Pan Hanying took the court staff to the school to pick up his son, and after his son Xiaohao saw it, he cried loudly and shouted in his mouth to find his father, Pan Hanying went forward to pull his son, and was thrown away by his son, unwilling to go with her.
At this time, a man walked up to Xiao Hao's side and gently comforted the child with a few words, and Xiao Hao stopped crying.
This man is Liao Lianbi, Xiao Hao's father, who took the judge's hand and said that he was determined not to let Pan Hanying take the child away.
It was a very common thing for a husband and wife to pick up their children from school, why did this family make such a fuss?
It turned out that the couple had divorced, and the son was originally awarded to her mother Pan Hanying to raise, so she brought the court's people to pick up the child, but she did not expect that the child would resolutely not go with her.
Seeing the child crying and tearing his lungs, Liao Lianbi regretted that he should not agree to give the child to his wife, and he begged the judge to help him fight for custody of the child.
What embarrassed the court personnel was that Liao Lianbi was not Xiao Hao's biological father, and it was reasonable to say that after divorcing Pan Hanying, he had nothing to do with the children, but the development of things did not play according to the norm.
Due to his family's poverty, Liao Lianbi had not yet married a wife in his forties, and in 2011 someone introduced him to Pan Hanying, who was only 25 years old.
At that time, Pan Hanying was working in Zhejiang, the two people were dating through video chat, thinking that their conditions were not good, and they were more than ten years older than each other, Liao Lianbi did not have much hope for this marriage, but he did not expect that two days later, Pan Hanying told him that she was willing to marry him, which made Liao Lianbi happy.
Pan Hanying made it clear that he also had a son, and there was only one requirement for him, that is, to marry him with a son who was more than one year old.
Liao Lianbi agreed, and the two immediately married after two months of acquaintance.
After marriage, Pan Hanying went to work in other places, and Liao Lianbi was at home with children, although the husband and wife gathered less and left more, the life was plain and comfortable.
Fast forward three years, after the Spring Festival in 2014, when Pan Hanying went out to work again, she suddenly changed her phone number and lost contact with her family.
In a hurry, Liao Lianbi called his father-in-law to ask about the situation, and his father-in-law's phone was also not working.
Liao Lianbi suddenly had a bad premonition, and he felt that Pan Hanying was doing this to force him to divorce.
Why?
It turned out that Liao Lianbi, who had always been in good health, suddenly coughed up blood, and he went to the hospital for examination and was told that he had nasopharyngeal cancer, and it cost a lot of money to be hospitalized twice.
Just when Liao Lianbi was almost unable to withstand this sudden blow, Pan Hanying not only did not comfort him, but instead uttered a sentence: "Anyway, I am divorced from you."
This ruthless word made Liao Lianbi fall into the ice cave, and when he did not return to God, Pan Hanying left him and his son Xiao Hao and did not quit.
Since then, Pan Hanying has evaporated like he has evaporated in the human world.
Although Liao Lianbi was cold and angry, he was kind by nature, and he still dragged his weak sick body and picked up the burden of taking care of Xiao Hao.
Pick up your kids up and drop off them to school on time, cook delicious meals for your kids, and boil water to bathe them.
Liao Lianbi's parents have died, his brothers and sisters have also become a family, in order to take care of Xiao Hao, he can only stay at home every day to sit and eat the mountain air, plus see a doctor and take medicine, and gradually become a special poor household in the village.
The villagers took pity on the father and son, and often sent them some clothes and food to make ends meet.
Xiao Hao's academic performance has always been very good, well-behaved and sensible, and Liao Lianbi's feelings for him have become deeper and deeper.
As a stepfather, Liao Lianbi's kindness to Xiao Hao is remarkable.
In contrast, the biological mother Pan Hanying's approach is really incomprehensible.
In the face of people's doubts, Pan Hanying said her bitterness: when she and her boyfriend were unmarried and pregnant, after breaking up, she returned to her mother's home with her son, and her family did not support and did not care about her, and she was isolated and helpless, so she was anxious to find a foothold, and gambled with her son to marry Liao Lianbi.
Originally, Pan Hanying and Liao Lianbi had no emotional basis, and when Liao Lianbi's physical problems occurred, it accelerated her determination to leave him.
In January 2015, Pan Hanying filed a lawsuit with the court to dissolve the marriage relationship with Liao Lianbi, and the court rejected Liao Lianbi's claim, considering that Liao Lianbi was ill and the child was still young.
