The sensation caused by the Wang Lihong incident was much bigger than I thought.
Why so many people support Li Lianglei is because it has resonated with too many women.
Traditional marriage
Li Lianglei wrote: "
From the moment I stepped into marriage I thought we would be family for the rest of our lives, so I gave everything I had for our family wholeheartedly.
Because you are ten years older than me and want to have many children, one after another, so I give up my work and my personal life, and everything is centered on you and the children. ”
In traditional marriage, women take care of children, husbands work hard for their careers, and two people are male and female, and they are not separated for a lifetime.
What she did not expect, however, was that when the third child was a boy, the man filed for divorce.
Men always feel that marriage is a woman taking advantage
After marriage, Wang Lihong earned money to maintain the family, and Li Lianglei married and taught his son.
The two sides have a clear division of labor.
But the man keeps calculating, and the man makes money to buy a value of 90 million
The mansion is registered under the name of Wang Lihong's "Hongsheng Culture", which is owned by Wang Lihong's mother and does not belong to Li Lianglei.
What marriage means to the average woman
Not long ago, a full-time mother was awarded 10,000 yuan for divorce, which also made people more afraid of marriage.
After the birth of the child, who brings it?
The nursery is too small to charge, two teachers take care of more than a dozen small children, go to a cold for a few weeks a week, and the price is not cheap.
Kindergarten can only enter the kindergarten at the age of 3, but how many people were born at the end of August.
The mother brought her own children, the marriage was reliable, and finally she was bitter, the marriage was unhappy, and finally divided into 10,000 yuan of housework compensation.
Traditional marriage vs modern marriage
The man pays for the house.
The woman's dowry belongs to the daughter, and the husband's family will not play the idea of a bride price.
The daughter is the daughter who is married out of the water that spills out, and she teaches her husband and children at home and serves her in-laws.
For many years, the daughter-in-law has become a mother-in-law, and she has kept the flowers blooming to see the bright moon.
Modern marriage
Now a house of one or two million, relying on the man's family alone, it is difficult to pay in full.
1. Repay the loan jointly after marriage
2. The last name of the child and the father
3. If it is a long-distance relationship, the woman basically goes to the man's city.
4. Both men and women work.
The house is repaid together, and having children has a more or less impact on the career.
Out of instinct, women care more for their children, and even if they are not together, the contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law has not disappeared.
This has caused many women to be reluctant to marry, because both parties pay almost the same, and as a result, women suffer more.
Women's confusion
If you take care of your children, where will you have time to move bricks?
Some people say that they send nursery schools, but for ordinary families, a person's general salary is three or four thousand, and it is also two or three thousand to send day care classes, and children often have colds and illnesses, and finally they are not worth the loss.
If you are at home full-time, countless people do not understand.
Li Lianglei mentioned that she was embarrassed to use the money earned by her husband, and did not dare to say that she took care of her parents, and mentioned that money was a city servant and a gold girl
For many women, they have more or less experienced the man's calculations.
Obviously, it is a very unfair thing, but many people around are like this, and finally the people who come over say that it is difficult for a clean official to judge the housework, and the family has a difficult scripture to read, so forget it.
Why to this day, many people still like boys, not for the sake of inheritance, because marriage does more harm than good for women.
Write at the end
If you like traditional marriage, machismo, and find a woman who likes to marry and teach children, marriage may not be happy.
If you like modern marriage, respect women, and find a girl who is right in the door, marriage will also be harmonious.
But the most afraid of that kind of marriage that is not yin and yang, when getting married, he said that he liked modern marriage, and after marriage, he had to live a traditional marriage, and finally, after all, it was a chicken feather.