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The husband and wife have been married for four years, but they live like roommates, and the wife is still as guarded as jade "Source: The official account of Xunqingji The wife is like a jade after marriage, and the man wonders: Why can't I influence her?

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The husband and wife have been married for four years, but they live like roommates, and the wife is still like a jade

"Source: Xunqingji Official Account The wife guards herself like a jade after marriage, and the man wonders: Why can't I influence her?  》

There is such a couple, they have been together for six years, including two years of love and four years of marriage, but in these six years, the man only held the woman's hand, not even hugged it, and once when the man wanted to get close to the woman, he was beaten by the woman.

Their marriage is complete, the bride price and the wedding should not be left behind, but the woman has always refused to get a certificate with the man, nor is she willing to sleep in the same room, they all sleep separately, as if marrying a roommate who shares a house.

This made the man's family very suspicious of the motive of this wedding, could it be that the marriage was cheated? Everything has to start from the beginning.

In 2017, Guo Bin was still a single dog, but he was thirty years old, and his family was very anxious, and they all wanted him to marry a wife and have children quickly, so they arranged a blind date for him, and in this way, Guo Bin met Tan Beibei, who was one year younger than him.

Guo Bin and Tan Beibei's situation is almost the same, they have never been in love, so they have no experience in love, and in the end, the two decided to give it a try first, and just like that, the two were together.

This time I tried for two years, and during these two years, like other couples, they ate together, watched movies, dated, and got along, and the relationship between the two also heated up rapidly.

The parents on both sides saw that the two got along well, so they urged the two to get married quickly, and the two naturally had no problem, and after negotiation, the Guo family decided to take a bride price of 108,000 yuan, plus three gold and scattered, a total of about 1230,000 yuan.

Seeing that the Guo family was full of sincerity, the Tan family was not stingy, and directly married a car of about 150,000 yuan, which shows that the two families are also very interested in this marriage.

In this way, Guo Bin's family spent nearly 100,000 yuan to hold a beautiful wedding, and for this reason, the old couple of the Guo family almost spent their savings, but the accident happened on the night of the candle in the cave room.

It stands to reason that the newlyweds are going to sleep in the same bed on the wedding day, but at night, Tan Beibei actually made a very excessive request, saying that they would sleep in separate rooms, Guo Bin felt that it was the first time after all, and his wife was more shy, so he agreed.

But what Guo Bin never expected was that this point was four years, and in the past four years, Guo Bin said that he couldn't make out with his wife if he wanted to, and even if he hugged him, his wife would beat his nose and face was swollen, so the two only remained in the stage of holding hands in the past six years.

The Guo family's parents were also very happy to see their son get married, because they were finally about to hold their grandson, but after four years of marriage, their daughter-in-law's stomach did not move at all, which made the old couple very puzzled.

The old couple found an excuse to come to their son's house, but they were surprised to find that they slept in separate rooms, and Guo's mother hurriedly asked her son if he had quarreled.

Guo Bin said no, he has always been very accommodating to her, he didn't let her do any housework, and the salary was handed over in full, Guo's mother was relieved, but during the meal, Guo's mother found that something was wrong, and the husband and wife didn't care about anyone, which made her very puzzled.

took Guo Bin aside and asked what happened, Guo Bin tried his best to cover it up, but he still couldn't hide his mother's sharp eyes, so he had to tell his mother that the two of them had only been husband and wife for four years of marriage, and there was no husband and wife.

Guo's mother was also very surprised after hearing this, no wonder she couldn't hold her grandson for four years, it turned out that the problem was here, she immediately asked Tan Beibei, and asked her why she was married, but she refused to share the same room with her son, didn't this make their family die?

Tan Beibei said: "His feet are so stinky, the whole room is stinky, I want to vomit when I smell that smell, how can I sleep together." ”

But is it just because of the smell of feet? The answer is definitely not, after continuing to ask Tan Beibei, Tan Beibei also said a lot of reasons, such as: the bed is hard, Guo Bin is sloppy or something, every word is revealing his disgust for Guo Bin.

This made them wonder if they had encountered a fraudulent marriage, and they immediately found Tan's mother, who said that if they cheated on marriage, why should they marry a car of 150,000 yuan?

They didn't know what to do for a while, and then Guo Bin said: "She (Tan Beibei) once told me that I would give her 4,000 yuan a month to give me a child, but after a few months, when I wanted to get close to her, I was beaten badly." ”

Later, after asking Tan Beibei the reason, Tan Beibei said excitedly: "I have so much financial pressure every year, you don't break it down for me, why do you want to give birth to children for you without working?"

But Tan Beibei has never gone out to work since she got married, she has always stayed at home and swiped her mobile phone, and she doesn't do housework at home, where is the financial pressure? Is it just an excuse? Tan Beibei never loved Guo Bin in the first place?

Tan Beibei said that it was not that she would not give birth to a child for the Guo family, but that the economic conditions did not allow it, she wanted Guo Bin to start a family first, and Guo Bin wanted to start a family first and then start a business.

After that, Guo Bin's father said: "I think forget it, it's not necessary, she never calls people here (changed her name to parents)"

Tan Beibei also said that he could divide it and agreed to return the bride price, but the Guo family also wanted to return the car for the dowry, and made it clear that they wanted a new one, not the previous one.

But since the car came back, the key was hidden by Tan Beibei, Guo Bin's family has never driven much, how can it be counted on his head, and Tan Beibei has never done anything since she married into their family, and Guo Bin is not a husband and wife, so the bride price should be returned.

In the end, the two families had a disagreement over the bride price, and Guo Bin couldn't stand it anymore, so he left first and decided to use the law to protect his interests, and their marriage was over.

Finally, I hope everyone understands that since they have decided to come together, they should work together for this small family, help each other and support each other, so that they can maintain their small family and obtain a happy marriage.

The husband and wife have been married for four years, but they live like roommates, and the wife is still as guarded as jade "Source: The official account of Xunqingji The wife is like a jade after marriage, and the man wonders: Why can't I influence her?
The husband and wife have been married for four years, but they live like roommates, and the wife is still as guarded as jade "Source: The official account of Xunqingji The wife is like a jade after marriage, and the man wonders: Why can't I influence her?
The husband and wife have been married for four years, but they live like roommates, and the wife is still as guarded as jade "Source: The official account of Xunqingji The wife is like a jade after marriage, and the man wonders: Why can't I influence her?

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