Ms. Liu decided to divorce her husband, and she put forward two reasons for divorce, and she was tired. Ms. Liu and Mr. Yang are free love, 13 years of married life, the two sides from intimate lovers to strangers who cannot communicate. Because of the problem of children, they often quarrel. However, when his wife filed for divorce, Mr. Yang couldn't think straight and couldn't understand. When it comes to the depression in married life, Ms. Liu's eyes are full of tears.
Mr. Yang feels that the main contradiction is that the children have to study, and the husband and wife are separated, which for some reasons the children cannot go to high school. At this time, Mr. Yang proposed to transfer the child to his hometown to study, but his wife had an opinion, in her opinion, no one in the hometown had a child, and the child was also in a rebellious period, and it was not suitable to send the child back to the hometown. And the husband actually said to let the teacher take the child, which made Ms. Liu feel that her husband was a bit unrealistic to think about the problem. Every time Ms. Liu wants to communicate, the two will quarrel, which promotes the occurrence of divorce incidents later.
For her husband, Mr. Yang, Ms. Liu feels that she is just a shadow husband. Not only is it not helpful in the children's further education, but even the daily expenses of the two children are borne by themselves. Although the husband usually sent money over, he was eventually taken away and spent. That year, Mr. Yang built a house, and the economy became no longer rich. However, in the face of such a situation, Mr. Yang actually borrowed money to build a house, which undoubtedly increased the financial burden of the family. In Ms. Liu's view, her husband only cares about her own life and has never considered how their wives should live their lives.
Looking at himself with two children, the husband not only did not share, but also felt quite taken for granted. What Ms. Liu never expected was that when she solved one thing every time, it would even cause Mr. Yang's dissatisfaction. At that time, my daughter was almost going to kindergarten, and she was always chasing for a hukou. The husband has not acted, so the wife decided to put the daughter on her mother's household registration, the parents paid more than 10,000 yuan to handle it, but if you want to go to the household registration, you must change your surname, so the daughter changed to the surname of Ms. Liu. After the hukou was done, he returned home for the New Year, and the husband quarreled with himself, not to say that Ms. Liu and her parents had joined forces to deceive him, in his opinion, the wife had already premeditated and wanted her daughter to follow his surname. For Mr. Yang's dissatisfaction, Ms. Liu felt aggrieved, and her parents paid and contributed to solve the problem of their daughter's household registration, not only did not get the thanks of her husband, but even caused his dissatisfaction.
Three years ago, Ms. Liu, who lived in two places, couldn't stand it and had to argue every time she called, so she filed for divorce from her husband. Once Ms. Liu bought some snacks for the child to eat, the husband hid it, the child was unhappy and complained to Ms. Liu, and for this matter, the husband and wife quarreled again. The husband is too strict with the education of his children, and he is also full of resentment against himself, so the wife really can't stand it, and all the grievances she has suffered in the past have all erupted at this moment, and she said to her husband: Forget it, we are not noisy, we are not strong, let's go to divorce.
I thought that the two people would end up like this, but I did not expect that after a year, Ms. Liu actually offered to remarry. It turned out that Ms. Liu considered the feelings of the two children, so she proposed to Mr. Yang to remarry. Mr. Yang also considered the child and agreed to Ms. Liu's request. However, after that, Mr. Yang's performance once again disappointed his wife, and many times, the husband would not consider the children, which made Ms. Liu very disappointed.
The observer spoke quickly, pointing out that although the couple remarried, their feelings for each other did not return, but only out of consideration for the child. The observer told the couple that feelings were the basis of marriage. For Ms. Liu, I hope that she will no longer just escape, but learn to help her imperfect husband, learn to be sincere, honest and out. For Mr. Yang, life is too rigid and rigid, itself is separated between two places, and what needs to be done is to close the distance between each other's hearts, rather than push away.
Ms. Liu promised to give each other another chance. After going through the splits, it was clear that they had a longer way to go. In real life, many objective factors have caused couples to live apart. For couples living apart, there are often more practical problems to be faced. The education and development of children is one of them. Only by strengthening emotional communication between husband and wife, tolerance and understanding of each other, can geographical distance be overcome. And the distance of the heart is closer, the feelings of husband and wife can be strengthened day by day, and the marriage can withstand the test of life and sail to the other side of happiness.