Lu Xiaoman, who is in his 20s, is a famous social flower in Beijing. She is good at painting, proficient in English and French, and her talent is complete, even in the 21st century, as long as Lu Xiaoman appears, she still eclipses countless talented women. And Lu Xiaoman is partial to sexual affair and likes to play with men. She played with three men in her life, but in the end she didn't let herself play famous.
Lu Xiaoman's first husband was named Wang Geng. This Wang Geng should be one of the best professional soldiers in modern China. He studied at Princeton University, The Military Academy at West Point, and was a classmate of the later U.S. President General Eisenhower. When he married Lu Xiaoman, Wang zheng was teaching at Peking University. Lu Xiaoman's father saw the future of Wang Geng and married Lu Xiaoman to Wang Geng, that is to say, the first marriage of a generation of famous women Lu Xiaoman was the order of his parents.
Wang Geng
Just when Wang Geng neglected to take care of his wife, a generation of poets Xu Zhimo took care of Lu Xiaoman to bed. It is reasonable to say that Wang Geng was born into a rich family and has a strong material foundation for Lu Xiaoman to spend, which can completely allow Lu Xiaoman to live a comfortable life. However, her restless heart would not agree to be rationed to only one man for the rest of her life. Even this man is absolutely outstanding.
Portrait of Xu Zhimo, originally published in the first edition of "Ai Mei XiaoZha" in 1936
After Lu Xiaoman married Xu Zhimo, he spent 500 to 600 oceans per month, equivalent to 20,000 to 30,000 yuan today. In that era of widespread poverty, Lu Xiaoman spent so much money that he suffered the poet Xu Zhimo, who had to desperately make money in order to maintain "romantic" love.
On October 3, 1926, Lu Xiaoman and Xu Zhimo were married in Beihai Park in Beijing
Just when Xu Zhimo was desperately trying to fight for Lu Xiaoman's material enjoyment, Lu Xiaoman's spirit and flesh were derailed again. One night in Jiangnan, Lu Xiaoman, who was sickly, learned to smoke opium and needed a massage master to relieve her pain. This man was Weng Ruiwu, the son of Weng Tonghe, a teacher of the Guangxu Emperor of the Qing Dynasty.
Weng Rui noon
Chinese has always paid attention to the lack of understanding between men and women. However, Lu Xiaoman, an avant-garde woman of that era, still bravely fired at the feudal etiquette - while she was fighting with this somewhat ill-intentioned Weng Ruiwu, while nakedly displaying her flesh, she was still reciting the love poems written to her by Xu Zhimo.
On November 19, 1931, the Chinese poet Xu Zhimo died in a plane flying from Nanjing to Beiping when he was hit by a mountain mass in Jinan by a fog. He was only 35 years old when he died. Lu Xiaoman, 28 years old, was very sad after learning about it. At this point, we can take stock of Lu Xiaoman's life journey. She eagerly married Xu Zhimo in the hope of ruining the lifelong happiness of her first husband, Wang Geng, a prominent professional soldier in China. It is said that when He and Wang Geng were about to go through the divorce procedures, Lu Xiaoman was already pregnant with Wang Geng's flesh and bones. Parents on both sides hoped that she would give birth to the child, but Lu Xiaoman resolutely refused, and in the end, in order to achieve the combination with Xu, he actually went to have an abortion - this was unheard of in that era, and it was a terrible crime. Lu Xiaoman went her own way, and she ignored it. However, as a professional soldier studying in the United States, Wang Geng showed generosity and tolerance for the combination of Lu Xiaoman and Xu Zhimo.
He sent Xu Zhimo a text message, saying: "We are all intellectuals, even if I divorced Xiao Man, there is no prejudice in my heart; but you must be consistent with her after that, if you are half-hearted and give me, I will definitely use fierce means to oppose." After leaving Lu Xiaoman, Wang Geng never married a relative again, and died in Cairo, Egypt in 1942.
In the words of Lu Xiaoman's mother, "Xiao Man killed Shima, and it was Shima who killed Xiao Man." The meaning of this sentence is: If Xu Zhimo did not marry Lu Xiaoman and did not need to run around for money, he might not leave his former wife Zhang Youyi, he would be able to get financial support from his family, he would not be so tired, and he would not die in a plane crash; in the same way, if Lu Xiaoman did not leave Wang Geng, she would also be a rich wife.
After Xu Zhimo's death, Lu Xiaoman and Weng Ruiwu lived a "very embarrassing cohabitation life" until his death, which lasted for 30 years. In the past 30 years, China has moved from the old society to the new society, but Lu Xiaoman's life trajectory has not changed much: first, he is still nostalgic for opium, second, his body is still sick, third, he still has no children, and fourth, he still has to rely on men to make a living. Even though Lu Xiaoman herself was born into a famous family and was only eight years old, she still did not have the courage to come out to work, and only in her old age did she come out to become a librarian of the Shanghai Museum of Culture and History.
Lu Xiaoman and Weng Ruiwu (1957)
However, compared with Wang Geng and Xu Zhimo, this Weng Ruiwu, who also came from a rich family, is much more cunning: First, she will never divorce Lu Xiaoman, "cohabitation is OK, starting a family is not OK", often Hui teaches Lu Xiaoman, gives her a color, reflecting Weng Tonghe's treachery and trickery.
Lu Xiaoman and Xu Zhimo
Can we give a brief comment to the man who married Lu Xiaoman - Wang Geng, after marrying Lu Xiaoman, even if the Chinese soldiers are "the first marshal, the first talented, and the first means", they still cannot prevent their wives from going out of the wall. Xu Zhimo and Wang Geng were both students of the scholar and moralist Liang Qichao. For Wang Geng, Xu Zhimo was a complete sinner. In front of Xu Zhimo, Wang Geng, who "came out of power in the barrel of a gun," completely lost the battle.
For Xu Zhimo, Lu Xiaoman is indeed the eternal joy and sorrow in the heart of this wandering talent. However, Xu Zhimo and Wang Geng committed the same mistake, that is, they could not leave their wives to their best friends to manage. At the beginning, Wang Geng was busy with military affairs, hoping that Xu Zhimo could help him solve the problem of his wife's spiritual loneliness. Later, Xu Zhimo also hoped that his good friend Weng Ruiwu could help him solve the problem of his wife's poor health, and as a result, these two men let Lu Xiaoman, a special object in the world, go to the bed of others.
In this sense, a talented woman like Lu Xiaoman, whether the man married her, the final outcome is tragic and it is not good to die. Weng Ruiwu did not marry Lu Xiaoman in the end, and he escaped the robbery of beautiful women. Through the tragedy of Wang Geng and Xu Zhimo's life, can we understand the truth: beautiful women and talented women can only be appreciated, not approached?