In this life, it is easy to fall in love with a person, but it is difficult to maintain love for a lifetime.
Some people say that after a long time, love will fade. The life of chai rice oil and salt is the most grinding, and the freshness between men and women is disappearing, so there is an itch of seven years and a disaster of ten years.
Some people say that a person will not fall in love with only one person in a lifetime, this is the mate selection instinct of animals, especially male animals, his instinct determines that he will not only love one woman in his life.
Love is an eternal topic, love can not be, divided into two situations, one is because of objective reasons, doomed not to be together; the other is that after being together, one side of love disappears, while the other party continues.
◆ Love cannot be made for objective reasons, and all contact should be cut off.
Two people love each other deeply, because of moral, responsibility and other objective reasons, together is doomed to be a tragedy, then no matter how painful, how much can not be put down, do not contact again.
Don't be indecisive, break the thread, and consume and torture each other.
Two people who love each other deeply cannot be friends, nor can they be transformed into family affection. Seeing each other, hearing each other's voices, and receiving text messages will all be unable to be affected by love, enhancing the love of both parties and transforming into deeper pain.
This is the Romeo and Juliet effect, because if you can't be together, you want to be together even more, and you can only be martyred.
As long as there is still contact, there will be illusions, will pay attention to each other's dynamics, pull tearing emotions, when the thoughts accumulate to a certain extent, they will inevitably repeat the same mistakes, suffer again, return to reason, or the same result, can not be together.
Cutting off contact is a test of one's own ability to withstand, but also the wisest choice, the wood has become a boat, the final situation is difficult to change, it is better to let go of yourself, let go of the other party, let time dilute everything. Looking back, I will thank myself for my decision and really let go.
◆ Because the feelings dilute love, we must regroup.
A marriage, mostly because love goes together, it is difficult to maintain a long and passionate love for a person, when the feeling of love on one side disappears, can only rely on marriage constraints, a long time, living together, just partnering to live, torturing each other, indifference to each other.
Once beautiful, is there nothing? Once had love, can't bear to give up, the best way is not to transform into affection, because you are not blood relatives. Becoming a relative and becoming a brother is the greatest insult to dead love
The best way is for both people to start over, adjust their state, refresh their appearance and soul, fall in love with each other again and again, and attract each other to fall in love with themselves again and again. Evenly matched, always upward, becoming the best self, will inevitably achieve the best partner.