FPE·1231 Empowering Family Education Law| what problems will occur with children who cannot express emotions?

Hello everyone, I am Teacher Liu of Qingxindu Psychological Education. Some parents will think that there is nothing wrong with children not expressing emotions. Many of the problematic children are often parents who ignore the child's emotions. So let's take a look at what goes wrong with children who don't express emotions. If emotions cannot be expressed normally, they may be expressed in terms of physical symptoms, such as stomach pain, eczema, headaches, and so on. Of course, you may also use behavior to express your emotions, such as aggressive behavior. These bad emotional expressions will cause trouble to the child, which may be a poor parent-child relationship, or it may be aversion to school and so on. This is because behind the emotion represents a psychological need that will always exist without being satisfied, and will always try to express it in some way.

So how do parents help their children solve emotional problems?

First, create a safe family atmosphere for children, so that children can freely express their emotions.

Second, accept the child's emotions and understand the motivation behind the child's emotions.

Third, properly meet the child's inner needs, such as the child is worried about being abandoned, the parents promise not to abandon the child.

Fourth, help children use language to accurately express their needs, which is also a necessary process for children's socialization.

Well, that's it for today's sharing. Pay attention to the psychological education of Qingxindu to take you to learn more about the mental health of adolescents.