Author | Inspector (total 1665 words, about 4 minutes to read)
"Nibbling on the old" is an authentic derogatory term in the concept of many young people.
However, in recent years, with the pressure of work and the increasing economic expenses, some parents have seen the hardships and difficulties of their children, so more and more parents have publicly expressed their "support for their own babies to eat the old".
★ "I made my daughter nibble on the old!" The 60-year-old father gave his daughter a reason to nibble on the old
Recently, there has been a heartfelt question on the Internet: "Children who have a career go far away and fly high, and children who do not show up to do filial piety around themselves", if you are a parent, do you prefer your children to go far away and fly high or stay by your side to fulfill filial piety?
I believe that many parents will be gagged when they hear such a sentence, on the one hand, the career of their children, on the other hand, the desolation of their old age, so more and more parents take the initiative to choose to let their children stay around and eat the old, but also just want to keep their children around.
A few days ago, the neighbor Lao Li suddenly had a cerebral hemorrhage and left, and before leaving, he did not see the last side of his daughter. Neighbors have commented: "You said that the children are so successful, they are far away, they are old, what is the picture?" Hearing this, my heart was also full of mixed feelings.
Who does not know that the daughter of the old Li family has a career, has good grades since childhood, goes to school in a big city, and then directly stays in the local development after graduation, gets married and has children and starts a family. At that time, Old Li was still tough and could take care of himself, so he chose to stay in his hometown. Whenever he saw other people's children and grandchildren under his knees, Lao Li wanted his daughter to stay around and develop, but the daughter was afraid of others gossiping, and comforted her father to call her every day. Old Li was anxious so he said to his daughter, "I let my daughter nibble on the old!" Who loves to say what to say! ”
The daughter has a successful career, and she can't go home twice a year, and this sudden illness, Old Li didn't even have the opportunity to call her daughter.
A grandmother said with tears in her eyes: "Usually the child does not fulfill filial piety, even if it is not, we are not used to leaving this family when we are old, but we have not been able to see the last side of the child when we die. What's the point of raising this child? ”
With the development of the times, the thinking of some parents has changed
In the previous era, there were many children in the family, and parents always hoped that their children would be able to have a career in the future, even if one or two could go out of the house, they had face on their faces, and they did not hesitate to pay. Because there are other children who can stay by their side to do filial piety and companionship.
But now most of them are one-child or two-child families, if a small number of children have a career, soaring, only leave their parents in their hometown, then the children have more achievements, parents to old age, in addition to the comfort of the heart, how much can they get?
It is precisely because of this reason that many parents now do not ask how much their children can have in the future, but only hope that their children can grow up healthy and healthy, and live a plain life. Can accompany themselves, even if it is not far away, often can go home to see, the family together is happy and harmonious, then the parents' hearts will not be too lonely.
In order to reduce the stress of life for children
● In addition to wanting the company of children, parents take the initiative to let their children nibble on the old, but also want to reduce various pressures for their children.
With the continuous development of society and the continuous acceleration of the pace of life, many young people who have just graduated get up early every day and work hard, and may also have to enter the ranks of the "moonlight family", let alone raise children.
Now many parents support their children's pension, but also really can't bear the children to run for life, work in rented housing, two shifts and 996, and even can't save a few dollars a year.
Since you have the capital to let your children nibble on the old, why do you still watch your children suffer and suffer? And now more and more parents only hope that their children can live a safe and healthy life, better than anything else.
Although young people do not say that they are tired and will not be bitter, their parents see the pain in their eyes. Therefore, many parents are willing to use their life savings to take the initiative to make a down payment for their children, take the bride price, and even help their children with their babies and support their children to eat the old. These are only out of the love of parents, so that the children are not so tired, can alleviate the pressure of children's lives.
The love of parents requires the understanding of children
Some parents are distressed about their children, so they will give their children some pocket money every month, so that they can eat and drink well while working, and they are willing to let their children eat the old, but these are not what parents have to do.
After all, children have grown up and can support themselves by their own ability, so in the face of parental help, as children, they must know how to be grateful, understand that this is the love of parents, and parents continue to selflessly dedicate themselves to children with their savings in the first half of their lives and the pension in the second half of their lives.
When you have the ability to have time, talk to your parents more, go home to see more, and let your parents do some things they like to do.
Don't be too lonely, take care of your body, the elderly are healthy and healthy, but also the greatest blessing for their children.
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Behind the growing number of parents supporting their children to nibble on the old, the reason is also very realistic.
On the one hand, I hope that the "few" children can accompany them and enjoy the joy of the world;
On the other hand, it is also unbearable for children to run around and suffer, since there is the capital to let children nibble on the old, why not enjoy it?
If it were you, would you support the child to nibble on the old age?
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