Wang Xinjun is the husband of the famous actor Qin Hailu, and at the same time, he is also a masculine and rare good actor. "Independent Column", "Anti-Japanese Hero", "Hero Advance Company", "From General to Soldier" starring him are quite popular with the audience.
In January 2014, Wang Xinjun married Qin Hailu, and the couple worked together to become a model couple in the entertainment industry. Just a few months after the two were newly married, Wang Xinjun's father and brother died one after another, and he and his wife Qin Hailu could only give up all their work and become the spiritual pillar of their mother.
Wang Xinjun, who has become a famous actor from a peasant child and returned to his parents, is definitely an example for young people to learn.
First, Wang Xinjun, who was benevolent and righteous from childhood
Wang Xinjun, a native of Lanzhou, Gansu Province, was born in 1971 to ordinary workers to ordinary parents and has a younger brother below.
Because of the general family conditions, Wang Xinjun has been sensible since he was a child, and after school, he will not only help his parents cook, but also become a "little expert with his brother", and his relationship with his brother is very good.
After entering junior high school, Wang Xinjun's size swooped down and became a tall and mighty young man, and the phenomenon was very good. It just so happened that the school drama troupe absorbed new members, and Wang Xinjun was selected.
After many encounters with drama, Wang Xinjun fell in love with acting, and his heart also planted the seeds of being a drama actor. In 1987, Wang Xinjun graduated from junior high school and applied for the Gansu Provincial Repertory Theatre.
At that time, the major drama troupes were very fond of masculine boys, and Wang Xinjun was fortunate to be admitted and embarked on the road of drama performance.
Unfortunately, after entering the 90s, the TV drama industry rose, the drama industry gradually withered, and there were few plays in the troupe a year, which made Wang Xinjun scratch his ears and scratch his cheeks.
In order to enrich himself, he is not afraid of getting dirty or tired, often doing odd jobs in the group, and the leaders like this diligent young man.
In 1991, the famous director Shi Chenfeng went to Lanzhou to shoot a play, and the troupe arranged for Wang Xinjun to do logistical work, and he was diligent, careful and sincere, which impressed Shi Chenfeng. Later, Shi Chenfeng heard that Wang Xinjun was also a drama actor, so he made an exception and arranged a small role for him in the movie, which made Wang Xinjun happy.
When the crew disbanded, Shi Chenfeng said to Wang Xinjun: "Young man, the current market environment is changing, you should keep up with the situation." You work hard, your image is good, you should consider becoming a movie actor, I am very optimistic about you. ”
Shi Chenfeng's words made Wang Xinjun quite moved, and then he picked up the textbook and frantically absorbed cultural knowledge, hoping to be admitted to the Beijing Film Academy.
Wang Xinjun, who had worked hard to review for a year, was actually admitted to the Beijing Film Academy in 1992 and began a four-year study of acting.
In the face of Nortel's tuition fees, the family started to worry again, because the parents' salaries at that time were not high, Wang Xinjun had no work in the regiment, and the salary was very small, and the family could only piece together to make up for Wang Xinjun's tuition.
Looking at the family's embarrassment, Wang Xinjun is very uncomfortable, the four years of college have never played arbitrarily, as long as he goes to the crew to run the dragon set during the holidays, the money earned is either given to his parents or paid tuition for living expenses, and he never wastes.
Because Wang Xinjun was diligent and frugal, when he graduated from college, he not only did not drag down the family, but also saved twenty thousand yuan, which was not easy.
Second, give up high salaries to do north drift
In 1996, wang Xinjun graduated from Nortel, and the Gansu Repertory Theatre invited him back and promised to allocate Wang Xinjun with a two-bedroom house with a good salary.
After thinking about it again, Wang Xinjun still refused the invitation of the troupe, because he knew that the drama had gradually declined, and even if he returned to Gansu, he did not have much work, but just lived in the name of a college student.
Subsequently, Wang Xinjun rented a square in Beijing, bought a bicycle, and went around every day to send photos and materials, hoping to get the opportunity to act.
Almost every day, he would ride tens of kilometers, and sometimes come home at night, his legs as if they were filled with lead, but he was never discouraged.
In the first few years, Wang Xinjun ran the dragon set in many film and television dramas, sometimes with lines, sometimes without lines, he took it seriously and looked forward to the opportunity to come.
Although the days of looking for a job were hard, in the midst of the hardships, Wang Xinjun gained love.
In 1997, When Wang Xinjun was filming "Lu Brothers", he met the actress Tang Jing. Both of them are unknown actors, and they understand the heartache of being actors, and they come together under pity for each other.
Tang Jing is 4 years older than Wang Xinjun, is an actor in the Air Politics Repertory Theatre, and has acted in several TV dramas before starring in "Lu Brothers", and is relatively more experienced than Wang Xinjun.
The two fell in love for half a year and held a wedding, at that time Wang Xinjun had no house, no car and no savings, but Tang Jing did not care, and became a solid backing for Wang Xinjun.
