During the Republic of China period when the old and the new alternated, there were many centuries of celebrities on the beach, and there was such an aristocratic woman, different from the brocade of other celebrities, what she pursued in her life was real and dashing, daring to act.
When she suffered domestic violence from her husband, she used the three major families in Shanghai to support her, which made her husband regretful; when she was forced to marry by the Japanese, she resolutely remarried to show national integrity. Who is this lady sacred? How is her life now at 106?
The "ugly duckling" of the famous nobles
In 1915, the Shanghai aristocratic Yan family ushered in their first daughter, this baby girl is a premature baby, eight months old came to life, due to insufficient nutrition, the baby girl was born thin and small, no hair, her mother was slightly disappointed, felt that the daughter is the only "ugly duckling" of the Yan family.
Seeing the loss of her daughter-in-law, Yan Zijun, the grandfather of the baby girl, said: "Girls have eighteen changes, it is better to call it Renmei, the longer the more beautiful." She had been a bald figure until she was two years old, and the mother worked hard to make her daughter grow hair, until a relative of the Yan family brought Xiao Renmei to the UK for recuperation, but she was still the image of the "ugly duckling".
In 1921, 6-year-old Yan Renmei lost her mother, without her mother's love, she lived with her wife, even if she was dressed in fine clothes and jade, she would miss her mother and cry. Two years later, 8-year-old Yan Renmei went to qixiu girls' school to study, and it was the reading experience that made the timid and cowardly she find the direction of life and the meaning of life.
In 1925, 10-year-old Xiao Renmei went to shanghai's famous aristocratic school Zhongxi Girls' High School to study, at this time Yan Renmei grew long hair, exquisite facial features, and was extremely eye-catching in the crowd. When she chatted with her girlfriend, she said with great anticipation: "I hope to succeed in my studies and marry a good person..."
The "White Swan" who does not want to marry
Yan Renmei's life did not flourish, and when her life was just on the right track, the Yan family had a major event that caused a sensation in Shanghai: her cousin ran away from the big wedding day because she was dissatisfied with the family's arranged marriage, which disgraced the entire family.
Through this incident, her father felt that the new era of thinking made the woman more and more bottomless, and in order to prevent Yan Renmei from "repeating the same mistakes" in the future, he ordered his daughter to drop out of school and go home.
Yan Renmei's character was stubborn and resolute, and the helpless Yan Zhiduo had to say: "If you can get 90 points in each homework, I will agree with you to continue studying."
He originally wanted his daughter to retreat from the difficulty, but he did not expect that his daughter had passed the first place in the graduation examination of the third grade, although there was an appointment first, Yan Zhiduo still refused her daughter to go to school again. Yan Renmei could not help her father, so she had to study at home.
In 1929, the local wealthy merchant Ma Family took a fancy to Yan Renmei, who coexisted with appearance and wisdom, and went to the Yan Family many times to propose to him, Yan Zhiduo thought that the Ma Family was well-off and the Ma Family was dignified, so he agreed to this family affair.
When Yan Renmei asked Yan Renmei to marry the Ma family prince, he was fiercely resisted by Yan Renmei, and in order to resist his father's strong arrangement, Yan Renmei went on a hunger strike to protest, and in the midst of grief and indignation, Yan Renmei suffered from lung disease. Extremely weak, she was able to recover under the care of her grandfather, but she still could not escape the fate of marriage.
In the family's repeated persuasion, Yan Renmei married Ma Guanliang, the son of the Ma family, and did not know that this marriage was doomed to be a tragedy from the beginning.
Encounter the "divorce storm" of domestic violence
Soon after the marriage, Yan Renmei became pregnant, Ma Guanliang often looked for flowers and willows outside, Yan Renmei was unbearable, from the initial communication to the subsequent dispute, Yan Renmei was full of grievances, but her in-laws thought that Yan Renmei was making unreasonable trouble.
In the face of the cheating Ma Guanliang, Yan Renmei could not bear to propose a divorce, and Ma Guanliang, who was extremely face-saving, beat up Yan Renmei.
Yan Renmei, who was subjected to domestic violence, strengthened her determination to divorce Ma Guanliang, and she moved out of the three major families of Shanghai Beach, the Sheng family, the Song family, and the Kong family, and under the pressure of multiple forces, the Ma family had to agree to Yan Renmei's request for "Xiufu".
This is the divorce incident that caused a sensation in Shanghai, and many people were impressed by this Yan family who dared to love and dare to hate, but she did not get rid of the magic cave, and soon faced another wolf den, this wolf den is the Japanese Yamamoto.
Before the Pacific War, Yan Renmei was preparing to rent out the House 15 of Shinkang Garden, and she was taken in by a Japanese named Yamamoto. This Japanese person fell in love with Yan Renmei at first sight and went to the Xinkang Garden every day to talk to Yan Renmei to show his heart.
In order to avoid Yamamoto, Yan Renmei no longer went to the Xinkang Garden and hid in her mother's house, and Yamamoto simply entrusted people to go to her mother's house to propose to her, which made Yan Renmei have to go to her uncle's house, the Zhu family and other places to hide from Yamamoto.
However, Yamamoto was desperate to pursue, and directly sent people to follow up and make trouble, just like the position of "not marrying Renmei and vowing not to give up". This made the Yan family headache, in order to get rid of Yamamoto entanglement as soon as possible, the Yan family decided to let Yan Renmei marry after consultation, unlike the arrangement of the first marriage, Yan Father this time in a deliberative tone, and let her meet and talk with her fiancé Li Zumin before marriage.
Eventually married to a good man
Different from the style of Ma Guanliang's clumsy children, although Li Zumin was born into a rich family, he was polite and hard-working, and the two young people fell in love at first sight, and Yan Renmei gladly agreed to this family affair. Soon after, under the control of the Yan family and the Li family, Yan Renmei married Li Zumin with 10 bodyguards with high martial arts.
The 10 bodyguards are not to add to their own marriage, but to prevent Yamamoto from making trouble during the wedding. The two have similar views, happiness and sweetness after marriage, Yan Renmei gave birth to two children for Li Zumin, a family of four warm and happy, Yan Renmei is extremely satisfied.
It is also because Li Zumin has a preference for Yan Renmei, and also regards her and her ex-husband Ma Guanliang's children as his own, which makes Yan Renmei firm: he has met the right person.
In 1951, the two took the lead in supporting the public-private partnership launched by the state, and started a business in the wave of reform and opening up, making a lot of contributions to the country.
But people have sorrows and joys, after 50 years of wind and rain, Li Zumin died of illness, before dying, Li Zumin wanted Yan Ren to have a good life, and after seeing Yan Renmei nodding, he died. The grief-stricken Yan Renmei tearfully handled the aftermath for Li Zumin, and she always insisted on her commitment to her husband and spent every day conscientiously.
brief summary
Today's Yan Renmei is 106 years old, she still insists on reading books, newspapers and writing calligraphy, she can't see the traces of time on her, and her hands and feet are full of elegance and generosity, which is the intellectual beauty that time can't take away.
Yan Renmei, as the last famous woman in the Republic of China period, her life was wonderful and ups and downs, and she also used practical actions to inform the world: years are undefeated and beautiful, and knowledge is always precious.
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