Wen | Yingma
There is a scene in the recent hit "Female Psychologist", the second-born mother Zhan Lu sent her daughter to school, waved goodbye to her daughter, and suddenly felt a hot current flowing out of her body, and she subconsciously wanted to take the bag to block it.
It was too late, and a little boy said bluntly, "You see she peed her pants, so big that she still peed her pants!" ”
The surrounding parents also showed mocking smiles on their faces. Zhan Lu really felt the ridicule of the parents!
At this time, the daughter, who had already run to the school, seemed to look back at Zhan Lu with a sharp mind, but she was worried that her daughter would be ridiculed by her classmates and told her daughter that you should not come over.
However, the daughter rushed over to cry and hugged her mother in spite of the ridicule of her classmates, trying to use her small body to block the strange eyes of others and block the embarrassment of her mother's postpartum leakage!
Seeing this scene, many netizens cried.
Netizen @ remember to lose weight yo, said: "Inexplicable tear collapse, women are really not easy." ”
Netizen @ Mr. Zuo said: "Watch once and cry once." ”
Netizen @ not enough to eat and sleep and not awake said: "Tears, although I have no children, but I think being a mother is really not an easy thing." ”
Netizens with the same experience said: It is really difficult to control.
After giving birth, some mothers cough and leak urine, and laughter will also leak urine, so they dare not laugh!
Second-born mothers leak urine at school gates, what does having a baby mean for women?
First, it means that the back pain must also protect the child
If the mother does not consume sufficient calcium when pregnant, the body will suck out the mother's teeth and teeth in the bones and give priority to the fetus, resulting in the mother's lack of calcium!
When the mother is pregnant, the uterus enlarges and pulls the muscles of the back, causing the mother to have back pain!
Countless times after the birth of the child to drink night milk at night, the mother gets up and holds the child to drink night milk or the child refuses to sleep, holding the child to sleep, resulting in mother wrist pain, back pain!
Therefore, having a child means that I am not full of food and drink for my mother, but I must first give my child enough to eat and drink well, which means that my mother sacrifices herself to complete the child!
Having a baby means that the glorious diary on the stomach is difficult to disappear
When pregnant, one stretch mark after another quietly grows on the mother's belly, and as long as the stretch marks grow out, it is difficult to completely fade, unless the mother goes to laser to break it, so these stretch marks are the glorious mark of the mother giving birth.
And if the mother is a caesarean section, the knife scars on the stomach will remain on the mother's stomach forever, which is difficult to eliminate, and these are also the marks of the baby.
Third, having a child means that good shape is gone
We see that many celebrities after giving birth to a child, the figure is still the same good, but only the mother who has given birth to a child knows that the stomach is enlarged in October of pregnancy, and then recycled, the amplitude that can be collected is also limited, plus it is easy for us to separate the rectus abdominis when we give birth, so the muscles in the abdomen are difficult to be as tight as a girl!
In addition, after we give birth, our faces will become larger, that is, from girly to feminine, and the whole body will become larger!
If it is breastfeeding, if you do not pay attention, it may also cause the baby to suck one side of the breast to quit milk to become larger, the other side of the breast becomes smaller, that is, the breast side is large and small, the mother does not pay attention to maintenance, after feeding breast milk may also lead to breast sagging, which will affect the figure!
Having a baby means you will be left with the after-effects of childbirth
For example, postpartum urinary leakage is due to the sequelae of childbirth caused by pelvic floor muscle relaxation. Star Ma Yili once forwarded the article on vaginal dumbbells, and said that she cried after reading this article, and it was really not easy for her mother!
So the arrival of every child means the sacrifice of the mother, born as a person, really to thank their own mother, and as the father of the child, but also to thank the woman who bore you children.
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