Fu's eldest brother died unexpectedly in a car accident, leaving an inheritance of more than 1 million yuan. After 2 months, his wife, Sister Xiao, preferred to sever ties with her son and bring home a mysterious man with an "awkward identity", and the reasons she gave were noncommittal.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="3" >01 A contradiction caused by a car accident</h1>
Fu Eldest Brother did the fruit business before his death and had little success. Together with the car accident compensation, his estate is more than 1 million.
20-year-old Xiao Fu, after the death of his father, in addition to 2 young siblings, Xiao Dajie is his only living relative.
However, since the death of Brother Fu, Sister Xiao has undergone great changes:
Often lie out at night, and do not return at night. Later, she even drove her son Xiaofu out of the house, changed the lock in the house, and did not let Xiaofu eat and live at home. Every time Xiao Fu came home, Sister Xiao stared at the back like a surveillance prisoner.
2 months later, the mother brought a man home, and his identity was also very embarrassing.
Relatives and friends, neighbors and neighbors, talked about Sister Xiao's behavior and pointed out. They argue that:
Others have a crush on her money, otherwise who would want to be the stepfather of three children? As a mother, she has a huge amount of money and other men to have fun, but she is uneasy about her own children, and it is not appropriate to be polite.
Xiao Fu said: I don't object to my mother finding another partner, but this man alone can't. Either the mother chooses this man, or they break off the mother-child relationship.
And Sister Xiao persisted in "love" and said to her son: Who she is with is her business, and Xiao Fu has no right to interfere with her own happiness.
The relationship between mother and son will reach a freezing point, and each will not give in to each other.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="24" >02 Mysterious man with an awkward identity</h1>
The man Xiao Fu has always opposed is not an outsider, but his father's best friend, Mr. Chen.
What is even more surprising is that Mr. Chen is not divorced and is not single.
Mr. Chen knew that the wife of a friend should not be deceived and should avoid suspicion; he also realized that it was not right to do so, and it would hurt two women, but he did not regret it.
Mr. Chen said: Now that he has truly found happiness, his 10-year marriage is just a mistake he made when he was not careful.
According to Mr. Chen's logic, if you don't go back, you will hurt your wife, and if you return to the family, you will hurt the woman you are now. Anyway, no matter how you choose, it's a mistake. He said: He can only choose to hurt his wife and is going through divorce procedures.
Mr. Chen believes that his choice is based on his own conscience. Being responsible for the woman now also reflects his due responsibility as a man.
Mr. Chen's logic is truly puzzling. That being the case, why not stop before the mistake begins?
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="41" >03 Mother-child estrangement has a long history</h1>
When his father died, Xiao Fu was debauched and unlearned, and did not learn any techniques, which broke the couple's heart. Three of these things made Sister Xiao feel angry about her son.
The first thing is that the son once took 12,000 yuan and tricked his parents into going out. It was later discovered that this was nothing more than a hoax created by the son and another girl for their parents. In the end, the father took home his son, who had lost all his money.
The second thing is: Bought a computer of more than 5,000 yuan for his son, and within two months, he was stolen by his son and sold it for 1,000 yuan.
The third incident occurred after the death of Fu's eldest brother. For the sake of business, the mother took 118,000 yuan and put it at home, but her son secretly took it. It cost 40,000 yuan a month.
Therefore, the mother guarded her son like a thief every time, carrying her bag on her body at all times.
Of course, the son also has his own troubles, he feels that since the death of his father, the mother has focused on the man, snubbing, doubting, scolding and even driving himself out, leaving him in a state of loneliness and helplessness.
Xiao Fu said: He almost doesn't know himself anymore. His current state is also something he does not want to see, and he has deliberately made it for his mother to see.
Mothers love their children, and there is no doubt that children love their mothers, there is no doubt about them. It's just that they're all using the wrong way.
The mother's ruthlessness is actually the helplessness after hating iron and steel. The son's indulgence is to hope to get revenge after the failure of the mother's love.
However, the tip of the needle to Mai Mang, to put it bluntly, in addition to hurting the people closest to him, what should outsiders do?
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="64" >04 Mother's "bad luck"</h1>
Mr. Chen was The best friend of Fu's eldest brother. Fu's eldest brother died suddenly, the business encountered difficulties, a weak woman with three children, what would she do? Everyone else is waiting to see the joke.
Dealing with 10,000 pounds of bananas every day, Sister Xiao has to get up at 2:30 every night, her physical condition is not good, and she also has to take care of 3 children, especially her exhausted son XiaoFu.
In the midst of the "crisis", Mr. Chen took the initiative to call Sister Xiao. For Sister Xiao, the appearance of Mr. Chen is undoubtedly a charcoal in the snow and a reassuring pill.
So, the two naturally walked together.
Xiao Fu asked his mother: Daddy is all your good, have you forgotten?
Sister Xiao said lightly: No way, he has passed away, I can't rely on it. I'm a woman and don't want to be alone for the rest of my life.
Is this an excuse for finding men for yourself? When my son grows up, can he help? Can you also find other men? According to Xiao Fu, someone once introduced a single man with no family, no children and no daughters to his mother, but his mother refused.
A woman, pulling three children, taking care of the business, is really not easy. This shows the greatness and preciousness of single families who no longer look for the other half for the sake of their children.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="83" >05 The transformation of the son</h1>
Sister Xiao said: As long as Mr. Chen is willing to divorce his wife and live with her, he is willing to follow him.
Xiao Fu angrily rebuked his mother: As a mother, you should not have a relationship with a man with a family, which is a mother's responsibility and due example.
Xiao Fu came to his father's grave and spoke to his father in his heart: he experienced the painstaking heart of his father's education in those years, and in the future, he would be a good person, change his heart, find a good job, support the family as soon as possible, and will not disappoint his father.
Under the communication of the reporter who was looking for love, the mother and son made a "one-year contract." At the end of the story, he packed his bags and went to work in the field. Within a year, he wanted his mother to see his growth and transformation. Also in this year, my mother and Mr. Chen only talked about career, not feelings.
This is the promise of the little payment to the parents, but also the goal set for themselves, but also the last chance to regain the mother's love.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="96" >06 love language</h1>
Sister Xiao has a saying that makes people impressed: "I am a woman, and I can't support the family alone for a lifetime."
In fact, Sister Xiao is busy with her career and children, and ordinary people cannot imagine that she is hard and tired. However, it always feels strange to say the phrase "can't live without men" from her mouth. Besides, hard work cannot be an excuse for "rushing to the doctor". In the face of love, at least we must adhere to the minimum bottom line and principles.
In your opinion, is it the son who destroys the mother's "love"?