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About Xu Zhimo's love story, everyone knows more or less, and as a famous poet, Xu Zhimo's love world is known only by Lin Huiyin and Lu Xiaoman, one is a famous talented woman, the other is a famous woman, and what is not known is Zhang Youyi, who has been unknown at the beginning. Zhang Youyi, as the original match of Xu Zhimo, but did not get Xu Zhimo's love, after divorcing Xu Zhimo, how did she change from the original "dirt bun" to become a celebrity? After divorcing Xu Zhimo, their respective lives were judged from a high level.
Zhang Youyi, as the original match of Xu Zhimo, has a husband with famous talents, but she is not famous. When Xu Zhimo first saw Zhang Youyi's photo, he flicked the corner of his mouth down and said with disdain: "Rural buns!" However, in fact, Zhang Youyi is also a Miss Qianjin of Shuxiang Mendi, a large family.
The Zhang family is also a huge local wealth, the Zhang family's ancestors served as local officials in the Qing Dynasty, and her father Zhang Zuze was a doctor who saved lives and helped the injured. After her birth, her parents named her Zhang Jiayue, nicknamed Youyi. According to the original feudal thinking, girls had to start wrapping small feet from an early age, and at that time, new ideas had begun to spread in the land of China, so three days after Zhang Youyi wrapped her small feet, she was stopped by her brother, and in this way, Zhang Youyi became the first heavenly foot woman in the Zhang family.
According to the traditional conservative idea that "a woman without talent is moral", Zhang Youyi should not have studied, and she herself was also a traditional Chinese good family woman, following the three from the four virtues, but under the influence of the new ideas of the second brother and the fourth brother, she did not want to be incompatible with that era, so she took the initiative to persuade her parents to enter the Suzhou Second Girls' Normal School. The school's first Yang Daquan attached great importance to girls' education, and Zhang Youyi received advanced education here.
Three years later, Zhang Youyi, who was still in school, dropped out of school, obeyed her parents' orders, and married Xu Zhimo. Xu Zhimo and Zhang Youyi have never met, and Xu Zhimo's own attitude towards Zhang Youyi is also: "The order of the matchmaker is subject to the parents." In 1918, shortly after the birth of Xu Zhimo's eldest son, Xu Zhimo went abroad to study.
Xu Zhimo has never taken things related to Zhang Youyi to heart, saying that her soil is not from the perspective of status, but a young man influenced by Western education and new wave ideas, and it is difficult to identify with traditional women who have no insight and no self. Abroad, Xu Zhimo met Lin Huiyin, so he began to show love madly. Later, Xu Zhimo received a letter from Zhang Junjie and was forced to impatiently take Zhang Youyi to his side, and when Zhang Youyi became pregnant again, he filed for divorce. Because at this time, he was pursuing Lin Huiyin, and he really had no time to take care of him.
Later, Zhang Youyi gave birth to her second son Peter in 1922 and signed a divorce with Xu Zhimo in Berlin. According to Zhang Youyi's recollection, Xu Zhimo followed her to the hospital to see Little Peter, "He put his face on the window glass and looked fascinated", "He never asked me how to raise him, how he wanted to live." ”
After the divorce, Zhang Youyi quickly recovered from her grief, hired a nanny, began to study German on her own, and entered Pestalozzi College, specializing in early childhood education. But unfortunately, 3-year-old Peter actually died of illness, Zhang Youyi with a broken heart to Germany, she worked while studying, serious human life concept in line with the German rigorous work style, she found self-confidence, but also found the support point of life.
Later, she returned to Shanghai and took her eldest son to Beijing to study. She taught German at Soochow University, and by chance became the vice president of the Shanghai Women's Commercial Bank, and later she also founded the Yunsheng Garment Company and became the general manager of the company. She began to show her talents, and the strength of her business ability was evident. She once divided her life in two, "before going to Germany" and "after going to Germany". She used to love the humble and afraid of everything, but after arriving in Germany, she began her wonderful life and became fearless.
The second half of her life was full and meaningful, and compared with it, the later Xu Zhimo married Lu Xiaoman, and her life was equally fulfilling. But it is for money, to support the family, to work hard, but it is also difficult to supplement the family, as far as life is concerned, which is better or worse, high and low judgment. It was Xu Zhimo who fulfilled Zhang Youyi, not Zhang Youyi who climbed Xu Zhimo. In fact, who climbed high and who has your own answer in your heart, do you think?
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