On December 9, in Suzhou, Jiangsu Province, a bao mother was doing a live broadcast with a pair of dragon and phoenix fetuses, and inadvertently a scene that happened to tease many netizens.
Before the aunt gave this mother a piece of clothing, perhaps put on a little big, accidentally slipped down, revealing half of the shoulder.
This instant triggered the sensitive nerves of his 5-year-old son, who hurriedly pulled his mother's clothes up, making the mother cry and laugh.
Then the mother played with sex and deliberately pulled the clothes down, and the little boy once again helped his mother reset the clothes at the speed of light.
When Bao Mom pulled down the clothes for the third time, the little boy saw that he could not stop it, and he had no choice but to cover the clothes with his hands and not let his mother pull down again. He also solemnly said to his mother, "Girls can't show their shoulders", which made the girls on the side laugh straight, and Bao Mom couldn't help but laugh.
After the video was uploaded to the Internet, netizens could not help but make a joke, some netizens joked that "children, I advise you not to be nosy", and some netizens said that "the family has the same son", and they have also had such an experience.
In life, many parents may have encountered similar situations, thinking that their children are still young and ignorant, and inadvertently ignoring the impact of their own clothing on their children.
But although the child is simple, he is not ignorant, just like this little boy, in his opinion, the mother exposed the video of the exposed shoulder to social media is not elegant enough, so he repeatedly stopped it.
If parents do not care about the child's thoughts, similar problems often occur, on the one hand, it may cause damage to the child's sense of security, in the eyes of a simple child, the mother is not dressed properly, which may endanger the stability of family relations, which may lead to the child's lack of security; on the other hand, it may bring "hidden harm" to the child, so that it mistakenly believes that the clothing is not harmful and more likely to be violated.
Therefore, mothers need to understand that it is very important for themselves to dress appropriately, and what mothers "wear" and "how to wear" will affect the healthy growth of their children.
The mother's dress affects the healthy growth of the child
Star Bao Mom Huo Siyan once revealed herself in the show, once she went to pick up her son "Hmmm" after school, Hmmm made a small request "I hope my mother draws a beautiful makeup, wears earrings, and dresses beautifully to pick herself up."
Only then did Huo Siyan understand that the children who were in kindergarten already had such a clear understanding of "beauty and ugliness", and hoped from the bottom of their hearts that their mother could be outstanding.
In fact, many children are very sensitive to their parents' clothing, the mother looks generous and intellectual, clean and warm, the child feels comfortable, and will develop a good aesthetic concept and personal temperament.
On the contrary, if the mother is casually exposed at home, thinking that how comfortable she is at home and how to wear it, or not trimming the edge when taking the child out, or even directly wearing pajamas to pick up the child to school, it is difficult for the child to be correctly guided in such an environment for a long time.
Especially when the child reaches puberty, the mother's clothing is casually exposed, which is easy to bring bad visual effects and psychological mapping to the child. On the other hand, children are also very easy to "learn from the same", it is difficult to form a correct aesthetic, develop the habit of randomly wearing regardless of the occasion, and cannot bring a good look to others.
On different occasions, mothers should pay attention to dress appropriately
The growth of children is a process of cognitive development, so the performance of parents is particularly important, even if the mother's dress is such a "small problem", in bit by bit, it will also have a profound impact on the child's future.
When we get along with our children, we should pay attention to whether our own dress is appropriate on different occasions, such as whether the housewear at home is exposed. Is casual wear exaggerated when going out? Are the overalls concise enough?
Through the appropriate dress, not only can children understand what kind of appearance state they should maintain in different occasions, forming a set of their own aesthetics, but also allow children to understand the most basic etiquette, keeping generous and appropriate clothing, which is the most basic respect for others.
Some parents may feel that they are all family, is it necessary to dress so "dull" in their own homes?
In fact, because it is a family, parents should pay more attention to the impact of their own clothing on their children and whether they can give their children the right guidance.
Only if the parents are properly mannered, the child can develop a polite temperament, just imagine if the parents are not dressed all day, sloppy life, how can the child dress properly, clean and tidy?
Crooked Mom Conclusion:
The ancients said that "to copper as a mirror, you can wear the crown; to learn from people, you can see the gains and losses", for children, parents' clothing is such a mirror, although everyone has "freedom to dress", but for the healthy growth of children, parents need to pay attention to their own image, to bring more positive impact to children.
Today's topic: Do you usually pay attention to the problem of dressing in front of your children?
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