In 1999, Tang Jing gave birth to a big fat son for Wang Xinjun, gradually gave up his career, became a full-time mother, and did not come back until 2003, leaving a lot of good works.
Wang Xinjun has also starred in "Heroes Without Regrets", "Song of Youth", "Guardian of Peace", "Yellow River Love", etc., and his career has begun to show signs of rising.
Third, work harder because of your family
Who knows, the weather is unpredictable.
In 2000, Wang Xinjun, who was filming on the crew, received a phone call saying that his father was hospitalized for cirrhosis of the liver, and that the hospital had issued two critical illness notices, asking him to hurry back.
After hurriedly putting down his work, Wang Xinjun rushed to his home to learn that his father had long been hospitalized, but his mother did not want to delay his work, so he hid it for a while, but now his father's illness at home, can only call him home.
Looking at his elderly mother and brother who had just stepped into society, Wang Xinjun felt a heavy responsibility on his body, and then he took out all his savings to treat his father's illness, even if the medicine was expensive, he did not hesitate.
Fortunately, with the efforts of the doctor, my father finally got out of danger, and his body recovered little by little. In order to accompany his father, Wang Xinjun stayed at home for more than two months before he finally returned to Beijing with full of worries.
In the face of Wang Xinjun's filial piety, Tang Jing also understands, has been contributing money, but also bought imported drugs from Beijing and mailed them back, hoping that the old man can recover quickly, Wang Xinjun is also very grateful.
After returning to Beijing, Wang Xinjun felt that his ability was limited and he needed to work harder to bear the sudden change of family, so he became a workaholic.
In the following years, Wang Xinjun became a "desperate sanlang", shooting nearly 20 TV series in just a few years, becoming a "tough guy professional".
However, the busy work made him neglect his family, and his relationship with Tang Jing also cracked.
Wang Xinjun is a Native of Lanzhou, with a rough and brash personality and a big grin in his style; while Tang Jing is a Jiangsu native, with the gentleness and delicacy of a small woman in Jiangnan; the living habits of the two have great differences.
Moreover, since the birth of his son, Wang Xinjun has been busy with work, neglecting to take care of his wife and children, which has also triggered some family conflicts. Therefore, in 2009, the two went through divorce procedures under the consultation of many parties.
But at that time, their son was just 10 years old, just in a sensitive period, in order not to cause harm to the child, the two just divorced, but did not announce it to the outside world, for fear of making the child uncomfortable.
After recovering from singleness, Wang Xinjun was stationed in the crew for many years, shooting 11 TV series in 2010 and 2011 alone, and he fell asleep every day when he was tired, and he didn't even have time to think wildly.
Fourth, the encounter with Qin Hailu is known
In June 2011, Wang Xinjun's partner Qin Hailu starred in "Independent Column", just entered the crew, Qin Hailu found him and said: "I think there are some places in the script that are unreasonable, let's both sort it out, sort out the problems, and go back together to communicate and change it." ”
At first, Wang Xinjun felt that a small hairy man was still quite horizontal, and his impression of Qin Hailu in his heart was not good.
Unexpectedly, after the two met again, Qin Hailu pointed out some problems in the script one by one, and took Wang Xinjun's heart into submission, and was no longer embarrassed to despise Qin Hailu.
Subsequently, the two began to chat around the script, art, etc., but they did not expect that the more they talked, the more speculative they became, and there was a feeling of "seeing each other and hating the night".
On the set, both are excellent actors, serious about the scene, memorizing lines, and studying the next scene together, both respecting each other and getting more and more temperamental.
Once filming an explosion scene, the environment in which the two were in was very dangerous, but Wang Xinjun took the initiative to protect Qin Hailu, which made her quite moved and also moved her heart for Wang Xinjun.
However, in the crew, the two did not point out the relationship, after the scene, when the two participated in the publicity activities together, Wang Xinjun showed his heart and came together.
In November 2012, the relationship between the two was exposed, and in July, they posted their marriage certificate and became a formal couple.
In order to gain the recognition of Wang Xinjun's family, Qin Hailu accompanied Wang Xinjun back to his hometown many times, coupled with her cheerful personality, the old man liked her very much, and the family was very supportive of them together.
But because of the busy work, the two only got a marriage license, has not done the wedding, dragged around, Qin Hailu accidentally became pregnant, the two decided to hold a wedding on the National Day in 2014.
For this wedding, Qin Hailu ran before and after, set a high-end hotel and a wedding company, and also spent a lot of wedding supplies at a high price, who expected the accident to come.
Fifth, the younger brother and the father died one after another
In September 2014, Wang Xinjun, who was filming on the crew, received a call from Qin Hailu, saying: "You must be mentally prepared, don't get excited." Wang Xinjun's heart was immediately tugged, and he had a bad premonition in his heart.
Qin Hailu said, "My brother left because of a car accident." Wang Xinjun was confused at once, he grew up with his brother, the two brothers had a good relationship since childhood, and his brother was still so young, how could he leave?
