called Miss Zhao Si.
Miss Zhao Si received a call from Zhang Xueliang, was overjoyed, and rushed to Fengtian from Tianjin without her family.
Three days later, Miss Zhao Si met Zhang Xueliang, who was thinking about it day and night.
The two people who had not seen each other for a long time hugged each other tightly, and Miss Zhao Si said to Zhang Xueliang: "I love you and will always be with you." ”
Zhang Xueliang responded with a heavy heart: "Xia, I love you too." I love you not just for a moment of happiness, although I already have a family, but please believe that I will always be good to you. Your intelligence and talent is incomparable to that of the average woman, you can be my secretary or a squire, and I need you..."
"Since fate has led me to your side, I am willing to follow you for the rest of my life, Han Qing!" Miss Zhao Si said affectionately to Zhang Xueliang.
At this point, Zhang Xueliang secretly lived with Miss Zhao Si in the Beiling Villa.
After Yu Fengzhi learned of this, he said to Zhang Xueliang: "Zhao Si cannot live in the Shuai Mansion, and cannot have a formal name as a lady. ”
Yu Fengzhi originally wanted to force Miss Zhao Si to leave Zhang Xueliang, but Miss Zhao Si not only accepted the conditions proposed by Yu Fengzhi, but also told Zhang Xueliang: "I eloped to Fengtian, not to fight for the name of a lady, I just want to follow you forever." ”
Zhang Xueliang was unusually touched after listening, Mo said that Zhang Xueliang, any man will be deeply moved after listening.
Two women of equal stature are aware of the overall situation and consider the overall situation. One is his original match, famous, but Zhang Xueliang has no actual love for Fengzhi. One is his own friendship, although he has no name, but he is Zhang Xueliang's favorite. Zhang Xueliang pinned more thoughts and love on Miss Zhao Si.
In March 1936, Yu Fengzhi was concerned about his children studying in Britain, and after consulting with Zhang Xueliang, he returned to England to take care of the children. At this time, Miss Zhao Si was still with Zhang Xueliang.
At 1:00 a.m. on December 12, 1936, Zhang Xueliang issued an order to all the officers and men of the Guard Battalion to capture Chiang Kai-shek alive, and after the "Xi'an Incident" broke out, Zhang Xueliang was placed under house arrest by Chiang Kai-shek in Nanjing.
Yu Fengzhi, who was far away in England, did not know that Zhang Xueliang was under house arrest, and Miss Zhao Si, who was worried about Zhang Xueliang, resolutely went to Nanjing to accompany Zhang Xueliang through the difficulties.
In 1937, Yu Fengzhi rushed from England to Nanjing after learning that Zhang Xueliang was under house arrest. With the company of Yu Fengzhi, Miss Zhao Si temporarily left Nanjing with the permission of Chiang Kai-shek.
In the winter of 1939, Yu Fengzhi, who accompanied Zhang Xueliang for 3 years under house arrest, unfortunately suffered from breast cancer and died on the line. Zhang Xueliang offered to go to the United States for medical treatment, and Song Meiling persuaded Chiang Kai-shek to continue to accompany Zhang Xueliang by Miss Zhao Si.
In early 1940, Yu Fengzhi was about to go to the United States for medical treatment. Before leaving, Yu Fengzhi asked Zhang Xueliang for the telegram that Chiang Kai-shek ordered Zhang Xueliang not to resist the Japanese army during the September 18 Incident.
Zhang Xueliang understood that Yu Fengzhi's intention in taking the telegram was to prevent someone from poisoning him. Zhang Xueliang said to Feng Zhi gratefully: "The eldest sister has a deep sense of righteousness for Xueliang, and I will never forget it!" ”
I never thought that Yu Feng would go to the United States for the last time in his life, and after that, he would go their separate ways and never see each other.
In November 1946, Zhang Xueliang and Miss Zhao Si were secretly transferred to Taiwan to remain under house arrest by Chiang Kai-shek.
In the autumn of 1963, Yu Fengzhi, who was in her sixties in the United States, received her first handwritten letter since she and Zhang Xueliang separated in 1940. In the letter, Zhang Xueliang requested a divorce from Yu Fengzhi.
Yu Fengzhi thought that he had not fulfilled his responsibilities and obligations as a wife for more than 20 years, and felt deeply guilty. And was touched by miss Zhao Si's loyal love that accompanied Zhang Xueliang for more than 20 years.
In order to do his last modest contribution as a wife, Yu Fengzhi agreed to Zhang Xueliang's request.
