The lower a person's level, the more he likes to show off these things
preface:
"The saddest person in the world is that he does not have enough advantages to show off.
But it also disguises its pitiful inferiority complex with obnoxious arrogance and boasting. "----- Carnegie
Each of us wants to show the best of ourselves on the outside.
But a person's real vision and mooncake can not be put on,
It has a lot to do with how many books he's read, what kind of roads he's traveled, and what kind of people he's seen.
In fact, in my opinion, the really powerful people are always constantly surpassing themselves,
In the end, they become the object of admiration of others, and those who are timid will only succumb to the arrangements of fate.
Gradually we will see that the more people who work harder, the more powerful they are,
As everyone knows, the more we fall to the low level, the more we like to show off, and we should not make deep friends after we meet.
There is no distinction between people, but the level of taste and level is different for everyone.
A person does not depend on how good his origins are, but in his character and cultivation.
A person's understanding and interpretation of life determines his state of life and also determines the height of the level of life.
Therefore, the higher the spiritual level of those people, the higher their comprehensive quality.
The lower the level of the person, the more he likes to show off, and in doing so, it also lowers his taste in life.
1. Show off your wealth
In fact, the more a person has nothing, the more he will show off something.
We usually have such a person around us, they like to show off their wealth,
For such people, there is no longer any pursuit of life other than money.
We must know that the level of a person is not measured by money, but by one's own cultivation.
Those who have money do not necessarily have high incomes, but they will be hated by those around them.
Because the more you like to show off, the more you will be remembered by the people around you, and such a day cannot be happy and satisfied.
2. Show off your happiness
Many people around us like to show off their happiness,
This will inevitably unconsciously increase the bad feelings of others, and thus want to stay away from you.
Happiness is not something that everyone can identify with, and you think that happiness is not necessarily happiness in the eyes of others.
Happiness requires us to feel it ourselves, not to talk about it.
If we are always around others to say that we are happy, others will get tired of listening more.
Because good love needs to accumulate a little bit and experience yourself rather than showing off.
3. Show off your cleverness
There are many people in life who like to show off everywhere because they have a good education or what kind of world they have seen.
They don't know that there are people outside of man, and there is a sky outside the sky. Doing so will only become a joke in the eyes of others.
Those who are really smart, they never take the initiative to show off themselves, but make it for everyone to see.
So people who like to show off their intelligence are just trying to satisfy their vanity.
4. Show off past achievements
A really good person rarely shows off his previous achievements,
Because they know that these things are already in the past, they have only come out to say it, and there is no point.
It is undeniable that you were very good in the past, but people cannot live in the past.
In life, they always show off their former great people, and their lives today are often very unsatisfactory.
So only those at the lower levels will take the past achievements to show off and find self-comfort.
In fact, people get along with each other, and a person's identity cannot be exchanged for respect.
Only by comparing hearts to hearts can we exchange mutual contact and respect.
The more high-level people of this kind are in a high position, the more low-key and sensible they will become.
On the contrary, only those at the lower levels will assume a condescending appearance by virtue of their so-called identities.
So every adult understands this truth, and the more everyone lacks something, the more they show off something.
The best way to live in a lifetime is not to show others anything, but to live what you really live.
Conclusion:
The interaction between people is equivalent exchange,
So if we want to really gain the respect of others, we still need to work hard to improve ourselves.
So we must not show ourselves after thinking about achievements.
To use a low-key lifestyle, to earn their own quality and level.
When you stop high-profile and show yourself, it means that you have succeeded.
At the same time, the people around you will also look up at you.
"The most important moment in life is whether you can give full play to your skills,
And make others respect your value. "---- Carnegie
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References | Journal of consulting and clinical psychology