People are eager to succeed, which is more obvious and thorough in men, but compared to men, women do not seem to prefer success, but they are more concerned about their appearance. It is said that a woman is either completely willing to dedicate her precious life for a skill, or she really cares about her appearance, even if she is an elderly village aunt and aunt, it is so; it can be said that in life, nine times out of ten women like to "pretend to be tender", if you ask her age hastily, she thinks that you are very rude!
Now, is it necessary to write "can not casually ask the age of women" into the law of interpersonal communication?
But women should be clear that what really makes you beautiful and beautiful is never your age, nor is it the face and figure of the appearance, these are all passing clouds, time is rushing, and it will not be long before they disappear.
The book has its own Yan Ruyu. Reading more, naturally will invisibly increase the charm of women, to add a unique sense of beauty to them, this sense of beauty from the bone marrow, precipitated in their own temperament, careful taste, will amaze us. And it cannot be imitated, and others deliberately imitate it, and it will only become the Dongshi of that effect.
So what do you have to do to make a woman a good woman? Can you have happiness and beauty?
A woman's true happiness and beauty can only rely on reading and relying on her own cultivation, just as Carnegie, the greatest spiritual teacher of the 20th century, said in "Carnegie's Advice to Women's Life happiness": Appearance is only a short thing after all, and the passing time will soon take it away, and only temperament and connotation can make women eternally young, and women must correct themselves, at least away from these three points.
First, do not be a complaining woman
Carnegie in the book probably said so, many women are not beautiful, the key is that they are dominated by emotions, whenever they encounter a little frustration and hardship, it feels that the heavens deliberately straightened her out, think about it, and their hearts are irritable, so they begin to complain about life and complain about heaven, and slowly their emotions are out of control and they become a "complaining woman".
Complaining about life for many years will make you ugly, because when you are angry and irritable, harmful hormones will be secreted in your body and damage your face.
In fact, there is no point in doing so, can complaining solve the problem? Not at all.
Only with a good attitude and practical actions to properly solve the problem is the best medicine.
Besides, when a woman complains about life, she will invisibly carry a fierce spirit, and no one dares to approach her, nor does she want to play with her, let alone become beautiful and beautiful.
So-called, the temper is instinctive, the temper is taken back is the skill, women should also control their temper, let the emotions stabilize, in all nodes of life can maintain a stable state of mind, so that the efficiency of work will be better, life is better, happier.
Second, do not be a woman who talks nonsense
Compared with men, women's words are more, they are often delicate and sensitive, so when they encounter a little big and small things, they have to talk to their girlfriends and sisters non-stop. There may be some women who will express their own voices too directly when complaining about things, with rude language and foul language, which will lose the good feelings of outsiders to you.
It is clear that this woman looks good, slim, and fashionable, but the coarse language is difficult for outsiders to accept, and at the same time, it exposes her inner quality; on the contrary, the truly cultivated women are never like this, they will not talk randomly, often be careful in words and deeds, and will not hurt each other in language.
After doing this, the temperament and demeanor of women will also come, naturally it will win the favor of others, others will express their satisfaction with you, and you will be full of joy when you mention it, naturally, you will feel happiness.
Three, do not be a woman who wastes time
Do the above two points, is still only the foundation, just the theoretical course, women do not waste time, this is the essence. Anyone who wants to succeed and excel, must cherish the current minute and second, the so-called inch of time and an inch of gold, only by not wasting time and squandering time, people can enrich their hearts more.
After all, every woman is inevitably aging, and the difference is that good women have the right to choose how to get older.
That is to cherish time, do not let beauty in your waste of time, covet the moment of enjoyment and gradually aging, only seize the current time, continue to cultivate themselves, even if the years pass, but in the end can still win their own true female charm.
In addition to daily work and study, we also have to read more books and read good books. To read more classic masterpieces, there is no harm in the end, it seems to be useless, but these books are secretly hidden in your temperament, so that you exude a sense of beauty from the depths of your heart, making people feel like tasting a cup of tea, lasting and amazing.
Carnegie also believes that if a woman wants to get real happiness and beauty, that is, read more books, exude temperament and charm from the heart, for this reason, he studied human nature for many years, and finally wrote a woman's "success cheats" - "Carnegie's Lifelong Happiness Advice to Women", the book focuses on telling women how to cultivate their charm, how to make themselves temperamental, even if they are old, old still beautiful and moving, do not read do not know, a reading is frightened, you may not know, It turns out that I can become so good!
No matter what age you are in in life, you should read this book carefully, because it is a treasure trove of happiness for a woman's life! Take the love between young men and women now, if you learn this book, you will be able to win in love and successfully capture the hearts of men. If all the women came to read this book carefully, presumably, the scumbags in the world should also be laid off.
Because the woman in that situation must be temperamental and attractive, if you look closely, she may not look good, emaciated or obese, but there is always an indescribable sense of beauty that surrounds her.
We are all just ordinary people, limited cognition, inevitably take detours, but listen to the advice of experts and celebrities, we can avoid those unnecessary detours, and better and earlier to achieve their own lives.