The realm of education determines the height of education.
On the road of parent-child education, there are six levels, and each level represents an educational concept.
What is your philosophy of educating your children? What heights can your educational philosophy bring children to?
The first layer of homeschooling
You are willing to spend money on your child, no matter what the child wants, you feel that as long as it is beneficial to the child's growth, you will buy him, you think that money is an expression of love.
The second layer of homeschooling
You are willing to spend time for your child, no matter how busy you are, you are willing to take a large part of the time to accompany your child and witness the growth of your child.
The third layer of homeschooling
For the sake of your child's future, you begin to set goals and learning directions for your child, and once the goal can be clearly determined, you can educate your child in a targeted manner, rather than blindly cultivating your child.
The fourth layer of homeschooling
In order to better cultivate children and learn scientific educational methods, you no longer complain that children are naughty and can't control children, you start to pay attention to children's problem symptoms and their causes, and actively intervene and correct.
The fifth layer of homeschooling
In order to educate your children, you take the initiative to improve and improve yourself, because you understand that if you want your children to become what kind of person, you must first become that kind of person, and all family education is actually the result of words and deeds.
The sixth layer of homeschooling
You truly recognize that children are unique, that "who I am" is more important than "who I am", that you lead by example that supports children to be their true selves, and that you do your best to encourage them to be the best version of themselves.
Cai Yuanpei said: "The essence of education is to show personality and still be natural. ”
"The beginning of all things, the road to simplicity, the evolution to the complexity." The seemingly most complex questions in the world, as long as they return to their essence, often have the most direct and simple answers. The same is true of education.
A parent told me in a private message that her husband was always worried that her children would not be able to survive in society in the future, so he deliberately created some difficulties for his children in life, so the children became very defensive.
Out of worry, deliberately cultivate children's ability to resist setbacks, bringing fear to children, carefully resisting setbacks; unconditional parenting is the best anti-frustration education, and love is the best ability to resist setbacks.
As a parent, having trust and respect at home is the best soil for raising children, and giving high-quality companionship and affirmation outside is a harbor for children to feel safe.