In 2017, Pan Hanying filed a divorce lawsuit with the court again, and the court ruled that Xiao Hao should be raised by Pan Hanying, and as compensation for Liao Lianbi, Pan Hanying needed to pay Liao Lianbi 30,000 yuan at a time.
Accompanied by court staff, when Pan Hanying went to school to take her son home, the scene at the beginning of the article appeared.
In Xiao Hao's memory, he had always lived with Liao Lianbi, and he had no impression of his biological mother, so when Pan Hanying wanted to take him away, he had such a big rejection.
Liao Lianbi was originally reluctant to let Xiao Hao go, and this crying stung his heart even more, and he immediately returned the compensation of thirty thousand yuan to Pan Hanying to continue to live with Xiao Hao.
When Pan Hanying objected, Liao Lianbi said in a trembling voice, "I am better to him than my own son!"
The stepfather was reluctant to stepchildren, and the stepchildren were reluctant to leave the stepfather, which made the judge difficult.
The judge advised Pan Hanying: You have also seen that the child has a lot of feelings for him.
Pan Hanying retorted: I know, but he doesn't have the ability to take care of the child now.
The judge once again argued on the basis of reason: the child also has personal freedom, he is not an object, we can't tie him, he is not willing to go who has no way, you want to walk the child, only slowly cultivate the affection with the child.
Pan Hanying believes that she is Xiao Hao's biological mother, and there is an agreement in black and white, and she cannot throw him to Liao Lianbi because her son does not want to leave.
With the biological mother on one side and the stepfather on the other, who should raise the child? Is the court mediation agreement still valid? Can it still be fulfilled?
In order to ensure the healthy growth of the child, the court denied the validity of the settlement agreement and the validity of the settlement agreement with the maintenance relationship.
In July 2017, the court ruled that the child was raised by Liao Lianbi, and Pan Hanying paid 450 yuan per month for living expenses until Xiao Hao turned 18 years old, during which education expenses, medical expenses and other expenses were largely spent, and both sides paid half of the cost.
Liao Lianbi was happy to get the custody of Xiao Hao, but Pan Hanying should pay the child 450 yuan in child support, but he never gave it, Liao Lianbi did not want to worry about her, only wanted to raise Xiao Hao on his own.
In October 2017, Pan Hanying went to court again, demanding a new lawsuit to get custody of her son back, and objected to the maintenance fees raised in the judgment, refusing to pay them on the grounds that her job was unstable.
The court staff asked her: If you have no financial resources yourself, how can you ensure the life of your children?
A sentence made Pan Hanying stand still.
The court held that in the current situation, there is no point in changing the custody of the child, because the child is not willing to go with the mother, the mother really wants the child, can often go back to see the child, and asked Pan Hanying if she would like to go back to see the child now.
Pan Hanying shook his head and said bluntly that he would not go.
No one knows why Pan Hanying is reluctant to see his son, Liao Lianbi said that he does not care how Pan Hanying tosses, he only wants to pull his son into adulthood.
The only thing that made him difficult was that Xiao Hao had no household registration from birth to the age of eight.
Upon learning of this situation, the court finally put Xiao Hao's hukou in place through many efforts, and considering liao Lianbi's family poverty, the personnel of the Yangshuo County Court in Guangxi Province took out six thousand yuan in cash from their own funds to give to Liao Lianbi.
The money may not be much, but it contains the respect and praise of the court staff for Liao Lianbi.
For children who are not related by blood, Liao Lianbi's insistence on not abandoning is touching, and family affection is not only an innate blood affection, but also a kind and sense of responsibility that is more precious than blood.
In the consciousness of ordinary people, the biological mother and stepfather compete for the custody of the child, and there is almost no chance of winning, but the court follows the principle of benefiting the physical and mental health of the child and protecting the legitimate rights and interests of the child, so that the child and the stepfather are comforted.
From the above story, it can be seen that as a mother, Pan Hanying is undoubtedly derelict in her duties, she desecrated the sacred title of mother, including later she competed for the custody of the child, nothing more than unwilling to pay a monthly custody fee of 450 yuan, if you really miss the child, love the child, how can you not want to see the child?
However, the stepfather Liao Lianbi, and Xiao Hao, although not biological, are like their own children, praising him and the staff of the court, and may all the good people in the world be able to live a peaceful life!