Children's growth requires high-quality companionship from parents

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Every child needs to receive love from their parents, and that love comes from companionship. Don't wait until the child recognizes only the substance to think of the constraint, because if it doesn't work at that time, the child will not obey this "inexplicable" control. Therefore, since you are a parent, you must do the responsibility of parents and give your children companionship - high-quality companionship.

The growth of children requires parents to give enough sense of security and intimacy, so companionship is not to put the child around, be sure to let the child feel love from your words and deeds, and communicate and get along with the child in a relaxed and harmonious way.

1. Bedtime tips

If the child is still young, then take a picture book storybook, read a few small stories for the child before going to bed, the child will be very happy, he will show a sweet smile in his sleep. When the child grows up, before going to bed, you can accompany the child to read some books on cultivating quality and personality, read and discuss with the child, enhance feelings in dialogue, and cultivate a sound personality of the child.

2. Send a kiss of love

Whether it's before or after work or before bedtime, remember to give your child a loving kiss. Chinese are very bad at expressing love, but children are very sensitive, and they will observe from many details whether their parents love him. Even if you buy him a bunch of toys, it's better to give him a sweet kiss.

I often listen to some mothers tell that going out every day is like going to the battlefield, the child cries and tears his heart and lungs, and the mother's heart is broken. In fact, the child just wants to make sure that the mother will not leave him, and the mother loves himself. When the mother often closes the door in a hurry, regardless of the child's crying, it is a deep hurt to the child, and the child will feel that the mother does not want me, and the mother is gone. In fact, at this time, the mother only needs to kiss the baby lightly on the forehead and tell him that the mother will hurry home after work.

3. Spend more time with company

Now many families are in such a situation, the parents have gone to work when the child is not awake, and when the parents are off work, the child is already asleep. During the day, although the child lives with his parents, he does not even meet each other. On weekends, parents have to go to various parties and socialize, and although the child can see his parents, he does not even say a few words. Can this be called companionship? It's just living with children.

Parents can be busy, but there is always some personal time in the busy, give this time to the child. Talk to them, go to the zoo and playground together on the weekend, and don't wait until you want to accompany your child to buy marshmallows, only to find that your children have grown up and no longer like marshmallows.

4. Be friends with your kids

When the reporter asked him why he could be loved by children, he said something like this: "I draw for children, draw comic strips of stories, draw fairy tale illustrations, I have to think like children, look at it, so well, I have a child's heart!" Putting yourself in the child's position, experiencing the child's happiness, sharing the child's sorrows, and becoming one with the child is the secret of the success of the hot spring source.

Between parents and children, there should not be a relationship between ruling and being ruled, but should be equal and free like friends. Parents should seriously consider the views raised by children and accept them if they have a reason; And parents' ideas should also be told to their children, do not make their own decisions for their children. When you are able to do this, you will find that you don't have to face it at all!

Money is not a panacea, and high-quality companionship is the right way to get along with children. Children accompanied by their parents will grow up to be as good as we want them to be.