When children are always unreasonable, have you ever been caused trouble by a bear child from a relative or friend? In the face of bear children, parents always say", "He's just a kid." ”。 When you see a bear child committing a mistake, is it patience or education?
Recently, on a street in Quanzhou, Fujian Province, more than a dozen cars were splashed with red paint, is it hatred or revenge? It is understood that many of these cars are luxury cars, in broad daylight, such wanton behavior is really infuriating, who in the end wants to splash paint indiscriminately? After the owner of the car was called by the car owner, the police immediately took the monitoring, only to find that the perpetrator was a 9-year-old boy.
Things seemed to get a little tricky, the child was not able to afford financial compensation, and the police called the boy's parents for an interview. Because the boy was too young, the police talked to the parents for a long time and also educated the boy critically. But the next problem is the most important, the boy broke a dozen cars before and after, the most expensive of which was as high as a million yuan. Painted cars are often difficult to clean and even repaint, but why should boys splash paint? The police investigated the surveillance and found that the boy began to pick up a paint bucket on the side of the road, he picked it up and played with it, and when he met the car parked on the side of the road, he began to splash paint, when the boy's narrator stood an old man, and the old man did not stop the boy's behavior. In fact, the boy was just curious, there was no other bad thought, he did not understand that the paint should be repainted, and he did not have much concept of money. But whatever the reason, curiosity or greed, things have happened, who will pay for the repainting?
It is reasonable to say that the owner of the car has the right to claim compensation, but knowing that the economic situation of the boy's family is not very good, the police chose to negotiate from it, and after a long period of consultation, the owner chose not to pursue the apology and bear the cost of spray painting. The boy's parents are thankful to know that the repainting of more than a dozen cars is not a small amount, but a huge amount for their families. After the matter is resolved, the police and parents are also educating their children. The owner's behavior is also a lesson for the child, to let them know that the wanton destruction of other people's belongings is to apologize and compensate the other party, although the owner can do this generously, I believe that the little boy should be able to pay more attention to it in the future. Many netizens also said, just forget it? Understanding family conditions is one thing, but you can't not pay a penny without compensation, after all, it is not a small amount of money that is lost. It is also reasonable for the owner of the car to ask for a claim, and it cannot be easily forgiven for family reasons, so that the child may not appreciate the importance of the matter, and may make similar mistakes in the future, whether it is a child or an adult, it is responsible for the mistakes they have made.
What should we do in the face of bear children? You must not let your child do whatever he wants because of his young age. Today is to throw paint, tomorrow may not necessarily do anything, parents must strengthen in this aspect of education. Naughty and active is the nature of boys, which is not wrong, but we watched the surveillance video and found that there was an old man next to the boy at the time of the incident, but the old man did not intervene to stop it. How are bear children raised?
First, the lack of family education. Under the pressure of fast-paced life, many parents are busy and tired of running for their lives, some directly throw their children to grandparents or grandparents, while the older generation will always obey their children, and the values of modern people are also somewhat different, and there will inevitably be some conflicts. The second is to spoil children, some parents or elderly people have everything they want to do with their children, and they want what to give. But doting on children is actually harming children, and children will rightfully feel that parents will help solve problems and cause trouble, so that the behavior is getting worse and worse. Third, parents do not lead by example to guide and influence children, parents are children's mirrors and the first teacher, only parents correct education and guidance, children can learn from the same, establish correct values and outlook on life. In the face of bear children, we should not be afraid, let alone tolerate, if parents do not teach their children the truth, let the law teach him.