Today's women's newspaper "Recognize Women's Pictures" column
Zhang Xueliang and Yu Fengzhi.
"Qing name phoenix to unusual, phoenix to fall to the Phoenix Mountain, deep mountains ancient temple more Sanskrit, there is no heaven and earth non-human."
The person with such an extraordinary and moving name as "Fengzhi" is Zhang Xueliang's wife Yu Fengzhi. This poem was also written by Zhang Xueliang to Yu Fengzhi in the midst of war and chaos.
Regarding Zhang Xueliang's love history, the world knows miss Zhao Si. "Zhao Si is crazy and crazy, and the butterflies are just going", whether at that time or in later generations, the love between the young marshal and Zhao Si was vigorous. In contrast, Zhang Xueliang's original wife, Yu Fengzhi, is like a background board, which is very vague under the reflection of the young marshal's various beautiful smells.
However, in addition to the label of "Zhang Xueliang's original husband", Yu Fengzhi was really a strange woman with culture, thought and courage in that era, and was the top outstanding talent among the many bridesmaids in the Republic of China period.
Yu Fengzhi's father, Yu Wendou, was a well-known wealthy businessman in the northeast who once funded Zhang Zuolin, who was hunted down and killed by officers and soldiers. After Zhang Zuolin entered the lord of Fengtian, Yu Fuzhong saw Yu Wendou's eldest daughter Yu Fengzhi, occupy the Gua Ti, saying that she had a "phoenix life", and he urged Zhang Xueliang to set a lifelong appointment, which was considered to be a thank you to Wen Dou. At that time, Zhang Xueliang was only 15 years old, and Yu Fengzhi was 3 years older than him.
This was a typical arranged marriage, and Zhang Xueliang was said to be very resistant at the time. But after seeing it, he was amazed by Yu Fengzhi's beauty and immediately agreed to the marriage.
The photographic technology of the early last century was very ruinous, often very good looks, and it was good to take out five or six points, but even so, the woman in the photo was still very beautiful. Ai Xinjue Luo Pujie met Yu Fengzhi and once marveled at his "appearance like a clear lotus after the rain". It can be seen that Fengzhi's appearance is very outstanding.
On the act of life, Yu Fengzhi has the courage and knowledge, and does not let the eyebrows be shaved. After Zhang Zuolin's death, in order to stabilize the situation, she insisted on keeping the secret of the funeral, invited a British doctor, pretended to heal the wounds of the marshal, and the kitchen delivered meals to Zhang Zuolin's "wounded" small Green Building every day as usual, opium and fruits were also replaced on time, and the Japanese troops who sent people to "comfort and ask for help" every day were circumvented.
It was she who presided over the overall situation, which enabled Zhang Xueliang to secretly sneak back to Shenyang for mourning, and completed the transfer of military and political power in the northeast silently. After that, she fully supported Zhang Xueliang's "Yi Zhi". In other words, Zhang Xueliang's first contribution in China's modern history, the successful completion of the Northeast Yizhi and the end of the darkest era of the Beiyang government and warlords, Yu Fengzhi was indispensable.
In terms of affection, her loyalty and devotion have also become her most lamentable fate trajectory. After the Xi'an Incident, Yu Fengzhi accompanied Zhang Xueliang from Nanjing to Fenghua in Zhejiang, Huangshan in Anhui, Pingxiang in Jiangxi, Chenzhou and Yuanling in Hunan, and was transferred to Xiuwenyang Mingdong in Guizhou in 1940. During the four-year exile of seclusion, Yu Feng traveled everywhere to ask for help from Song Ziwen, asked to see Chiang Kai-shek, and also asked Song Meiling's mother to come forward and go through several twists and turns to rescue Zhang Xueliang. She contracted a serious illness under various sufferings and had to go to the United States to seek medical treatment, and since then Zhang Xueliang's side has been accompanied by Zhao Si. And Yu Fengzhi's departure is 50 years of eternal separation, and he has never seen Zhang Xueliang again.
Everyone in the world praised Zhao Yidi's affection for accompanying Zhang Xueliang through the confinement time, and most of them did not know the efforts behind Yu Fengzhi.
In the United States, Yu Fengzhi also continues his legend. Zhang Xueliang has been in prison for many years, she has no financial resources, and she is even more poor after being treated. With the educational foundation of the grammar department of Northeastern University at that time, with the business genes inherited from the rich businessman's father Yu Wendou, and the mind and courage of the first lady of northeast China that year, Yu Fengzhi broke into Wall Street, began to speculate in stocks, and then used the money earned to buy a house for rent, accumulated original funds little by little, and bought two luxury villas in the United States. One is the famous movie star Ingrid Bergman lived in the Forest Spring Villa, the other is Elizabeth Taylor's former residence, the two villas are adjacent, is to hope that Zhang Xueliang and Zhao Si can come here in the future to live in peace.
Yu Fengzhi loved Zhang Xueliang all her life, no matter how many gossip and anecdotes Zhang had, she was always tolerant and generous, and she was also tolerant and tolerant of Zhao Si. In the United States, she struggled alone to make Zhang Xueliang's life worry-free after he was released from prison, and for 50 years she looked at each other infatuatedly, only waiting for Zhang Xueliang to be released one day.
It is a pity that no matter how tolerant and tenacious she is, she looks to the end, and finally waits for a divorce agreement.
After 25 years of divorce, she still said that "I was born a member of the Zhang family, and died a ghost of the Zhang family", and has always called herself "Mrs. Zhang". She spent a lot of money to buy a tomb for Zhang Xueliang in the United States, hoping to be buried with Zhang Xueliang.
"There is no regret in life, the only good woman." Zhang Xueliang once said in an interview. After Yu Fengzhi's death, Zhang Xueliang took Zhao Si to her tomb to pay homage, and the monument sighed: "There are no regrets in life, only this one person." ”
After Zhao Si's death, he was buried in the famous Valley of the Temples Memorial Cemetery on the east coast of Hawaii. In October 2001, Zhang Xueliang was also buried here. At this point, Yu Fengzhi's wish for a joint burial was also disappointed.
Yu Fengzhi played by Song Jia.
Zhang Xueliang has a colorful love history in his life, and in an interview in his later years, he said that he had about 11 serious girlfriends, and "Yu Fengzhi is the best wife, Zhao Yidi is the most troubled wife, Mrs. Bei (Jiang Shiyun) is the cutest girlfriend, and my favorite is in New York." Living in New York is Mrs. Pei Jiang Shiyun, the stepmother of the famous architect I.M. Pei, which is probably the true positioning of these women in Zhang Xue's conscience.
Zhang, Zhao, and Yu in this triangular relationship are really too mournful, just like Xu Zhimo's wife Zhang Youyi, they are all capable and have vision and pattern, but unfortunately they are trapped in the times and traditional life dilemmas, meet people unladylike, and have a vain life.
However, in the world of feelings, who can say clearly except the parties? Perhaps love is the most unreasonable thing in this world, after love, there will be no one else in this world, and the so-called consummation may be nothing more than a request for benevolence.