Recently, a video was on the hot search list, triggering a fierce discussion among enthusiastic netizens. The video shows that in a park in Dongguan, Guangdong Province, the iron riding traffic police found a little girl crying alone, and the little girl was not wearing shoes.
The traffic police will pick up the little girl to comfort, ask her why she is alone in the park, the little girl cried while saying that she was playing with her father and mother and brother, the little girl wanted to play here, the father did not agree, the little girl has been crying, the father directly led the mother and brother away, leaving the little girl alone here.
Soon the traffic police contacted the parents of the little girl, and sternly told the parents of the little girl not to joke with the child about the loss of the child, if the child is really lost, the parents regret it is too late. After the criticism and education of the traffic police, the parents of the little girl also realized their mistake and finally left with the little girl.
As soon as the video came out, it triggered a heated discussion among netizens, who accused the father in the video of being too irresponsible.
The father's approach in the video is indeed a bit extreme, no matter what, he should not leave the young child alone in the park, if the child is unfortunate to be abducted by human traffickers, the parents will regret it. Moreover, this extreme approach of parents will make children feel afraid and worried, and it is easy to leave psychological shadows on children.
Children play big, greedy play is not willing to go home are normal, parents can first reason with the child, and the child explained, it is very late, we should go home, you obedient, the next time mom and dad will take you to play.
If the child is still crying and refusing to go home, parents can let the child cry, but can not throw herself in place, parents should ensure that the child has been within their own line of sight, the child is always crying tired, calm down, then parents and children to reason, believe that the child can listen.
A netizen told his experience as a child, his parents took him to the amusement park to play on the weekend, netizens wanted to do pirate ships, but there were too many people queuing for pirate ships, netizens' parents did not want to waste their time on the queue, to pull netizens away, netizens cried and refused to go, parents directly left netizens striding forward.
There are too many people coming to the amusement park on the weekend, and within a few minutes, netizens can't see the trace of their parents, rush to catch up, their parents didn't find it, and the netizens themselves got lost.
And netizens also found that there was a strange man who had been following him, netizens were very scared, and finally fortunately met the staff of the amusement park, the man saw that there was an adult turned around and left. Netizens were sent to the radio station of the amusement park, and finally the parents of netizens heard the radio and came to find netizens.
After this incident, every time I see the amusement park netizens will think of the fact that I was almost abducted, walking on the road will always feel that someone behind me is secretly following me.
Parenthood is a long practice, parents in the education of children at the same time to improve their own, do not move to say "drop" the child, "do not" the child's words, do not cause harm to the child's psychology due to a momentary anger, accompany the child, and the child together to adjust, deal with the emotions is what a qualified parent should do.