Sitting in a closed car, especially when the window is black, there is an inexplicable feeling of nervousness and fear, and in a small closed room that lacks freedom, you can also involuntarily fidget, do you have this symptom? This may be what people usually call claustrophobia. And this symptom comes from many sources, but also from the so-called shadow.
Unlike most people, many people have no lucky memories before the age of six
Listening to my mother say that when I was a child, I liked to follow my father very much, and every time he went out, I would always cry and run out, but when I thought about it carefully, it was blank, but I vaguely remembered how I was locked in the small room that day.
Dad hugged his brother, laughing very happy, such as the treasure, constantly laughing at his brother, I kept calling him next to him, he didn't pay much attention, just cared about the brother in his hand, and then I cried, louder and louder, he immediately killed me with a straight face, and then there was no way to face my more and more fierce crying, I kept shouting, crying, but after a long time still no one came to open the door, only to hear him holding his brother outside from time to time to come to laughter, I ran to the window to see, can't figure out why, At that time, there was only one thought in my mind, that is, why he ignored me but was only so good to my brother.
Maybe that was the only memory I had before I was six years old, but it also became a shadow for a lifetime. Sometimes people will selectively remember, but also forced to remember, some things continue to impact your brain, will only make the memory more and more profound.
After many years of memories, I did not ask him why he kept me in the room, because every time I was uneasy in the car, I looked out the window and thought, every parent has a different pain. I'm also wondering if if I didn't remember those, then I wouldn't have the fear of small spaces I have now.
Although there are many reasons for this fear of claustrophobia, the gray childhood of my childhood has more or less affected my later life, even my life.
Therefore, as a parent, there must be a scale in her heart, because the child's ability to bear is insufficient, and in the face of unparalleled preference, her psychology will also have different degrees of deviation, which will seriously affect her life.
What do you remember about childhood?
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