In "Carnegie's Lifelong Happiness Advice to Women", Carnegie summarized the 9 basic skills that women should have in the world with superhuman wisdom; with rigorous thinking, he analyzed women to improve their personal charm and guided millions of women to mature as soon as possible and retain happiness forever with broad love, thus helping the majority of female friends to comprehensively enhance their charm.
Give more encouragement and praise to others, try to avoid criticism, accusations and complaints, do not force others to admit mistakes, the shame and anger caused by criticism will often make people's emotions greatly depressed, and there is no benefit to the factual situation that should be corrected.
Understand the heart behind others and praise them sincerely. Perhaps, your praise can give others hope and confidence. The world is the stage of a group of people, whether your heart can stand the test. As well, leave the protagonist to others, take the praise to heart, sincerely praise and like others.
There is only one way under the heavens to win from debate, and that is to avoid arguments. Learn to respect others, don't easily accuse others, and don't easily say "no" to each other's words
Asking for help from the heart, in a timely and skillful manner, is not a sign of incompetence, but rather a clever means. If you can ask someone to do you a favor, even if it is a small favor, then this person will be able to get a strong sense of superiority and self-respect from you.
Failure makes success possible, but not because there will eventually be a profitable opportunity. Rather, failure makes it clear that we don't have to be perfect; in fact, we can't be perfect. We need to be honest and honest, let us know about others, and let failures and mistakes be placed in the right environment. We cannot be afraid to admit that if we are growing, failure is not an anomaly, it happens every day.
In fact, the biggest danger of intolerance is that if you blame others, the result may be to lose yourself. From a small point of view, it is a mess of square inches. But after all the square inches are messed up, they lose themselves and mess up their future.
The benefits of advice are: it's easy to get others to accept your point of view; help others correct mistakes; make your relationships very harmonious; and make people work with you all the time. But your advice must be sincere and sincere.
Saving each other's face is very important--- many people follow their own feelings and disregard the self-esteem of others, and the result is uncontrollable. This is a lesson that everyone has learned. When you scold your subordinates or children, don't forget to see if anyone else is present, and then take a step back to think for the parties, and say a few more considerate words, the effect will be greater.
If a selfish person takes advantage of you, remove him from your friends list, but don't want to get revenge. Once you have revenge, the harm to yourself is definitely much greater than that to others.
In this book, Dale Carnegie uses superhuman wisdom to summarize the basic skills that women should have in the world; and analyzes the secrets of women to create personal charm and live happily with rigorous thinking.
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With wonderful explanations, tell women how to understand and capture the men they love; guide thousands of women to mature as soon as possible and retain happiness forever with broad love, so as to help women change their lives and create new people. Any woman, as long as she uses these methods flexibly and wisely, she can cross many obstacles to happiness and finally have a happy, happy, and satisfactory life.