In Shijiazhuang City, Hebei Province, on December 19, 2021, an old father who was worried about his son stayed up all night, and his eyes were closed with the face of his son's anxiety. He thought about it and felt uneasy.
Early the next morning, distraught, he simply packed up and went out. He dropped everything he had at hand and rushed to the child's school.
When you arrive at your child's school, your child is in class. The father waited for a while, and finally saw the child with a sad face. Across the fence, the father took the child's hand and gently comforted the child.
The big boy who lost his soul and lost his soul, seeing that his father did not have half a word of reproach, put his mind at ease and communicated with his father about the exam. As he spoke, the child cried sadly.
When the father saw his sobbing son, he said with mixed feelings: "I know that you have tried your best, just try your best!" Child, don't be sad, just keep working hard. ”
After saying that, the father lifted his son's face, looked at this little man who blamed himself and sad, and gently wiped the tears from his face for him.
Listening to the father's words of encouragement and feeling the gentle reassurance of the father wiping his tears, the child's mood slowly stabilized. He touched his father's hands into his arms and said that he would continue to work hard and be self-motivated.
Subsequently, the child's mother said: "The child claims that the test has failed, but in fact, we don't think so." It was a simple monthly exam, and he took the 12th place in the class. We are still very satisfied with his achievements. It's the pressure he puts on himself, a little too much. In fact, as long as he shares and tells. When we are not happy, we can explain it. ”
Qiu Qiu wants to say: This father is the iron man tenderness!
Every time I see such a harmonious and loving family relationship, I feel very relieved. Family education is the first stop of a child's growth, and parents are the child's first teachers. As parents, we can say that positive education and encouragement for children can play a vital role in the growth of children's children.
Especially when self-motivated good children estimate themselves too much and the pressure is too great, parents can stand up and give their children encouragement and affirmation, which is the greatest help and decompression for their children.
Children in many families live under the pressure of their parents and feel that they are the property of their parents. Parents beat them when they want, and scold them when they want. Children who have been in such a family environment for a long time will become sensitive, inferior, and easy to form a flattering personality.
Especially for school-age children, the test is not good and physically exhausting. When they return home, they still have to face the incomprehension and dissatisfaction of their families. Some hot-tempered parents even split their heads and cover their faces to give their children a scolding, or a beating. This is undoubtedly worse for the child, invisibly putting more pressure on it.
The mother in this article has a good saying: as long as the child is willing to share and talk to the parents, the parents will go to explain it. Because children are willing to talk about their troubles and pressures, it shows that they are trusting and recognizing parents and are willing to resolve pressure.
At this time, parents have a warm word or two, or gently pat the child, help him wipe his tears are great encouragement to the child. The positive encouragement and guidance of parents can better help children get out of difficulties and have a better future.