Under the wide attention of the public, Qin Hailu went from an acting actress who won the Golden Horse Award to unexpectedly embarked on the road of being labeled as a "third party".
When the outside world was talking about how much she valued emotions, Qin Hailu's life ushered in a shocking change.
She became a mother, a mother who did not hesitate to give her all in the face of her child's serious illness. Although in the eyes of some, her reputation has been tarnished by her status as a "third party", her deep maternal love for her children has won the hearts of many.
Wang Xinjun and Tang Jing used to be a model couple in the eyes of everyone, and in the early days of marriage, their sweetness was envious of others. However, as time went on, the two were often separated due to their busy schedules, which put a strain on their relationship.
Tang Jing, a woman with a successful career, has a strong personality and sometimes tough words, while Wang Xinjun has a traditional expectation that she can take on the responsibilities of her family. When two tough personalities are together, there will inevitably be friction, and over time, these small contradictions eventually evolve into irreparable emotional rifts.
After the marriage hit the rocks, Wang Xinjun met Qin Hailu. Qin Hailu, a talented actress, is also a public figure who actively participates in public welfare. The encounter between Wang Xinjun and Qin Hailu seemed to be very beautiful, and the two quickly fell in love.
But when this relationship was made public, the divorce process between Wang Xinjun and Tang Jing had not yet been completed, and they were still legally husband and wife. Therefore, Qin Hailu was regarded as a "third party" by the outside world and suffered sharp accusations and criticism, which also had a great impact on her career.
Qin Hailu felt extremely unfair about this. In her opinion, Wang Xinjun and Tang Jing's marriage exists in name only, and she doesn't think there is anything wrong with her relationship with Wang Xinjun. However, in the eyes of onlookers, she is still burdened with the disgraceful label of "third party".
In fact, the breakdown of Wang Xinjun and Tang Jing's marriage is beyond Qin Hailu's control. As a strong woman, Tang Jing's tough personality made Wang Xinjun feel a lack of respect. And Wang Xinjun's traditional concept also makes the two incompatible in life. The small frictions on weekdays eventually accumulated into big quarrels, which led to the breakup of the two.
The marriage between Wang Xinjun and Tang Jing, with the passage of time, has lost the warmth and harmony of the past. The pressures of a career, combined with the increasingly rare moments they get together, have left the relationship lacking the necessary nourishment and mutual understanding. Their alliance seems to be gradually dissipating in silence, rather than being destroyed by the so-called "third party" from the outside world.
When the relationship between Wang Xinjun and Tang Jing was broken, Qin Hailu walked into Wang Xinjun's life. For Wang Xinjun, Qin Hailu is the beginning of a new chapter of love, not the fuse of marriage breakdown. Although she chose to fall in love with Wang Xinjun without completely dissolving his previous engagement, this decision made her bear the blame of injustice.
On a bright spring day in 2012, the encounter between Wang Xinjun and Qin Hailu was like fate. After a marriage, Wang Xinjun is more cautious about love, but Qin Hailu's appearance makes him excited. Qin Hailu's gentleness and understanding made Wang Xinjun feel unprecedented peace and comfort, and they immediately fell in love.
Wang Xinjun's care and care for Qin Hailu is all-encompassing, he treats her like a treasure, and takes care of her every emotion. When misunderstandings and criticisms from the outside world followed, Wang Xinjun always stood firmly by Qin Hailu's side to protect her dignity. He firmly believes that the pure emotion between the two will be enough to withstand any rumors, and time will eventually tell.
Qin Hailu's feelings for Wang Xinjun are deep and sincere. In the autumn of 2013, Wang Xinjun's father suffered a heart attack and had to be hospitalized. Wang Xinjun was eager to return to his hometown to serve his father, but the constraints of work made it difficult for him to leave for a long time. At the moment when he felt helpless, Qin Hailu resolutely took on this family responsibility, personally went to the hospital to take care of his father-in-law day and night, and took care of his daily life during the day.
At the same time, Qin Hailu and Wang Xinjun's wedding was originally about to take place, but considering the health of Wang's father, the two agreed to postpone the marriage. With the gradual recovery of the royal father, the family members' impression of Qin Hailu changed heartily, and they began to be full of respect and appreciation for her.
In the blink of an eye, the winter of 2014 came, and Wang Xinjun's family suffered another blow, and his younger brother unfortunately died in a car accident. At that time, Wang Xinjun was not at home, and there was no member in the family who could take on the heavy responsibility. At this critical moment, Qin Hailu stepped forward, and despite being pregnant, he still worked tirelessly to deal with all the grief and aftermath.
Wang Xinjun, who learned all this, was full of self-blame and gratitude in his heart. He is infinitely grateful to Qin Hailu for his dedication. Now, Qin Hailu has brought a new life to the family, making Wang Xinjun believe that he has found the most precious partner in his life. The two have gone through countless challenges and hardships together, supported each other, and walked through them together, and their relationship seems to be a match made in heaven.
In 2015, Qin Hailu experienced a major test in her life. When she was nine months pregnant, she had to undergo cesarean section, and her baby weighed as much as 9 pounds at birth, which was significantly beyond the regular weight range of 5-8 pounds for newborns. This situation implies that her child may be at risk of macrosomia, a condition that can pose a threat to the baby's health. Faced with such a situation, Qin Hailu felt unprecedented hopelessness, and the effects of postpartum depression made it difficult for her to take care of herself, let alone take care of her newborn child.
At this difficult time, her husband Wang Xinjun took decisive action and decided to temporarily separate Qin Hailu from the child, leaving his mother to take care of Qin Hailu while he took care of their child wholeheartedly. Wang Xinjun even gave up his job to become a full-time househusband to ensure that he could take the most considerate care of his wife and children. As time passed, the child's health gradually improved, and Qin Hailu's depression was also alleviated.
Now, as the children grow up, every outing of this family is full of joy and warmth. In a variety show, Qin Hailu shared her experience back then, and she said that those difficult days have become a thing of the past. From her words, we can sense that the family is enjoying their happy time.
Wang Xinjun confessed in an interview that the plight of the child's birth also made him feel hopeless. As a father, he was under tremendous pressure to face the fear of potentially losing his child. But he soon realized that he couldn't give up and had to hold up for the family. Therefore, he asked his mother to take care of his sick wife, while he himself took care of the child day and night, feeding them carefully. Fortunately, with the professional treatment of the doctor and his tireless efforts, the child was finally out of danger.
Wang Xinjun said that during the most difficult days, he always reminded himself to stay optimistic and strong, because this positive attitude can have a positive impact on patients. He also cooks himself, prepares nutritious food for his wife and children, and regularly takes Qin Hailu out to relax. They supported each other during this difficult time and did not choose to give up or give up on themselves, which was the result of the joint efforts of the whole family. Now, with the healthy growth of the child and Qin Hailu's emotional recovery, Wang Xinjun considers this to be the proudest achievement in his life.
Their relatives and friends were also sincerely happy to see that Qin Hailu's family had regained their happiness. Qin Hailu's friend Xiaofei recalled Qin Hailu's depressed state during the postpartum period and felt heartache.
Now seeing that she has regained her happy smile, Xiaofei sincerely wishes her and hopes that she can continue to be happy. Qin Hailu's neighbors also said that he often helps them, sending fruits and vegetables, and doing his best to reduce their stress. Seeing the happiness of their family now, the neighbors think this is the best ending.