Born as a human being, everyone is unique in this world, the advantages of others are certainly worth appreciating, there are some people who hope that they can have all the advantages that they do not have, a person feels that he lacks something, he especially wants to get something, this sentence is no problem, but if you give up your own advantages to imitate others, it is a very absurd thing.
As far as the definition of beauty is concerned, the popular beauties on the Internet are all large double eyelids, high nose bridges, and pointed chins. So a large number of beauty lovers at all costs, to cut double eyelids, pad nose, grind bones, play hyaluronic acid, and even some time ago there was a popular kind of elf ear, injecting hyaluronic acid (like avatar ears) on the ear. It is not to deny these behaviors, but to encourage everyone to face up to their own nature and play to their unique advantages, which is often easier and more natural than bothering to imitate others.
Some people frown all day long, lamenting their unfortunate fate: childhood abuse, loss of work, marriage failure, love breakup, etc., they use these unpleasant experiences to immerse themselves in the shadow of sadness. You know, the unpleasantness of the past is like a useless baggage, it consumes your energy, but also prevents you from accepting a new life, life is a long way, learn to let go, do not let the burden hinder you from moving forward.
The rhythm of our lives is often disrupted by all kinds of unexpected things, things that backfire often enter our world, and all kinds of stress and troubles make people anxious and want to escape from this world. Anxiety is a common phenomenon that many people have, so we must face ourselves, find a thing that can calm ourselves down, music, reading, walking, and even speaking bluntly, let us feel this lively world with a calm heart.
No one in the world is perfect, everyone will have advantages and disadvantages, we have to accept our own shortcomings, admit our own shortcomings. Even in front of other people, we should not feel that this will make us very humiliated and deliberately cover up, but rather give our shortcomings some light, which is also a sincere performance.
If fate plays a joke with you and puts you in a very bad situation, you feel that there is no hope in life, but life still needs to go on, right? You can't change this bad environment, then change your mentality first, sigh and sigh can't solve the current problem, the best way is to actively find a solution.
If our resentment toward our enemies makes us sleepless, exhausted, or even resentful, and they are still living happily, then we may be doing something extremely stupid. Even if we can't do what the sages say about loving our enemies and forgiving them, it's good to forget them.
Giving is not an order to be rewarded, and in the case of giving, it is itself a transaction of unequal value, and when choosing to give, as a giver, what you get is the joy of helping others. And the recipient is given and responds by touching his hand, which is his unilateral choice. We can't expect gratitude from others, but we can make ourselves grateful.
Author: Shang Yulan