Li Jing has been married for several years, at the beginning two people were busy with their careers, busy buying a house and buying a car, two people considered not having children first, the house and the car were bought, they had reached the age of childbearing, the old people in the family would urge to have children, the two people entered the state of pregnancy in the case of being forced to be helpless, but fortunately prepared to be pregnant for a month, and finally got pregnant, in the first three months of pregnancy, the mother-in-law was also good to eat and drink, waiting every day, Li Jing felt that the body was very uncomfortable, so she quit her job. Raising a fetus at home, the family can be said to be taking care of it, taking care of it, and it is hard to look forward to the due date.
After giving birth to a child, the body feels much better after the confinement, I want to go out to work, but at this time I run to play the child and still have to suckle, so small do not go to work to take care of the child at home, Li Jing and her husband said that we do not lack work, who to provide for the children The old man said you go to work, anyway, I can't see it, there is no way Li Jing is at home to see the child, but when the baby is more than one year old, Li Jing and the two sons went to ask the mother-in-law if they could see the child, and the mother-in-law still refused. Now that there are more and more elderly people who do not bring children to young people, what kind of results will be achieved in the end? Perhaps these three results are many artificial and unexpected, so let's take a look at it
What happened to the elderly who did not help their children with their children? There may be 3 kinds of "results", which are good to see early
First, the child feels dissatisfied, and the family has contradictions
Now with the improvement of living standards, the pressure of young people is also getting bigger and bigger, do not mind the troubles in the work is also relatively short, and the trivial matters in the family are also relatively much, sometimes many young people feel that these pressures are overwhelmed, at this time it is necessary for parents to share as much as possible, there are many elderly people who think so, we only have the responsibility and obligation to raise their own children, and there is no obligation to take care of their children's offspring, so when the old people will not show young people children, There are also many young people who think that parents have worked hard for their children for most of their lives, and they should think about a happy old age.
There are many children who have only considered their own unsatisfactory, and have not been considerate of the parents' difficulties, once they hear that their parents do not look at their children, there may be all kinds of dissatisfaction in their hearts, and they also quarrel with their parents, always contradicting themselves for such a small matter.
Second, the child may be remembered in his heart, and he will not be willing to provide for the elderly in the future
Now the society is more realistic, whether it is young or old, pay attention to a "equivalent exchange", now the relationship between people is more complex, coupled with the current price level is getting higher and higher, although there are many elderly people with pension insurance pensions, at the same time there are considerable medical insurance benefits are also more, if the current young people to support children and the elderly, it is also more difficult, the pressure is also the same.
Therefore, if parents want to live their old age, they are not willing to show their children to their children, so it is possible that the two sides will fight for contradictions when they raise the issue of pension in the future.
Third, the child feels that it does not matter, the family is happy and harmonious
Now there are many young people are also suitable for the elderly is also a generation gap, at the same time in the education of children's issues, there will be a variety of problems, so many of the elderly worry about their old set with children can not be optimistic, in fact, for this, children should have more understanding, if young people with their own children, not only more assured, but also no other people interfere with the coordination of two people is also more handsome, but also can increase the feelings between parents and children, so that family conflicts will gradually decrease, The family is also relatively harmonious and happy.
Xiaobian personally feels that many parents do not bring their children also have their own ideas, for young people, try to respect their parents and treat their parents well, after all, it is not easy for them to bring up their children, so their children can only be raised by themselves
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