Recently, a couple in Nantong, Jiangsu Province, was so sweet that netizens called out their teeth. In order to prevent his wife from postpartum depression during confinement, Mr. Gu sent a bouquet of flowers to his wife from time to time every day for 28 consecutive days. He hopes that his wife can be happy every day, and her smile is as bright as a flower.
Sure enough, marry the right person, every day is Valentine's Day. When you have a baby, is there anything memorable and heartwarming?
@Seven You: Night milk starts from the beginning of the month. Lying and feeding, Your Dad will support me from behind, sometimes he is sleepy and can't open his eyes, he uses his hands and arms to hold up, although he can't help feed, but this small action makes me feel that I am not alone in the fight, feeding late at night, the state of mind is lonely, a pair of hands, a little support, is the light when walking alone.
No matter how many difficulties and obstacles there are along the way, as long as there are people to accompany you, you will not feel lonely. If someone can give you companionship when you are helpless and strength when you are lonely, this is the best form of love.
@ Mimi's mother: during the confinement period, my milk is not very much, my mother and mother-in-law always chase me to ask if the baby is enough to eat, whether there is more milk today. I was really overwhelmed and always felt like I wasn't a qualified mom. Fortunately, my husband has been comforting me, while checking the information of various breast pumps and milk powder, while talking with the elders once, saying that they always mention these things really affect my mood, and then it is much cleaner, and my mood is also better.
Women from pregnancy to childbirth, the level of hormones in the body changes greatly, emotions are easy to rise and fall, at this time more need to understand and recognize from the family, only to give the mother enough love and companionship, in order to make it easier for them to get through this difficult time.
@ Little Baby of the Night Moon: My baby is a sleeping scum baby, I don't sleep much during the month, but fortunately during the day, I have my mother and mother-in-law to help me sleep a stable nap in the afternoon. At night, the baby wakes up once an hour, and the husband, although he is very busy at work, will share it with me, and we will coax the baby to sleep once. Sometimes in order to make the baby sleep more soundly, he will sit in front of the baby's crib all night, and the baby will immediately pat it twice when he moves. Although the body is very tired, but the heart is very sweet.
Many girls who were originally spoiled suddenly became the strange role of mothers overnight, and they were full of confusion about the future, plus some babies with high demand were indeed very clingy, and novice mothers were more likely to be exhausted, at this time, the understanding and care from husbands and families can help mothers stay away from postpartum depression.
@ Guo Xiaoyu: After I was delivered to the hospital by caesarean section, my husband did not sleep with me in the same bed, afraid of pressing my wounds, I wondered if the bed of one meter eight could not accommodate two people? He said he was afraid that if he habitually held me at night, he would touch the wound. So I made a bed next to my bed ~ My mother told my mother-in-law that I had a caesarean section, the wound hurt, let my mother-in-law take my son at night, eat milk is also up in the middle of the night to milk, my husband gives milk to my son.
@ Spring planting a grain of millet: When I was hospitalized, my baby father was inseparable. After giving birth, I went home with a knife pain, the baby father and the sister-in-law learned to hold the baby, hiccup, breastfeed, change the diaper, take a bath, wash the ass, and now the baby is more than four months old, still do not need me to wash a piece of clothing. When I was breastfeeding, the mastitis attack hurt so much that he strongly recommended that I wean and buy me barley tea to go to the hospital to get the milk medicine back, and now the night milk is all in his care.
@ Little Grasshopper: In the delivery room, my husband has been with me, and my husband has been letting me hit painlessly until I have been three fingers, I think I can insist on not playing, and then I opened to six fingers, I went to the delivery room to give birth, and my husband went outside the door to wait for me. Later, I heard my sister say that my husband came out and cried with his mother, no matter this boy or girl, I want this one, you see her alone in it hurt to death, I can't help anything.
@Being loved is extravagant happiness: three in the morning, just five hours after giving birth. After giving birth, my husband, mother-in-law and sister-in-law all told me that it was hard. Dinner was fed by the mother-in-law, stewed chicken soup. After eating back to the ward, the mother-in-law could not take care of the child, first called two buckets of hot water to wipe my body, including the lower body, I was embarrassed, said to go to the toilet to wipe, she said that she was afraid that I was cold and hard to wipe me, and then wipe me immediately dressed, and then fed me porridge.
Many people always think that the baby has just been born, fragile and delicate is the most important, but don't forget who painstakingly conceived in October to bring him to the world. Don't just look at the baby and snub the new mother. Whether physically or psychologically, the recovery of the new mother after childbirth is very important.
After giving birth to a baby, even strong women need the warmth, understanding and care given by their families, so let us build a happy time together with love and companionship.