I don't pay much attention to the entertainment industry, but I pay more attention to marriage and emotions. Wang Lihong's divorce from Li Lianglei has caused a stir on the Internet. Many people sympathize with Li Lianglei, thinking that she has been married for eight years and has given birth to three children, so an excellent woman, for the family, gave everything, in the end, but ended up like this. Whoever shelves it will be indignant and difficult to accept. Indeed, this matter is not only a couple's good union, but also a couple's good union, but also will cause people to think about marriage, and even make people try to accept the lessons of marriage failure, so as to avoid tragedy in themselves.
For the failure of their marriage, at the beginning only Wang Lihong came out and sent a Weibo, and Li Lianglei began to choose silence, until things became more and more fermented, she did not respond, and then in the early morning of December 20, she sent another article refuting Wang Lihong, saying that he was unrepentant, continued to lie and deceive the public to confuse the public, and at the same time posted divorce agreements and psychological reports. Li Lianglei began to scold Wang Lihong: "In order to save yourself, you really do everything, you are not ashamed to make mistakes, but shameful is that you do not repent, and you continue to lie and deceive the public to confuse the public." I remember you told me that what you think is the best way to do PUBLIC RELATIONS is to try to destroy another person's reputation and mislead the public to divert attention. ”
If the marriage fails, the two people will be separated. However, if the marriage fails, because one person makes a mistake and cannot get by, when two people tear each other apart, the person who makes the mistake will do everything possible to maintain his face, try his best to denigrate the other party, and make himself innocent. If there is no mistake, there is no need to argue. Can't go on, the two have no feelings, but there is still character and responsibility, and it is not ugly to let go. But if, not because of that, but because of betrayal, it would be too ugly.
Regarding the failure of marriage, it should not be a sudden thing. As early as last October, Li Lianglei had sent a Weibo: "The journey is the end." Now, looking at it again, it seemed to be a sign of something, or in her mind, the marriage had come to an end. Just seeing marriage as a journey of life, and finally this period has come to an end, should be a hint of the failure of marriage. It's just that everyone thinks she's a happy woman, and no one thinks much about it.
Regarding the reasons for their divorce, Wang Lihong said in response to the "divorce rumors" that "I have done too much in these years of marriage, and I feel very sorry", and he seems to be helpless in such a way of self-examination, understated. Since you know that you have done a lot of things, why not try to change? Since you also feel regrets, why not try to make up for them?
Looking back on their marriage, it wasn't easy along the way. At first, their union was not favored by everyone, but later in the married life, they let everyone see happiness. They also had three children, and if there was no love, if the marriage was not happy, I believe that Li Lianglei would not have chosen to take such an adventure to have three children. However, unexpectedly, what is unexpected is that after eight years of marriage, three children in five years, the result is still a problem.
Wang Lihong's family is good, everyone knows, Shuxiang Mendi. Wang Lihong's mother did not support him to enter the entertainment circle at the beginning, probably wanting him to do learning, but Wang Lihong's talent or interest is music, and it turns out that he is indeed shining. At the same time, Li Lianglei is not bad, it can be said that she is very good. Li Lianglei studied at the prestigious Princeton University in the United States, specializing in financial engineering and operations research, and received a degree in engineering science four years later. Later, she studied for a Ph.D. at Columbia Business School, and after graduation, she also worked at JPMorgan Chase & Co. for 4 years. Such a scholar is very much in line with the criteria for the Wang family to choose a daughter-in-law.
Li Lianglei was very fond of sports before giving birth, liked to practice yoga, skydiving, and insisted on morning running. But after marriage, after five years, after three pregnancies, childbirth, breast milk process, it is conceivable that there is no time for themselves, and the body will also change, and the psychology will also be affected. This is the great thing about a woman who has to give up something she loves and cares about very much when she walks into marriage. If this kind of sacrifice and payment can be exchanged for cherishing and worth it, if it is not cherished and hurt, it will only make people's hearts chill.
After marriage, women, single-mindedly pounced on the family, pounced on the children, we can not exaggerate this sacrifice and pay, after all, sometimes, this is also what women themselves are willing to do, feel happy things, especially to see cute children grow day by day, this happiness is not something that outsiders can experience. So, that's not the reason her marriage failed. Not because of excessive giving, but because there is no appreciation. I don't think she'll regret her efforts for it. Believe it or not, you see Li Lianglei once said in an interview: "I believe that Lihong has a great mission to complete in this world, then I believe that this is a very important thing, there will be a lot of sacrifices, and those things I think are worth it." ”
But the failure of their marriage can only be related to Wang Lihong. Only Wang Lihong could be blamed for failing. Since having three children, Li Lianglei is all based on children, which will be emotionally neglectful Wang Lihong, which is a normal marital status quo, a person's energy is limited, it is impossible to take care of three children, but also have the energy to take care of her husband. At this time, men are needed to understand and support more, take more initiative to care for women, and cultivate and manage feelings. Only an irresponsible man would blame a woman who had given birth to a child for not caring about her own feelings, and blaming a woman for putting all her energy into the child. If someone shares, if men can also put their energy into part of the child, for the woman to share part of the hard work with the child, I believe that women can also make time to give men enough care and love.
And Wang Lihong is also very busy, and as long as he is busy with his music career, he is immersed in it, and he does not have much time to help Li Lianglei. Therefore, in this state, two people walk on different paths, and the feelings will naturally fade. But that's not why marriages fail. The real reason lies in Wang Lihong's betrayal.
Li Lianglei posted some evidence, saying that she had long known that Wang Lihong was not a person who checked the points, but because of her love and Because of Wang Lihong's assurances, she believed Wang Lihong again and again. Unexpectedly, Wang Lihong was still unruly after marriage and continued to maintain many bad habits before, which made Li Lianglei more and more disappointed.
It is reported that Wang Lihong's family is really too much for Li Lianglei. At the beginning, because she was worried that Li Lianglei was with Wang Lihong for money, she signed a prenuptial agreement in advance, although this is also normal, but this kind of prevention is a bit too much if it is necessary to prevent it after marriage. It is said that Wang Lihong's income after marriage is also for Wang Lihong's family to keep. Therefore, if a marriage fails, there will often be many small cracks, and slowly the cracks will become deeper and deeper.
Therefore, Li Lianglei's marriage failed, many people look for this and that reason, the real real reason is only one point, that is, Wang Lihong's betrayal and not cherishing. Fortunately, Wang Lihong has realized the mistake and just today at noon, he sent an apology. Hopefully he won't hurt his former partner again, for whatever reason, don't love anymore, just let it go. After letting go, the responsibility should be assumed to reduce the public's accusations against him. After all, two people and three children! This requires protection and pampering!
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