EDIT: Flower blossom tide
Throughout the ages, there have always been two kinds of sayings about marriage: marrying a wife does not marry Voldemort, and marrying someone without marrying a mother and a man. But for women, this is not the saddest, the saddest thing is that when you give everything for your mother's family, the last thing you get is not the gratitude of your mother's family, but you can't go back home.
Falling out with her husband, the mother's family will not let you enter the house, all this, you can only blame yourself for being too naïve and persistent.
All this, for Ms. Lai, is nothing more than the biggest lesson.
When she was young, Ms. Li always thought that her family was her biggest reliance, until after marriage, she still felt this way, so after marriage, she returned to her mother's house twice for three days, and in order to repay her parents' kindness to her parents, every time she came home, she would carry a large bag of things.
Every time the neighbors of the mother's family saw Ms. Li return, they would greet her warmly, praise Ms. Li for her filial piety, and complain by the way that her daughter had rarely seen her come back since she got married.
When the parents saw Ms. Li return, they were naturally very welcome, and hurriedly took the things she brought from Ms. Li's hands and cordially beckoned her to sit.
However, all this is only the surface of what outsiders see, but in real life, how cordial the relationship between Ms. Li and her mother's family is, and how serious the rift between her feelings and her husband is.
The husband has always been dissatisfied with the fact that Ms. Li returned to her mother's house, and usually it is not counted, but there is only one point, as soon as Ms. Li hears that there is something wrong with her family, she will immediately put down the things in her hands and rush to her mother's house non-stop, and even once because of the matter of Ms. Li's mother's family, she delayed picking up the child from school and was late.
For Ms. Li's other behavior, it can only be said that it is only within the scope of her husband's patience.
However, in the end, the feelings between the husband and wife were completely upset, or because when Ms. Li was younger, Ms. Li secretly used all the family's savings to buy him a house.
Finally, one day, after encountering an emergency, the husband found that the family's savings for many years were nothing, and the family's financial power was controlled by the wife.
In the face of her husband's anger, Ms. Li finally could only confess everything, she admitted that when her brother got married, she bought the marriage house for him, but then Ms. Li said: All I did was so that the two of us could gain a firm foothold in my mother's house, you think, I bought a house for my brother with your name, so to say it, the neighbors know, and your face is also doubled.
When the husband listened to his wife's story, he found that she really reached the point of no cure, but after thinking about it, he still had a lovely child by his side, and he could not do without a complete home.
After thinking about it, the husband can only suppress his desire for divorce.
Although he did not divorce his wife in the end, but the husband and wife were completely upset because of this, the feelings between the husband and wife were no longer there, of course, after this lesson, the husband had an extra eye, and his hand was never handed over to the wife.
Ms. Li originally thought that after this incident, her status in her mother's family would rise sharply, and this is exactly the case, since Ms. Li helped her brother buy a house, her family regarded her as a guest.
However, with the passage of time, her husband's income is decreasing day by day, and Ms. Li returns to her mother's house with fewer and fewer things, and Ms. Li can clearly feel the change in her family's attitude towards herself.
Until the last time, when Ms. Li returned to her mother's house empty-handed, she was blocked by her brother outside the door, and he said: Sister, why did you come again, how did you run to my house when you were fine, your sister-in-law has an opinion.
After Ms. Li listened to this sentence, she truly understood that what she had paid for so many years was not the sincere treatment of her family, but the family has always regarded herself as an outsider.
When Ms. Li understood this truth, she was close to 50 years old.
Unfortunately, this half of his life has been spent paying for his mother's family, but in the end it is empty.
Conclusion: For the sake of his mother's family, he did not hesitate to exhaust all his savings to buy a house for his brother, but after he was old, his brother did not let himself enter the house, which was nothing more than an extremely sad thing.