Yangyang's mother often taught her children this way: "Grandparents and grandparents lived in the old society because they were poor and could not afford to read; their parents abandoned their studies when they were young. Child, we can't do it, our family is counting on you. "How did you get an 86?" Mom and Dad have spent so much effort, you don't have to do anything at home, people have you, people don't have you, you don't have it, and you don't study well. "You are the only one in the family, the whole family treats you so well, you are so disobedient and not contentious, how can you be worthy of your parents?"
In fact, in school, Yangyang's teachers have put a lot of pressure on him, emphasizing that he should learn more and practice more, strive for good grades, and enter key high schools and key universities. "You don't study well, you don't observe discipline, you are sorry for the country, you are sorry for your parents, and you have failed to live up to our hard work as a teacher." Can Yang Yang understand all of his mother and teacher's words? He was just a child, and in his little mind, everything was simple and beautiful. In fact, these educational methods stifle children's happy nature, deprive them of their due rights, burden their hearts, and gradually cast them into "little adults", making them into a model of young people who lack vitality, follow the rules, and follow the old path of their parents without being able to take new steps.
At the same time, the small age carries too much hope, hope will turn into pressure, under the burden, some children have to aggrieved themselves, according to the path prescribed by adults. Some children, unable to bear the burden, become problem children, skipping school, lying, making bad friends, deliberately opposing their parents, and at this point, hope is bound to turn into disappointment. "Precocious" children are mentally unhealthy children, and maturity that is not commensurate with age only means premature aging.