Wang Xinjun quickly packed his bags and went home, and then hurried to call his mother, and the mother and son cried relatively on the phone, and could not even say words to comfort each other.
At that time, Qin Hailu was already 6 months pregnant, and Wang Xinjun and her mother advised her: "Stay in Beijing with peace of mind, everyone in the family understands, and we must put our bodies first." ”
However, Qin Hailu did not listen to him, and had to rush back to Lanzhou with a big belly and Wang Xinjun. On the road, taking a plane and a car, Qin Hailu walked all the way and vomited all the way, and was tortured.
But after returning to Wang Xinjun's hometown, she was not squeamish at all, and after helping the family to help them, she always accompanied Wang Xinjun's mother to comfort the elderly and let Wang Xinjun love and respect.
After bidding farewell to his brother, Qin Hailu wanted to take the two old people to live in Beijing, but the two old people did not agree and wanted to accompany their daughter-in-law in their hometown, and in the end they could only give up this plan.
But they did not expect that a few months after they left, the father fell ill because he could not stand the death of his young son.
At first, the old man was only hospitalized intermittently, and did not want to tell Wang Xinjun and Qin Hailu. It wasn't until December 2014 that the family informed Wang Xinjun that he would go home to send his father on his last journey.
At that time, Qin Hailu was about to give birth, and Wang Xinjun wanted to return to Lanzhou by himself, but Qin Hailu was still very insistent, and he also had to follow him to send his father-in-law on his last journey.
On January 2, Wang Xinjun's father died, he and his mother were cut off, and the four members of the original family went to two mouths at once, which can be imagined.
After taking care of his father's affairs, Wang Xinjun and his mother were depressed, and Qin Hailu enlightened her husband and said, "You can't immerse yourself in sadness, our mother still has to rely on you to enlighten, and the children in my belly still have to rely on you to raise them." ”
Although there were wounds and tears in his heart, Wang Xinjun still perked up, and together with Qin Hailu, he untied his mother and offered to take his mother to Beijing to live.
At first, my mother still disagreed, saying: "I have lived in Lanzhou for half a lifetime, I don't want to go anywhere, you go, don't worry about me, I am in good health, and the neighbors will take care of me." ”
Wang Xinjun was anxious when he heard it, but fortunately Qin Hailu was wise and wise, and he comforted his mother-in-law and said, "Mom, I understand you very well, if I had lived in Lanzhou for a lifetime, I wouldn't want to leave." But, Mom, we need you so much. You see I am about to give birth, need to be taken care of, the child also needs your care in the future, looking for people outside to see the child we are not at ease, or grandma is the most intimate. ”
When Wang Xinjun's mother heard this, she immediately changed her attitude and finally agreed to follow the couple to Beijing to live.
Sixth, the filial piety of Wang Xinjun and Qin Hailu
After returning to Beijing, Qin Hailu has been unwell because of the rush on the road, and on January 28, her abdominal pain was unbearable, so she gave birth to a big fat son, and the mother and child were safe.
Life is reincarnated, the old man leaves, the child is born, Wang Xinjun's mother wept with joy, and the sad emotions finally had an outlet.
In order to accompany his mother, wife and children, Wang Xinjun put down all his work, took over a play for a whole year, and became a full-time father.
In order not to let his mother immerse himself in sadness, he asked his mother to give his sister-in-law a hand, change the child's diaper, wash milk, bathe, and cook, so that the old man has a sense of value and existence, and the old mother's mood is getting better day by day.
Wang Xinjun, on the other hand, is grateful for Qin Hailu's respect for his family, cares more about his wife, and takes care of everything throughout the month, which can be called a 24-year filial piety husband.
Wang Xinjun once said in the variety show: "The reason why I spoiled her so much is because she deserves it, and the respect, understanding and love she gave me and my family are something I will remember all my life." ”
Therefore, the mother circled around the child, and Wang Xinjun circled around Qin Hailu, giving her massage, laundry, and cooking, and he was willing.
In order to make Qin Hailu's body recover quickly, her mother also used the native method of her hometown to stew chicken soup and boil herbs, and also cared for Qin Hailu, and the family was happy and harmonious.
In order to alleviate her mother-in-law's homesickness, Qin Hailu also specially found several Lanzhou hometown groups, let her mother-in-law join in, and chat with her fellow villagers from time to time to pass the time.
As the old saying goes, mother-in-law is a natural enemy, but this sentence does not exist between Qin Hailu and her mother-in-law, because Qin Hailu has a cheerful personality and understands the difficulties of her mother-in-law; and the mother-in-law is also grateful for the daughter-in-law's efforts.
With the backing of her mother-in-law, Qin Hailu came back after childbirth, and successively starred in "If Life Deceives You", "Red Sorghum", "Women Are Not Strong", "You Are Late for Many Years", "Old Tavern" and so on, which are very classic.
Wang Xinjun and Qin Hailu, a husband and wife, support each other in their careers, understand each other in life, and give the old mother a happy old age together, which is worth learning from young people.
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