The advent of the second child era has allowed many older women to realize their dreams and finally give birth to a companion for Dabao. However, as the children grow older, we have found such a phenomenon, and our generations are becoming more and more chaotic in our daily lives.
The most beautiful college student went to the kindergarten to pick up her uncle from school, and the security guard said a word, so that the two had no place to look at themselves
When a very beautiful female college student came home from vacation, she was given a task from her family to pick up her uncle from school. In fact, this uncle has just gone to kindergarten, and it is only because of the problem of generational division that this embarrassing situation has emerged.
When her niece, the female college student, arrived at the entrance of the kindergarten, she soon found that her uncle had run out. However, when he saw that it was his niece who came to pick him up, he was full of disgust and did not want to follow at all. The security guard also discovered this, which alerted him.
The security guard brings the child to his side and asks the child who this is and is it your family? Unexpectedly, this sentence made both people feel a little self-conscious. First of all, the little uncle said with an embarrassed face that he did not know each other at all, and then he reluctantly said that this was my niece's daughter, as if he was very humiliated.
When female college students heard her uncle's statement, she also felt that she had no face. Such a big person actually wants to call a child uncle, and he is also disliked by the other party, what is this called? Finally, the security guard was relieved and put the child back home.
After returning home, the female college student asked her uncle why she had to tell the teacher that she didn't know herself? Make others think she stole the child. As a result, my uncle spoke, and if I told the teacher directly, how humiliating it would be. Unexpectedly, my uncle was still a very face-saving person.
In the face of the generational difference between them and their children, adults should have a normal heart
This kind of thing is handed down from the ancestors, is the basis for the continuation of the clan, and there is a very strong cultural heritage in it, so everyone should respect it. As for the embarrassing situation that appears now, adults even have to call children elders, in fact, there is no need to pay too much attention. It's just a title, and calling it won't change the reality of our lives.
So call it out generously, there is no need to pay too much attention to the eyes of others. What really makes us feel ashamed is our own mentality, in fact, there is nothing in the eyes of others. So don't hold this kind of embarrassing mentality anymore. In the face of excessively large gaps in generations, everyone should still have a normal heart.
Having a second child cannot be too blind
More and more families have joined the army of second children, in fact, for everyone, there is nothing in the generational chaos, and the most worrying thing is that the arrival of the second child will cause trouble to the family. On the one hand, economic pressure is not affordable for every family, on the other hand, the arrival of children may also make Dabao feel unbalanced, and even make some excessive behaviors. Parents must take these factors into account.
So before we have a baby, we have to have a good chat with the child and see what he thinks about the second child. If parents want to have a second child and the child is unwilling, we can work hard to enlighten the child and let him know what benefits the second child will bring to him. When a child knows that he can have an entertaining partner and a loving person, he will generally agree. In addition, after giving birth to a child, parents should also have a bowl of water to level, do not snub Dabao's heart.
summary
The uncle and nephew above are so funny, and their reactions are real. This situation occurs in all aspects of our lives, we must adjust our mentality, do not care too much, just a name. In addition, regarding the matter of having a second child, everyone should also carefully consider, this is not an easy thing, it will face a lot of complicated factors.
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