Working parents are busy and spend a short time with their children in a day. Parents feel that they are working hard in their careers in order to let their children grow up better, in fact, according to the standards of parenting, most parents are raising their children, not teaching their children.
An important law of educating children is the law of process. Children's education is the usual bit by bit penetration, and the effect of education is not seen until several years later.
If we do not carry out long-term and meticulous teaching, and have a highly anticipatory heart in our hearts, it is inevitable that many parents will feel disappointed when they arrive. Even if we only have a short time together, if we are a person with a heart, we can still teach our children diligently.
24 hours a day, can we find 24 opportunities to educate children?
1, in the morning, the child is still in the bed, wake up the child with a light kiss or a tap, and tell the child, I love you. Let your child learn to greet others with love in the morning.
2, in front of the child quickly dressed, even in the cold winter, but also wake up, appear to be sharp action, and can compete with the child who wears clothes fast.
3. Praise your child for preparing the clothes he will wear the next day the night before and tell him that it is a good habit.
4. In the morning, gently hum your favorite song to convey a relaxed and pleasant mood to the child in the morning.
5. Open the curtains and express gratitude for today's coming. At the same time, tell the child that it is good to have a job today, and look forward to meeting some interesting people.
6. After getting up, take your child to do push-ups or stretching exercises together. At first, the child will be reluctant, but when he insists on forming a habit, he will do some simple warm-up activities after getting up every day.
7. In the process of preparing breakfast for children, ask children to participate in doing some work, such as toast, hot milk, etc.
8. Put a "I appreciate you" card in the bag where your child goes to school, write that you appreciate one of his characters, and write that I love you.
9. Before the child dresses up, encourage the child to look in the mirror and check whether the clothes are neat and tidy and whether the spirit is full.
10, go home after work, when you see that your spouse and children have come to greet you (establish a family tradition with your wife in advance, that is, when one of the spouses leaves work first, he or she has to take the child to the door to meet the late family), greet the spouse first, and then kiss the child, so that the child understands that the parents love each other.
11. Train your child to take slippers or a document bag for their parents back home.
12, turn the phone to vibrate, and tell the child that you attach great importance to the time when the family is together, so you need to turn the phone to vibrate.
13. Tell your child about meaningful or happy things at work today, and share your work with your child.
14. Listen attentively to your child's sharing, do not easily interrupt and respond positively. Finally, you can tell your child some suggestions.
15. Exercise with your child. Ball games, running, swimming, etc., are all good choices. Encourage your child to persevere.
16, when the child wants to watch TV, agree on a good time. The content is pre-selected by the parents. Stay alongside and discuss when your child has a problem.
17. At the table, be grateful for the food on the table and appreciate the craftsmanship of the cook.
18. The family sets the time for parents and children to read together, and the whole family reads children's books that are beneficial to the soul and discusses them together.
19. Family game program. The whole family does some fun games together, such as hide-and-seek.
20, encourage children to find some words of wisdom, you can also find the words of wisdom spoken by children, let the children copy out, paste in various places in the room.
21, train children to live a regular life, when the time comes, they need to prepare for sleep.
22. Check whether the child is ready for tomorrow, such as school bags, clothes, stationery supplies, etc.
23, make a brief evaluation of the child's performance today,Encourage good performance, bad performance reminds the child to change, and tells the child that transgression has been completely forgiven.
24. Tell some relaxed and beautiful mind bedside stories before your child goes to bed. Tuck in the quilt, kiss the child, and say goodnight.
"When we educate our children diligently", no matter how the times change, the wisdom of the ancient sages can still be used by us.
If we are willing to teach with our hearts, we will find that there are many opportunities for teaching, and we can go with the flow without a trace.
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