The feeling of love is often very deep, it is based on like, and like is based on having a good feeling, so its production is actually a gradual process.
However, if we can take a reasonable and effective approach, we can also make men reach the level of love for their feelings in a short period of time.
Of course, flattery and excessive initiative and enthusiasm are never the way to prioritize, because when women are very enthusiastic about men, then in men's hearts, they will feel that women are cheap and easy to get, and what is easy to get will naturally not be cherished.
Therefore, if you want a man to fall in love with you in a very short period of time, you may wish to try this method.
Learn to get along with men in a man's way of thinking
01), there is a blogger to share her family's daily life, every time the mother gets dressed, she will ask the blogger's opinion, feel dissatisfied, and then go back to change, and the father is only asked once, if the blogger says it is not appropriate, the father will directly say: "What do you know", and then go away.
It can be seen from this that the woman's way of thinking generally focuses on the process, while the man's way of thinking focuses on the result, one is more emotional, and the other is more rational.
In the relationship between the sexes, women due to the influence of perceptual thinking, always have a loss of the love they already have, by checking the mobile phone, not allowing the other party to talk to the opposite sex, asking over and over again "do you love me" and other ways to determine the man's love for themselves, on the surface it seems to be arbitrary, but in fact, this is the embodiment of their deep inner insecurity.
02), a person is often the more concerned, the more they will be afraid of loss, so in such a situation, they will naturally become inferior in the relationship, at the same time, men will be more and more unscrupulous because they are favored.
In order to avoid such a situation, the best solution is actually to use male thinking to fall in love with men.
Because when we can change our thinking, it means that we can look at our love from a male perspective, and see if those who tirelessly ask whether they will be bored after the roles are exchanged.
In this way, we can avoid some unnecessary unhappiness factors, and at the same time, we can better capture men's hearts.
For men, the more they don't get it, the more they want it
Why use male thinking to fall in love with men can make men fall in love with themselves in a short period of time? Here's why.
Shen Siyi's attitude towards feelings in the TV series "Great Girl" is that she has been in a kaleidoscope of flowers, leaves do not stick to her body, only love, and do not get married, so when she treats feelings, she pays attention to enjoying the present, and will not put all her thoughts on men because she is afraid of losing or looking forward to the future.
Shen Siyi retracts freely, devotes herself to love when she is in love, and will decisively leave when she does not want to fall in love, and will never drag mud and water.
Man is a very strange creature, following his own, he is dismissive, dismissive of himself, but he is desperate to follow, so when Shen Siyi will not become a love brain, men play this role in feelings.
Yao Yuan loves Shen Siyi very much, he knows that Shen Siyi does not like himself, but he still refuses to give up thinking about trying to impress the other party.
People are like this, easy to get, scornful, painstakingly can not get, but look forward to it, that is because what can not be obtained is always in turmoil, but also because of the scarcity effect in psychology, things are scarce and expensive, the more they can not get, the more they can arouse people's deep desires, especially men's desire to conquer.
Wise people do not fall in love, and the secret to love is "desperate love"
The so-called absolute love is not pure heart, but we will not invest our hearts too quickly in a relationship, nor will we believe in a person too quickly, but to remain rational and sober, understanding that feelings that progress too fast will invariably face a cup and plate ending, so steady and steady is the key.
You know, anything can only be cherished if people pay a cost, just like a mobile phone is sent by a recharge bill, and another mobile phone is bought for ten thousand yuan, which must be the latter is more likely to occupy people's hearts, because it costs the highest cost, which means the highest loss.
Therefore, when we deal with feelings, we can follow such a principle - we will not give all our sincerity to men, we must become "realistic", no matter what sweet words the man says, we must wait until he "realizes" the so-called love, and then try to accept the other party's sincerity.
There is no shortcut to love, all happiness is produced in the case of preparation, in the relationship between the sexes, sober reason and reality is an important weapon to protect women, only in this way, when we deal with feelings, can we achieve the results we want.