On the country roads in the countryside, there is a philosophical saying: "The family lives in a tic-tac-toe house, and the poor and the family perished." The "tic-tac-toe" referred to here is not a luxurious architectural style, but rather a living environment that is considered ominous. By explaining the connotation of this proverb, the article reveals the reasons why people have a negative connotation of "tic-tac-toe house".
First of all, the layout of traditional rural houses focuses on daylighting and neighborhood care, and most rooms are consistent in height and distance. On the other hand, "tic-tac-toe houses" are considered bad because they are often taller than the surrounding buildings, which may affect the daily lighting effect of the surrounding houses. Tall houses block out the sunlight and bring shade to the neighborhood, making it unpleasant for those who live around.
Secondly, security is also one of the reasons for people's dissatisfaction with "tic-tac-toe houses". These houses are built at major traffic intersections and can easily attract the attention of thieves and can lead to theft of family property. In modern times, such a location is also prone to traffic accidents, which can bring disaster to families. As a result, people's insecurity about this type of housing increases.
Finally, the importance of neighborhood relations in rural communities cannot be overstated. Building tall houses can cause dissatisfaction among neighbors, as it not only affects the overall atmosphere of the surrounding houses, but can also ruin good neighborhood relations. In the traditional rural society, neighborly harmony and mutual care are the ideal state pursued by people.
However, "the family lives in a tic-tac-toe house, and the poor family is ruined" is not absolute, and the fate of the family cannot be judged simply by the external form of the house. True happiness and an ideal life do not depend only on the shape and height of the house, but more importantly on the mutual care and joint efforts of family members. This proverb is only a façade and does not truly reflect the happiness of the family.
