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William Chen
Edited by William Chen
Preface
Love is a seed that will never wither, it needs to be nourished with patience and care, in order to bloom in the gentle sunshine.
However, some parents often inadvertently leave this seed in the cracks of their lives, causing it to gradually fade and wither, and lose its original color.
Wang Xinjun started to pursue his dream
The road to chasing dreams is never achieved overnight, it requires you to work hard with perseverance, in order to finally bloom a brilliant chapter in the thorny bushes.
Wang Xinjun is a dreamer, he started from an unknown small town boy, with his pure love for stage art, and finally broke into the Provincial Drama Theater and achieved his brilliant career and life.
It all started with a brave decision.
At the age of 16, Wang Xinjun mustered up the courage to apply for the acting major, a decision that completely changed the trajectory of his life.
In the face of strong opposition from his family, his deepest desire is like a raging flame that no one can extinguish.
He proved to the world that dreams are not just empty words from the mouths of romantics, and that if you have enough courage and determination, you will be able to turn it into reality.
In this way, the young Wang Xinjun survived the difficult initial stage step by step.
On that old and small stage, he seems to have been reborn, and every performance is an opportunity to stride forward towards his dream.
When he stood in the spotlight for the first time as a young man, his whole body was filled with an unprecedented sense of confidence and glory.
Their generation is the dreamers of youth, and they burn every moment of life with the desire of dreams.
Meet mentors and reap the rewards
On the road of chasing dreams in life, the guidance of a mentor and friend can get twice the result with half the effort.
Wang Xinjun is the lucky one, in the days of the theater, he got acquainted with his mentor Shi Chenfeng.
This experienced drama master not only discovered Wang Xinjun's innate talent, but also polished this brilliant diamond little by little with strict requirements and sincere guidance.
Every time he gave advice and every time he explained, Shi Chenfeng unreservedly integrated his wisdom into it.
Under his words and deeds, Wang Xinjun remembered the teachings of his mentor and tried to present his best in every performance.
The audience has never seen such an outstanding young actor, they were deeply impressed by Wang Xinjun's superb acting skills, and saw a new vitality and vitality in the classic repertoire.
Step by step, Wang Xinjun quickly transformed from a new actor to a well-deserved stage star.
Everyone saw the sparkle of this once ordinary boy, the brilliant flower that dreams bloomed on his young torso.
Now he has become the most brilliant ray of light on the stage, and countless dreamers have regained their yearning and hope for the future under its guidance.
fell in love with Tang Jing and broke up
On the road of chasing dreams in life, love often comes suddenly like a shower, adding a bit of romance to the originally peaceful life.
The popular student Wang Xinjun soon met the next love in his life, that is, Tang Jing, a veteran actor who has become famous.
Although there is a world of difference between the identities and backgrounds of the two, the persistent love for stage art has brought them closer unconsciously.
Again and again discussed the play, again and again the exchange of ideas, the tacit understanding at work quietly evolved into an emotional bond.
Under the light of the spotlight, in the days and nights of rehearsals, they all found each other's unique light.
From acquaintance to acquaintance, to love, it all seems to happen naturally in the filming scenes of the movie.
Soon after, they stepped into the palace of marriage and began a seemingly beautiful marriage.
In order to support her husband's career, Tang Jing resolutely gave up everything she had and devoted herself wholeheartedly to the family.
She conceived and raised two children, took care of the housework every day, and tried her best to create a warm little world.
But at this time, Wang Xinjun's career began to take off, and he gradually neglected to care about his wife and children, and finally in 2009, the two announced their divorce.
The consummation of the second marriage
After the divorce, Wang Xinjun soon married actor Qin Hailu in 2014 and started another marriage in his life.
For 36-year-old Qin Hailu, this is a new beginning, for this marriage in her later years, she resolutely put down everything she has and devoted herself wholeheartedly to family life.
A year later, in 2015, they ushered in the arrival of their only child, and the arrival of this little life brought Wang Xinjun an unprecedented sense of happiness.
In order to accompany his wife and children well, he even temporarily stayed away from work and devoted himself to his family.
In Qin Hailu's eyes, her husband is like a different person at this moment, gentle and considerate, and he uses actions everywhere to interpret the responsibilities and responsibilities that a father should have.
Every time he changes diapers and does housework for his children, Wang Xinjun is full of tenderness and patience.
It was as if he wanted to use this hospitality to make up for his debt to his ex-wife and eldest son.
In this small family, warmth and joy are everywhere, and a family of three is like the happiest person in the world.
The years passed quietly, and as the days passed, they established their own little world in this small city, and the child was the master of this world.
But outside of this perfect family of three, Wang Xinjun's eldest son is in a completely different world.
As an innocent child, he did not receive the fatherly love he deserved and could only grow up alone in a long wait.
This is undoubtedly a heavy blow to the child's psychological development, and will leave an indelible scar on his life path.
The price of a father's lack of love
Looking back on Wang Xinjun's two married lives, it is not difficult to find that his impact on his two children is so huge and completely different.
As for the eldest son, he has been absent for many years, and it seems that he has forgotten this child in a corner of his life;
For the youngest son, he gave the ultimate love and affection, as if he wanted to condense all the tenderness on this child to make up for the guilt in his heart.
The reason for this may be the living environment and family changes that have contributed to this result.
However, a father's discriminatory behavior is bound to bring indelible scars to the children.
Without paternal love for a long time, children will not only feel abandoned and their self-worth will be damaged, but they may also have obstacles in interpersonal and emotional development in the future, such as withdrawn and introverted, insecure, etc.
In more extreme cases, these traumas can lead to serious aggressive behaviour and even a path of delinquency.
At the same time, excessive spoiling can also shape a child who is selfish and lacks empathy, and loses the correct outlook on life and values.
It is difficult for them to adapt to society and even more difficult to make deep connections with others in their relationships.
Therefore, a father's responsibility is not only to earn money to support the family, but more importantly, to give enough care and guidance to the children, so that they can grow up healthy and happy.
Although it will not be easy to completely heal the rift in the father-son relationship now, it will never be too late with sincere action and consistent efforts.
Perhaps through a phone call, a video call, or a long-lost family reunion, Wang Xinjun can reconnect with his eldest son, and let him feel that his father's love and support have never disappeared.
epilogue
Family is the warmest harbor in a child's life, and father's love is the most important support for this harbor.
It allows children to have their own power from birth and lay a solid foundation for future growth.
Wang Xinjun's story shows that an absent or discriminatory father can eventually inflict irreparable damage on his children.
Therefore, every parent should cherish the present, treat every child fairly, and warm every pride in life with selfless love and patience.
Only in this way can the family become the warmest haven in everyone's heart.