We have grown up when we were young, and the people who grew up with us have grown old.
"I'm old, but I still don't forget my original intentions, my thoughts are still lovely, and my heart is still full of love."
This is the status that Wang Jie shared in Weibo.
As can be seen from the uploaded photos, the 59-year-old Wang Jie has two white sideburns, a blessed figure, and wrinkles in the corners of his eyes that constantly remind us: the prodigal son of the song world was really old.
Speaking of Wang Jie, many young people may not be familiar with this name, but in the 1980s, he was the prince of love songs that became popular in the Chinese music scene. His songs are so sad that few people know that it is the pain caused to him by his family.
Abandoned by his parents at the age of 12, squeezed out of his ex-wife when he divorced, his son did not know himself, the property was sold by his mother, how much heartache was hidden behind the former singer?
Some people say that children are creditors of their parents' past lives, but Wang Jie's parents are like his debt collectors.
Wang Jie's origin starting point is actually not low, his parents are artists signed by Shaw Film Company, he can be regarded as the second generation of stars, he is also a child star, performing in the theater, using the performance fees he earned to increase the family's economic income.
The sensible Wang Jie, who grew up under the "stick" education of his parents, once recalled that when he was a child, he was always beaten and scolded by his parents, and he was willing to stop until his hands were bloody.
At that time, Wang Jie's mother was eager to become famous, so she filmed a restrictive film, and his father could not bear it, and ended his marriage for many years when Wang Jie was 12 years old. I thought that the miserable life of being abused by his parents could be over, but what Wang Jie didn't know was that in that year, he was completely abandoned by his parents.
After the divorced parents sent Wang Jie to a boarding school in Hong Kong, they left without leaving a penny and have been flying away ever since.
Wang Jie can only rely on classmates to help and work odd jobs around to barely survive, and his tragic childhood makes Wang Jie too precocious and lonely.
At the age of 15, he met his first love.
It was a dance party held at the school, and the lonely Wang Jie had no dance partner. At this time, he saw that there was a girl on the other side who was watching the crowd dancing alone, but no one invited her to dance, and Wang Jie thought that this girl was as lonely as himself, so he boldly went up to invite her.
When dancing, the girl's legs and feet were somewhat inflexible, and Wang Jie knew that this foreign girl had a leg disease, but he didn't care. In this way, the calm teenager and the innocent girl quickly walked together.
The first love is beautiful, and Wang Jie feels unprecedented warmth from the girl.
The good times did not last long, and when the girl wanted to follow her father back to China, when she left, they made an appointment to see each other, and what Wang Jie did not know was that the parting at that time was a farewell.
It was many years before he learned that the girl had unfortunately suffered a car accident after returning to China and died on the spot.
This short and tragic first love has become Wang Jie's best memory, in order to express his thoughts for the girl, he wrote the fire throughout the country "Annie", this song is known as the saddest song in Wang Jie's musical career.
Many people are touched by this song, what they don't know is that this relationship is actually just the beginning of his tragic emotional life.
At the age of 19, Wang Jie, who worked at the ice rink, fell in love with a girl who "smiled and fell in love".
Their acquaintance is actually very cheesy, it is the story of the hero saving the Beauty and the girl making a promise to each other.
Once on the road, he saw the girl being bullied by the hooligans, the young and vigorous Wang Jie saved the girl, perhaps for the girl, Wang Jie at that time was the prince who rode a white horse to take her out of the suffering, so the two fell in love.
But the girl's parents looked down on Wang Jie, a poor boy, and resolutely opposed the love affair between the two, and Wang Jie, who was in love, eloped with the girl.
After living together, the girl became pregnant, Wang Jie did not have a household registration, in order to be able to give the child a household registration, he decided to go to Taiwan for military service, and in desperation, he could only entrust the girl to the care of his mother who had not been in touch for a long time.
Two years later, when Wang Jie returned home after military service, he thought it was a scene of family reunion, but the empty home was only his mother and his daughter waiting to be fed.
Mother told him that your wife could not bear the pain and had run away. It didn't take long for Wang Jie to discover that everything was his mother's lie.
Wang Jie recalled that it was difficult to describe his mother in words, and when he was with his wife, his mother often drank heavily, and even brought some messy men home, and asked his wife to dance with them.
Wang Jie left the family with his daughter and lived a life without a fixed home. What does a poor young boy who has nothing do to support himself and his daughter? There is only one answer, that is, to fight with your life.
The father and daughter live in slums, because there is no household registration, Wang Jie can only do the bottom work, and have to do several jobs a day to barely make ends meet.
