There's nothing hard about going to school as a child, especially for kids with poor academic performance. Sometimes they are subjected to cold violence by teachers and classmates in school, and children often have a boredom of school, and many students drop out of junior high school when they go to school.
Some people are even their own relatives are their own teachers, so students will say that they can't escape their "clutches" in school and after school, and this kind of frightening day is very painful.
First, the sister-in-law as a teacher, the fate of Jiangsu boys "bumpy"
Recently, a video about elementary school students went viral. The woman in the video is the child's sister-in-law and teacher. It can be seen that the boy's sister-in-law was tutoring the boy in his homework. First of all, ask the child what knowledge points were taught in class? Later, the boy's sister-in-law said that today she talked about rhetoric, but the boy's random test was all wrong.
The Chinese teacher is a sister-in-law, the boy collapsed: she is in class and after class, netizens: funny and painful
At this time, her emotions also began to stir. At this time the boy became more nervous, and then his sister-in-law told him that he had to learn rhetoric well, and asked the boy to copy the rhetoric ten times, and then the boy nodded reluctantly.
When the sister-in-law was educating her children, she found that his mother-in-law was taking a picture of them with her mobile phone, and then said a word to her mother-in-law, and her mother-in-law put the mobile phone down. I think this mother-in-law is also afraid of her daughter-in-law.
Second, sister-in-law and teacher, netizens' comments have aroused deep thinking
This video was posted on the Internet and caused heated discussion among netizens. Some netizens think that this little boy is very pitiful, originally very depressed in school, back home is still like this, replaced by other little boys may have collapsed long ago. Some netizens think it is good to have such a sister-in-law, at least in the future, they are not afraid of being bullied in school.
Then some netizens laughed, and when the parents' meeting was held, the sister-in-law could call the mother-in-law to lecture, which had a look. When the editor saw this video, he suddenly remembered his student days, although he often skipped class at that time, but my teacher was still relatively kind.
When Xiaobian was young, the Chinese teacher was a young girl, the math teacher was a lovely uncle, and both of them belonged to the "Buddhist" teachers, never hit students, only occasionally talked about it. The editor felt that he was very blessed to meet such a teacher. The situation of the little boy really made the editor very sympathetic, and the child was still so young that he had to bear such a lot of pressure.
However, such a situation as a little boy is still very rare, I hope that his sister-in-law can be better for the boy, after all, this is his own brother-in-law, and he should not be too strict in learning, otherwise the child will definitely have psychological problems in the future. Now some parents do not know how to let their children combine work and leisure, children do not have a little rest time after school, and there is no homework to write every day. Parents must give their children time to move freely, because children are not caged animals.
Third, how parents can help their children with homework
Parents must learn to classify homework when tutoring their children. After school, in addition to writing the homework left by the teacher, students also need to do some extracurricular practice problems. Some parents like to give their children very difficult Olympiad problems, but the child's learning progress has not yet reached that level, so they are very disgusted with these problems. Therefore, parents should leave homework for their children to be reasonably distributed according to their children's learning progress.
There are also parents who like to let their children repeatedly do familiar topics. Some of the problems children already know, don't waste time to let the children do it repeatedly, this will waste the children's time and energy. Parents leave homework for their children, and must target their children's weak points. Don't blindly let the children learn.
Now some teachers like to leave some ineffective homework for children, which children do not only will not improve their grades, but will also cause boredom after a long time. For example, let the children copy texts repeatedly or repeatedly do simple problems. If parents find that the teacher has left invalid homework for the children, they must communicate with the teacher in time to reach a consensus.
Parents must have a correct mindset when tutoring their children's homework. Many parents like to teach their children by hand, they stare at their children to write homework, at this time children are often very nervous, but the more they write, the worse they are. Some parents like to accuse their children of "How can you be so stupid?" "You see whose children are doing what," such words hit the child's self-confidence. Slowly, children will become more and more disgusted with school, and they will resent their parents.
When children are writing homework, we parents can watch, and we must not yell. If you really can't control your emotions, give your child a quiet learning environment. After the child is done, parents can check it first, but do not lose your temper with the child if the problem is checked. Teachers and parents should not think that children hurt their self-esteem when they are young, so that children will definitely double their returns to us when they grow up.