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Parents will inevitably be seen by their children when they are intimate, so some parents will look very panicked and embarrassed at this time. I want to do something to try to cover it up. But such an unnatural behavior will actually make the child feel more strange, so what to do?
Case
Six-year-old Xiao Yu was eating breakfast one morning when she suddenly asked her mother, "Mom, why did you sit on your father last night?" Are you guys fighting?"
It turned out that Xiao Yu got up in the middle of the night to go to the toilet, heard a sound in his parents' room, so he sneaked to peek at it, pushed open the door of their house, and found that his mother and father were together as if they were fighting.
The mother did not hurry to tell Xiao Yu: "This is Mom and Dad expressing their love for each other, we are not fighting." It's a game that people can only play when they grow up and get married. Xiao Yu nodded as if he understood and said, "It turns out that you are not fighting but making games, so I will be relieved." ”
Like Xiaoyu's parents who are suddenly bumped into by their children, they do not show a sense of panic, but use the right way to narrate and guide the children, which is very right for the children.
After breakfast, Xiao Yu's mother found an opportunity to talk to Xiao Yu about the knowledge of "sex education" "This is something that adults can do when they are married and have a family, and the baby is also like this, but children can't do it." And teach children love and responsibility.
Xiao Hong'er's mother said:
When parents are in love, they try to ensure that they do not let their children find out. Because children are still young, they do not have a very clear concept of "sex", which is easy to cause fear. Parents should also carry out "sex education" for their children in a timely manner, and cannot keep their mouths shut. Resulting in the lack of sexual knowledge in children, and unnecessary consequences.
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Children's "sex education" should be timely
We should not shy away from it, but face education head-on. Some parents find it difficult for them to talk about this kind of thing, so as not to mention this aspect to their children, which will make children become ignorant of sex and increase their curiosity. When they explore on their own, they will inevitably go into misunderstandings, and then they will have to spend more time to help children correct their wrong thoughts.
Usually mentioned indirectly with children. Parents can teach their children sexual knowledge by playing with them on a regular basis. Telling them these things by using toys as character models or through stories is relatively receptive for children.
When your child asks relevant questions, guide them properly. Children are curious and sometimes ask their parents where they came from, and at this time, parents do not know how to answer the child, and will always take some reasons to prevaricate. Then this question will always exist in the child's mind, so what parents should do is to tell the child correctly and properly.
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How parents can cultivate their children's "sexual awareness"
Teach them to protect important parts of their bodies. Tell your child how to learn how to protect yourself and that important parts of your body should not be touched by others. Let the child develop a sense of self-protection.
Give them psychological education and counseling. Some parents are reluctant to mention sexual problems with their children in fact, they are worried about whether their children are psychologically acceptable. Therefore, psychological education for children is the most important thing.
Transmit to the child the correct positive sexual concept. Parents must have the correct concept of sex in order to educate their children not to go into the wrong area, so that children can have a positive attitude to accept this matter well.
For the problem of sex education, many parents avoid talking about their children, some do not know how to open their mouths, and some are too lazy to explain to their children. This will increase the child's curiosity and prompt them to explore on their own, which may later produce bad results for the child.
Here to remind everyone, it is crucial to give children the right sex education, so that they can understand the physiological situation of human beings, but also let them know how to protect their own bodies. In this way, the child's body and mind can be more developed healthily.
So what do parents think about explaining the topic of sex education to their children? If parents have any good ideas or suggestions, they are very welcome to leave a message in the comment area. Let's share our experience together to help children grow up healthily and happily!