Yu Fengzhi wrote back to Zhang Xueliang: "Accept the request for divorce and express my blessings to Miss Zhao Si!" The love between you is pure and flawless, and it can be called a confidant. Especially Qi Xia's sister, who selflessly sacrificed everything she had, worked hard and complained, and accompanied Han Qing, which was really a high wind and bright festival, and the world was a monument. In fact, you two should have formed a silk rose a long time ago. I would like to congratulate you on your wedding in a foreign country! ”
On July 4, 1964, Zhang Xueliang and Miss Zhao Si finally married after more than 30 years of ups and downs. At that time, Zhang Xueliang was 64 years old, and Miss Zhao Si was 53 years old.
There were 12 people, including Song Meiling, Zhang Qun, senior minister of the "Presidential Palace", Wang Xinheng, "legislator", He Shili, "national policy adviser", and Zhang Daqian, painter.
At that time, Taiwan's "Lianhe Bao" disclosed to the world the great news of the marriage of Zhang Xueliang and Miss Zhao Si:
Thirty years of cold and warm, contemporary frost love.
Young Marshal Zhao Si was officially married.
Red pink confidant white first alliance.
Night rain autumn lights, pear blossom begonias accompany the old.
The small building is east wind, and the past is unbearable.
Fingers are on the fingers, and it seems that the Japanese side is long...
Miss Zhao Si read the news in the newspaper and said affectionately: "Han Qing, how much I want to become the Zhao Si of that year!" However, the years did not spare people, and I was old. ”
"No, you're still my Qi xia." Zhang Xueliang hugged Miss Zhao Si and said sincerely, "I love you, I can't do without you, you are my everything!" ”
It can be seen that the person Zhang Xueliang really loves is Miss Zhao Si, and there is a real love between him and Miss Zhao Si. Although the young Zhang Xueliang is extremely affectionate, he has always had a deep affection for Miss Zhao Si.
In 1990, Yu Fengzhi heard that Zhang Xueliang was about to visit relatives and friends in the United States, and specially bought a crutch to prepare to greet Zhang Xueliang and Miss Zhao Si, but it backfired.
In March 1990, Yu Fengzhi's only concern on the occasion of his death was not to see Zhang Xueliang completely free. At her bedside, there were doctors and daughters, but only Zhang Xueliang, the man she loved all her life, was missing, and how she hoped to see him again before she died.
On the night of the 20th, thousands of miles away from the homeland, with her deep regret, Yu Fengzhi's pulse stopped beating, and she left this world forever.
For 50 years, half a century, she had not been able to see her beloved side again...
The next day, Zhang Xueliang received a phone call from the United States, and after he learned of Yu Fengzhi's death, he did not speak for a long time. His "eldest sister" finally went, and at that moment, he was speechless.
His "big sister" remembered him for the rest of his life, and he...
In his later years, Yu Fengzhi hoped that Zhang Xueliang would settle in the United States. She used the money she earned from stock speculation and real estate investment to buy a villa for Zhang Xueliang and arranged it according to the appearance of their old residence.
Although Zhang Xueliang later moved to the United States, he did not live in the villa prepared for him by Yu Fengzhi. A piece of affection, let down by Zhang Xueliang. But Yu Fengzhi's love and righteousness are remembered by the world.
In 1990, Zhang Xueliang came to Yu Fengzhi's tomb. He muttered to himself, "Big sister, I've come to see you!" You're in too much of a hurry, and if you wait a little longer, maybe we'll be able to meet. ”
Yu Fengzhi's tombstone is inscribed: Mr. Zhang Xueliang's wife, Zhang Fengzhi's tomb.
Before Yu Feng died, she specially asked someone to leave a tomb for Zhang Xueliang next to her tomb, and she hoped that Zhang Xueliang could be buried next to her after a hundred years, so that the two tombs could look at each other.
Under the thought, I still haven't forgotten it. But in the end, she was alone, lonely and lonely.
Bidding farewell to Yu Fengzhi's tomb and the empty cave of the tomb, Zhang Xueliang, who had mixed feelings, wrote: "There is no regret in the body, the only love woman!" ”
In 2000, Miss Zhao Si died in the United States.
A year later, on October 14, 2001, Zhang Xueliang also followed Miss Zhao Si.
If you have been disappointed in your life, why should you mind one more time? Zhang Xueliang resolutely chose to be buried with Miss Zhao Si.
At this point, Yu Fengzhi's lifelong affection, and finally being let down a chicken feather!
She was always his "big sister" in his eyes, but not his favorite.