Every parent wants their child to have these qualities: generous and confident, independent and strong, focused, excellent social skills... But parents often do not know how to start, in fact, in the child's 0 to 3 years old, is an important stage of rapid development in all aspects, and the influence of parents on the child at this time is very large, if the parents can raise children before the child is 3 years old, after the age of 3 can save more than 100 times.
1. The sensitive period cannot be ignored
How many parents know why babies love to eat hands? Why do you always grab everything and send it to your mouth? Why does your baby keep throwing away the things in his hand, you pick them up and hand them to him, he will immediately throw them away? Why did the child burst into tears because his mother preemptively pressed the elevator... Behind all this, there is a golden concept of preciousness - sensitive period.
We do not know what kind of special kind of mind the child will acquire during the sensitive period, but one thing is certain, that is, the better the child completes the sensitive period, the better his personality state and mental state will be formed, and the easier it will be to become a perfect, self-fulfilling person in the future.
2. Language enlightenment should be grasped
Many parents are accustomed to saying "milk words" when talking to their children, such as "eating recklessly", "wearing shoes and shoes", "drinking neinei", and even making up some teases that others can't understand, thinking that this way is more understandable to the baby, but in fact, from the birth of the child, every sentence that adults say to the child should be the mother tongue with correct grammar and standard pronunciation.
When talking to babies, avoid talking about milk, but speak with a clear voice and a slow speed, since you can let your child learn standard pronunciation from the beginning, why waste time and energy to let your child learn milk talk more? Many babies are still slurred by the time they are four or five years old, because they miss the opportunity to learn correct pronunciation.
3. Cultivate your baby's concentration
Many parents have found that their children are always half-hearted, why can other people's children concentrate? How should you develop your child's concentration?
Children who are not focused enough often have a parent who loves to worry about things, such as the child is concentrating on puzzles, a moment to say "this is not interesting, let's play something else", a moment and "fight tired to rest, don't tire the eyes", or "Oh, lying on the ground weird cold bar, let's add a piece of clothing", or "fight so half a day has not been spelled, just get it tomorrow"...
To cultivate children's concentration, the most important thing parents should do is not to disturb the child, but this is not to say completely resigned, but to give the child the right guidance at the critical moment, such as when the child's irritability is obviously felt, you can intervene appropriately, give inspiration from the side, and help the child's concentration continuum.
What other parenting problems have you encountered in your life? Do you find it difficult to solve?