It is said that lovers eventually become dependents.
But many times, fate is predestined.
Some people have shallow feelings, even if they are noisy, they can stay together for a lifetime;
Some people have a deep affection and love vigorously, but they cannot become husband and wife.
As there is a line in the movie "The Year of Hurry":
"The older people get, the more they will understand that there is the best thing in the world, called not to get it."
Truly intelligent women, in the face of love, will not stalk, but will deal with it this way!
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Let go of attachments and truly reconcile with yourself
Love requires attachment, but it does not need attachment.
If the obsession is too deep, only you will be hurt in the end.
In this world, there are too many women who cannot be trapped and restricted because of love, so they are depressed all their lives, until they finally do not come out.
Like a story I've seen online before:
Girls liked a boy in their early years, but for various reasons, the two did not end up together.
Later, the boy fell in love, married, and had children, but she never came out of the relationship and never accepted anyone.
As a result, I spent a lifetime, and finally I was lonely!
How short is life, if you sacrifice a lifetime for a love that does not belong to you, why bother?
The writer Chen Wenqian once said: "When a woman reaches an age, perhaps the most important thing to learn is to let go of the obsession with love." Let go of expectations of others, give more love to yourself, and give more worthy friendships. ”
Even if you love again, if you can't go on hand, it is better to go with him.
Know that your hard work will not change the slightest bit
Therefore, learning to let the past go away, letting go of obsession, and accepting the feelings that really belong to you is the best way to let yourself go.
02
If there is no fate, then the rest of your life will not disturb each other
Some people, if they can't get along with each other, it is better to forget each other.
If you know that there is no result in love, and you still dig your heart and lungs out to a person,
There are only two end results – either to deceive themselves or to hurt each other.
Either way, it's not a good thing for you!
The best way is not to disturb each other for the rest of your life.
Resist the urge to make contact, resist the thought of disturbing you, you take your Yangguan Road, I cross my canoe bridge, and from then on, I will no longer think about the past.
In the movie "Roman Holiday", the noble princess and a civilian journalist spend a happy day in Rome, in the process, love for each other,
But helpless identity disparity, doomed to be fateless,
Therefore, the princess chose to let each other return to their original life tracks and never entangled with each other again.
This is the wise woman who has spared herself and fulfilled others.
Since the encounter is not enough to let each other stay, then in the days to come, do not disturb each other, each other is safe!
03
Live well and embrace new feelings bravely
In life, no one can live without anyone.
Since love has gone far and the fate is no more, instead of stumbling in mistakes, you may wish to try to leave freely and live well.
Jimmy said:
"Others can do things for you, but they can't feel for you. The road of life depends on oneself, and success depends on oneself to strive for. ”.
When you start to let go of the past and spend time improving yourself, you will find that better people are waiting for you.
As there is a passage in "All the Way Crazy":
"A person's life, like a car, drives from the beginning to the end, along the road some people come up, some people go down; some walk together, some wave goodbye; some people, maybe just a passenger on your hitchhiker, will inadvertently change your life." 」
In this life, although it is inevitable that women will suffer because of feelings, as long as they are willing, they can not be bound.
Gaining my luck, losing my life, chasing bravery, and letting go is the best concept of love.
For the rest of your life, the only thing you need to do is to hold the steering wheel of life in your own hands, and only by waving something wrong can you meet better.
Finally, may you and I both find where we belong, not forget our original intentions, and live up to ourselves!