Hello everyone, today Xiaobian has come to share dry goods with you again. I believe that you mothers must have encountered this situation, do not allow the baby to do things, he has to do, and if you stop it, you will cry, and even roll on the ground, the mothers do not know how to deal with it for a while, then take a look at it with the editor.
Children are one and a half years old to three years old, in the first rebellious period of life, and two years old is the most typical, so it is called "terrible two years old". Although the "terrible two-year-old" sounds a bit grinding, this stage is a good time for children to develop their personality.
1. Distraction and distraction
Two-year-olds are extremely self-centered, and they feel that their parents must be able to understand their own thoughts and thoughts. Therefore, parents should try to understand their children's emotions and expressions. When there is a disagreement with the child, parents should not be tough, but should find ways to divert and distract the child's attention.
2. Guide children to solve problems on their own
Around two years old is a child's angry and cute age, because the ability to move can not keep up with intellectual development, often because they can not do something, will cry themselves. When children encounter difficulties in doing something, parents should not help their children solve the problem immediately because they are crying. You can show your child the right way to do it, and then encourage your child to do it again.
3. Gently but firmly make rules for your child
Although children around the age of two are "self-centered", it does not mean that parents have to meet all their unreasonable requirements, and we can work with children to formulate "rules" within the scope of their ability to help children establish a sense of order.
For example, brushing your teeth every day, taking a bath, sleeping when the time comes, and not hitting people when you lose your temper. After the rules are set, everyone in the family must abide by them with the children.
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