A few days ago, Kotani and his friend had a dispute over a loan, and finally broke up. A friend hopes to pay off the loan within a month, but Kotani is hesitant due to his personal financial situation. My friend thinks it's a trivial matter and shouldn't be entangled in it. Because of this, the two became suspicious, and finally shielded each other. In fact, people who really care about you will not hide their emotions in front of you, and people who are not attentive to you will avoid talking about money.
I once had a friend who lived with his girlfriend in a simple room, although he was poor but deeply affectionate. They don't care about material things, because they know that although money is small, it is enough to make the two of them live warmly. My friend never talked about money in front of his girlfriend because he didn't think his lover should worry about these trivial matters. However, without the support of his girlfriend, how can he get through the difficulties? Money is indeed a mirror that can reflect the truth of human nature.
Borrowing money is the best test of human nature. Look at a person's attitude towards borrowing money, you can know whether he is sincere or not. Wang Xifeng in "Dream of Red Mansions", in order to seek Jia Lian's trust, did not hesitate to send the maid out. When Jiafu fell, although she was seriously ill, she still did not forget her old feelings and entrusted her maid to Jia Lian. However, in reality, there are also people like Wang Xifeng, who do not hesitate when borrowing money, but avoid talking about it when repaying it. They take advantage of the trust and affection of others, but forget to be grateful and reciprocate.
Writer Zhang Xiaoxian once said: "Money is not everything, and if you don't have money, you can't." "It is true that money is a tool to achieve dreams, but it should not be the whole of life. Some people are lost for money, and some people give up their emotions for money. True friendship and love, however, are built on emotion. Those who are genuinely good to you may not be rich, but they will definitely take your needs to heart. True love is selfless giving, and it is being willing to give up everything for you.