In order to let his daughter eat a good meal, the desperate Wang Jie could only take his daughter to eat a bully meal with his scalp. When he ran away from the hotel with guilt in his heart, what he didn't know was that his father lived in the high-rise neighborhood near the hotel.
Years later, Wang Jie appealed at the concert that my wife was dancing and that if time could be turned back, I would do anything for her.
Wang Jie also has a hobby of music creation.
In 1987, Wang Jie ate Li Zongsheng's closed door soup. Fortunately, there is no invincible road, and producer Li Shixian introduced him to Li Shouquan, who knows Taiwan's UFO Records.
Li Shouquan admired Wang Jie very much, and after seeing his works, he customized an album for him.
Wang Jie's record not only broke through the original sales of 200,000, but even climbed all the way, this album is "a game a dream", since then Wang Jie's life is like hanging, get the award to get soft, count the money to the soft.
At this time, Wang Jie met his second wife, Mo Qiwen.
The shadow left by his parents' marriage and the previous relationship made Wang Jie have no intention of getting married again, until he brought Mo Qiwen home, and the daughter thought that this woman was a mother she had never met before, and blurted out her mother
Wang Jie suddenly realized the importance of the family, and his daughter also needed someone to take care of, and soon married Mo Qiwen, and this marriage lasted only three years.
The marriage began with the daughter and ended with the daughter. Wang Jie recalled that after marriage, Mo Qiwen's temperament changed greatly, and her attitude towards her daughter was completely different from that before marriage, and when Wang Jie was not at home, Mo Qiwen drove her daughter out of the house and let her wander outside.
When the two divorced, the son was sentenced to Mo Qiwen, and the woman created some handles of Wang Jie, took away most of the property, and restricted Wang Jie's right to visit his son.
Wang Jie said that the last time he saw his son was when he was fifteen years old, and when he was more than two years old, his son was taken away, and Mo Qiwen never let him contact him alone. The last time Wang Jie ate with his son, he felt very sad and warm, and he was eager to find an actor to film this scene.
Unfortunately, Wang Jie, who has experienced so much hardship, still has not ushered in his own beautiful life, and bad luck seems to be entangled with him.
In 2001, Wang Jie, who was in the midst of a popular career, inadvertently drank a poisoned drink at an event, his vocal cords were severely damaged, he could no longer sing like before, and his proudest black hair fell out of little, and the wig he had been wearing since then.
After all, he was too popular at that time, and it was difficult for the younger generation of singers to surpass him in the singing world, as the saying goes, deeds are higher than people, and everyone must not do it. Without Wang Jie being strong, we could only pit him and make him not excellent.
Wang Jie said that he knew in his heart who the person who poisoned him was, but he would not expose it, he said that things had happened, and trying to improve himself and make himself better was the biggest revenge against the murderer.
But the wicked have their own harvest, and it is said that the young man who was poisoned is now doing the low-level work of cement workers in Southeast Asia.
So what about Wang Jie, whose career and marriage have been tragically unfortunate, what about family life? Some people say that wives can change many, while mothers only have one. Have he and his mother been released from their former suspicions?
Wang Jie has always been a filial piety, but unfortunately his mother is not a loving mother, and has always caused trouble for Wang Jie. After Wang Jie became famous, he assigned his mother a mansion and a nanny, but his mother was still not satisfied and privately sold Wang Jie's property.
Wang Jie once funded one of his mother's relatives for more than six million, and after getting the money, the relatives turned their faces and were ruthless, and Wang Jie complained to his mother. Instead of facing her son, the mother roared in anger, "If he wants you to die, you will die for me immediately in front of him?" Wang Jie was heartbroken after hearing this, and asked, Who will raise you when I die?
Mother said calmly, Your dead property is naturally mine.
Any son will be chilled when he hears his mother say this, especially Wang Jie, who complains with virtue, and he decides not to meet with his mother again, leaving a large amount of money for his sister and no longer interacting with his mother.
We can't help but lament the scenery on the stage, the poignant love song prince Wang Jie behind him, his life experience makes people sympathetic, his songs make people heartbroken, his personality is touching, and he complains about his mother with virtue. Anyone who encounters such a mother may resent it, but he repeatedly does his best to repay the mother.
He had given everything to his daughter, he had said that he had thought of committing suicide in times of difficulty and despair, but what about his young daughter? The first wife has been lost, and entrusting it to the mother is even more bizarre.
Now that Wang Jie's suffering has passed, I hope that he can let go of everything in the past and enjoy his life again. After working hard for most of his life, he can live for himself once and enjoy his old age.