Recently, there was an uncomfortable scene in an off-campus training institution in Weihai. To celebrate the upcoming Christmas, the institution has prepared a beautiful Christmas tree where students can hang their New Year's wishes and wishes, but the content of one of the cards is like a fish in the throat.
This wish card is six words, followed by an emoticon and a symbol. There are few words, but this content will not be good for anyone to read, let alone the parents of the child. Obviously, this card that has just been hung up, because it belongs to the child's wish, was originally intended to be sent to the blessing, but this child wrote such a heavy and rebellious word out.
A child who writes such a thing may not be mentally mature and cannot understand the good intentions of his parents. It may be that he wrote it and hung it on a Christmas tree that symbolizes auspicious and festive, and his inner intuitive feelings are frightening.
You can imagine the hidden story behind this discourse. Because to let the child learn to a higher level, or to make up for his deficiencies, the child's parents do not hesitate to spend a lot of money to report to the child's tuition institution, the parents are good intentions and starting points, but the child can not understand, because he wants to have his own free time, while refusing such a training life. However, they cannot resist the will of their parents, and the child can only submit, but the inner resistance psychology has always existed.
So, taking advantage of this opportunity, knowing that he could write his wishes anonymously, he expressed his truest thoughts in such cruel sentences. Children are innocent, parents are also quite innocent, but why should the parent-child relationship that should be loving each other, but in the eyes of a child has become a flood beast, and even want to immediately stay away from the constraints of parents. Because he now has no power to reject the kindness of his parents, his subconscious believes that as long as his parents are gone, he can be free and can no longer come to this training class.
Looking at the background of this card, the problem reflected in this is not just a bad parent-child relationship. If there were no training classes, no Christmas tree, would there still be such cards?
